A Million Other Choices
από Kim Toller
Why Doesn't She Just Leave? The Truth About Abusive Relationships
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When my niece was murdered in 2018, my interest in true crime turned to an obsession. I respect the victims and their families because I’ve been there. Every victims story deserves to be told. No chatting about my personal life or witty banter….I just get right to the case and tell the victim’s story.
My personal story can be found in Season 1, episodes 17&18.
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- Why Doesn't She Just Leave? The Truth About Abusive Relationships · 11 λεπ."Why doesn't she just leave?" It's one of the most common questions people ask when they hear about domestic violence—but it's also one of the most misunderstood. In this episode…
- Ted Bundy: The Making of the Bundy Myth — Part 5 · 40 λεπ.Once Ted Bundy was permanently in custody, the murders stopped. But the mythology exploded. Cameras entered the courtroom. Reporters discovered a defendant who could talk, joke…
- R. v. Droste - A Case of Intent · 40 λεπ.What happens if someone intends to kill one person... but accidentally kills someone else instead? Can the intent to commit murder "transfer" to an unintended victim? It sounds…
- Ted Bundy: They Finally Have Ted — Part 4 · 42 λεπ.In August 1975, police finally had Ted Bundy in front of them. A suspicious traffic stop in Utah leads investigators to a Volkswagen containing handcuffs, a crowbar, rope, a ski…
- Amy Allwine · 52 λεπ.When Amy Allwine was found dead in her Minnesota home in 2016, it initially looked like a tragic suicide. But investigators quickly uncovered a trail of encrypted messages…
- Why Killers Insert Themselves into Investigations · 11 λεπ.Have you ever noticed how often a killer seems to show up in the middle of an investigation? They join search parties. They give interviews. They attend vigils. Some even call…
- Ted Bundy: The Man Named Ted — Part 3 · 51 λεπ.By the summer of 1974, police in Washington knew they had a serious problem. Young women were disappearing. Witnesses were reporting suspicious encounters. And then, at a crowded…
- Aaron Scheerhorn · 53 λεπ.When Aaron Scheerhorn was stabbed to death outside a Houston nightclub in 2010, investigators believed they quickly found their suspect. Six eyewitnesses identified Lydell Grant…
- Ted Bundy Series - "Ted" part 2 · 42 λεπ.Ted Bundy had learned how to look normal. He was educated, politically ambitious, seemingly charming, and building the kind of life that made people believe they knew exactly who…
- Kendrick Johnson: Accident, Murder, or Something In Between? · 43 λεπ.In January 2013, 17-year-old Kendrick Johnson was found dead inside a rolled-up gym mat at his high school in Valdosta, Georgia. What followed was years of controversy, lawsuits…
- Why we Ignore Dangerous Men, Until it's too Late. · 13 λεπ.Ever notice how, after a tragedy, the same comments always seem to appear? "We all knew something was off about him." "The signs were there." "Nobody is surprised." So if the…
- Ted Bundy: Before He Became a Monster — Part 1 · 43 λεπ.Everybody knows the name Ted Bundy. But before he became one of America's most infamous serial killers, he was Theodore Robert Cowell. In Part One of this six-part series, we go…
- When Consent Wasn't Enough: The Case of Armin Meiwes · 22 λεπ.In 2001, a man placed an advertisement online looking for a willing participant in one of the most disturbing fantasies imaginable. Shockingly, someone answered. This week we're…
- Ressler vs. Gacy · 38 λεπ.When FBI profiler Robert Ressler sat down with John Wayne Gacy, he wasn't looking for a confession—he wanted to understand how one of America's most notorious serial killers…
- Mindy Morgenstern · 24 λεπ.Mindy Morgenstern, a bright, kind, and ambitious college student whose life was brutally cut short in 2006. When Mindy failed to show up for work, her family knew something was…
- What Actually Happens During an Autopsy? · 35 λεπ.When most people hear the word "autopsy," they immediately think of crime shows, murder investigations, and cold stainless-steel tables. But what actually happens during an…
- Tammy Holmolka · 1 ώ. 2 λεπ.Most people know the names Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka. Far fewer know the story of Tammy Homolka. Before she became a victim, Tammy was a bright, athletic teenager with her…
- Austin Pikaart · 33 λεπ.Austin Pikaart was just 17 years old when his mother, Katie Austin Lee, killed him in their Holland, Michigan apartment one day before his 18th birthday. In this episode, we look…
- Lauri Waterman · 33 λεπ.Lauri Waterman was murdered in November 2004 in the tiny community of Craig, Alaska. Two men would admit their roles in her death. But the most complicated question in the case…
- The History of Miranda Warnings and Why They Exist · 38 λεπ.Today we are talking about something almost everyone has heard in movies and TV shows: “You have the right to remain silent…” But where did the Miranda warning actually come…
- The Pickton Murders: How So Many Women Were Failed · 1 ώ. 35 λεπ.Today we are covering one of the most disturbing, heartbreaking, and important cases in Canadian history… the murders committed by Robert Pickton. But this story is about far…
- Melanie Ethier · 29 λεπ.On the night of September 29, 1996, 15-year-old Melanie Ethier did what thousands of teenagers had done before her—she walked home after spending the evening with friends. She…
- The Murdaugh Murders · 50 λεπ.The Alex Murdaugh case wasn’t just about murder — it was about power, control, corruption, and a man who believed the rules didn’t apply to him. In this deep dive, we unravel the…
- The Psychology of “Undoing” After Murder · 39 λεπ.After some murders, killers do something unexpected. They cover the body. They clean the victim. They pose the scene. They call 911. Sometimes they even express grief or remorse…
