Coaching Real Leaders
by Harvard Business Review / Muriel Wilkins
How Do I Stay Motivated After the Role I Wanted Went to an External…
About this podcast
We all want to get to the next level of our career, but so many of us get stuck. Longtime leadership coach Muriel Wilkins takes you inside real-life leadership coaching sessions with high performers working to overcome professional challenges and grow as leaders. Listen in on real conversations and leave with new insights and practical guidance for your own career.
The views expressed on this podcast are those of its hosts, guests, and callers, and not those of Harvard Business Review.
Episodes
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- How Do I Stay Motivated After the Role I Wanted Went to an External Hire? · 51 min · Episode 107She’s spent years working toward a promotion, taking on more responsibility and positioning herself for the next level in her career. But when an opportunity finally opened up…
- Ask Muriel Anything: Getting Recognized at Work, Managing Team Conflict, and Responding to Tough Feedback · 33 min · Episode 106How do you make sure your contributions are recognized when the things you do best seem to go unnoticed?How should you handle conflict between two employees who don't get…
- “Cold Call”: How Strong Teams Leverage Different Personality Types · 28 min · Episode 105Today, we’re sharing an episode from Cold Call, the chart-topping management podcast from our colleagues at Harvard Business School. Hosted by HBS Chief Marketing and…
- How Do I Ensure I Get Promoted? · 50 min · Episode 104She’s a leader who has worked hard to grow her career, but is currently feeling held back from reaching the next level. She wants to know what she needs to do to earn a…
- Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Matt Abrahams · 41 min · Episode 103How do I show my team I’m listening when I don’t agree with them?How do I project confidence when I don’t know what the future holds?How do I balance empathy with…
- How Do I Lead with Confidence Without Always Needing To Be Right? · 55 min · Episode 102She’s a leader who’s built a reputation for being direct, confident, and decisive. But she’s recently received feedback that her communication can create tense interactions with…
- Ask Muriel Anything: Staying Motivated, The Pros and Cons of People Management, and Handling Ambitious Employees · 35 min · Episode 101How do you stay motivated in your career after years of success - and conquering so many mountains? How do you decide if taking on people management is the right move for you?…
- Behind the Scenes: A Coaching Debrief · 32 min · Episode 101Join host Muriel Wilkins as she unpacks last week’s Coaching Real Leaders’ episode, “Why Haven’t I Made It To The C-Suite”, where she coached Randy - a leader who has spent years…
- Best of CRL: Why Haven’t I Made it to the C-Suite? · 48 min · Episode 100He’s spent years coming close to landing the most senior level executive roles, only to be passed over without clear feedback. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches him through what to do…
- Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Damien Faughnan · 47 min · Episode 99Have you ever been passed over for a promotion?Are you wondering whether you're ready for the CEO role—or your next big career move?Are you struggling to figure out when it's…
- How Do I Lead Someone Who Doesn’t Seem to Fit the Team Culture? · 1 h 4 min · Episode 98She’s recently taken on a bigger leadership role and with that shift comes a new challenge: how to lead a team where one person’s style doesn’t seem to fit the culture she’s…
- Ask Muriel Anything: Becoming My Friend’s Boss, Upsetting a Coworker, Dealing With Micromanagers · 35 min · Episode 97How do I handle becoming my close friend’s boss? How do I recover after upsetting a coworker?How do I get my boss to stop micromanaging?In this episode, Muriel and her producer…
- How Do I Lead When Being the Expert Isn't Enough? · 56 min · Episode 96He's built his career on technical excellence and those skills have always been his path to success. But as AI reshapes his organization and his role, he senses that expertise…
- Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Amy Gallo · 47 min · Episode 95Have you ever had ongoing disagreements with your boss? Do you struggle trying to become more visible to leadership at your organization?Have you gotten feedback that YOUR…
- How Do I Find Fulfillment In My Leadership Role? · 1 h 0 