- Mimi Torres · 42 λεπ.What happened to Jacklyn “Mimi” Torres Garcia? Full breakdown of the Mimi Torres Garcia murder case and Karla Garcia’s involvement. Support this podcast at —…
- Daniel Wozniak: When the Spotlight wasn't Enough · 27 λεπ.Today we’re talking about a case that, at first glance, almost feels surreal — like something pulled straight from a script. But this story isn’t fiction. And at the center of it…
- The Science Behind Blood Spatter Analysis · 43 λεπ.Blood spatter analysis has become one of the most recognizable forms of forensic science in modern true crime. But how accurate is it really? In this episode, we’re diving into…
- A Mother of Five Vanished | The Shirley Duguay Story · 39 λεπ.Today we’re heading to Prince Edward Island — a place known for quiet roads, close communities… and, in this case, a story that unfolded behind the kind of normal life no one…
- Tara Calico · 30 λεπ.Tara Calico vanished during what should have been an ordinary bike ride in New Mexico. Months later, a mysterious Polaroid photograph sparked worldwide attention and decades of…
- The Bain Family Murders · 1 ώ. 11 λεπ.This is one of those cases that doesn’t just stay in the past… it lingers. It argues back. It refuses to sit quietly in a neat little conclusion. The Bain family murders shocked…
- Someone Has To Clean This: The Hidden World of Crime Scene Cleanup · 41 λεπ.When detectives leave a crime scene… someone still has to go back inside. In this episode, we’re talking about the hidden world of crime scene cleanup — the people responsible…
- When Alcohol, Anger, and the Law Collide: Cameron Sayine · 26 λεπ.Today’s case isn’t just about what happened… it’s about why it happened—and how the law decides the difference. In the Northwest Territories, the case of Cameron Sayine raises…
- Julie Dart · 49 λεπ.Julie Dart was a young woman with her whole life ahead of her when she vanished without a trace after finishing work. For weeks, her family searched for answers, hoping she would…
- Martin Duram · 29 λεπ.Today’s case is one of the most unusual I’ve ever covered—and honestly, one that sounds almost too strange to be true. In May of 2015, Martin Duram was found shot to death inside…
- The Disturbing Psychology of Women Who Love Serial Killers · 23 λεπ.In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most uncomfortable and fascinating corners of true crime psychology — the women who idolize, marry, defend, and obsess over violent…
- Georgi Markov · 23 λεπ.In 1978, Bulgarian writer and journalist Georgi Markov was walking across Waterloo Bridge in London when he felt what he described as a small prick in his leg. Within days, he…
- Dorothy Stratten · 25 λεπ.Dorothy was young, kind, and by all accounts, trusting. She had just begun building a life for herself — one that was finally starting to belong to her. But behind the scenes…
- Why is it called Scotland Yard? · 17 λεπ.Everyone has heard of Scotland Yard. It's become synonymous with detectives, murder investigations, and some of history's most infamous criminal cases—from Jack the Ripper to…
- Canada's Dealth Penalty Explained · 10 λεπ.Why did Canada abolish the death penalty? And why has it never returned — even after some of the country’s most horrific murders? In this episode of Let’s Talk About Murder, we…
- The DeFeo Family Murders · 38 λεπ.The case that became one of the most famous “haunted house” stories in the world — but before all of that… there were real people. On November 13, 1974, six members of the DeFeo…
- Natalie Bollinger · 33 λεπ.A 19-year-old young woman whose life was cut tragically short after reaching out online, looking for connection… and finding someone who would ultimately take everything from…
- Clayton Otis Jacquard | A Night That Turned Deadly · 29 λεπ.Today we’re talking about a case that, on the surface, might seem like a sudden act of violence… but when you look a little closer, there are often signs — small moments, shifts…
- Let's Talk About Murder - Parricide · 22 λεπ.Today we’re talking about something that makes people deeply uncomfortable… and honestly, it should. Parricide — when a child kills their parent. It’s one of those crimes that…
- Vanessa Marcotte · 26 λεπ.A 27-year-old woman who was home visiting her family… doing something so normal, so routine… that none of us would think twice about it. She went for a run. And she never came…
- Bijan Ebrahimi · 23 λεπ.Bijan Ebrahimi was a vulnerable man who repeatedly sought help from authorities after becoming the target of hostility and false accusations in his Bristol neighbourhood. Instead…
- The Psychology of Body Concealment in Criminal Cases · 36 λεπ.In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most disturbing and misunderstood aspects of homicide investigations: post-crime body concealment and forensic cleanup. Why do…
- Gary Kenney - The Mom Who Turned her Son into a Killer · 37 λεπ.Gary Kenney was 50 years old when he was murdered in his Merritt Island, Florida home in June 2008. What followed was the unraveling of a deeply disturbing family conspiracy…
- The Hannah Clarke Story · 31 λεπ.Today’s episode explores the tragic murder of Hannah Clarke — a case that brought national attention to the dangers of coercive control and intimate partner violence. We discuss…
- Is NCR Being Overused? Let’s Talk About Murder · 32 λεπ.Despite it being in my notes correctly. I mistakenly refer to the children’s mom as Darla…it is Darcie Clark! Not Criminally Responsible (NCR) verdicts often spark outrage and…
- The Allen Schoenborn Case | When Mental Illness Meets Murder · 49 λεπ.In 2008, a devastating crime shocked Canada when three young children were killed by their father, Allen Schoenborn, during a custody dispute in Merritt, British Columbia…







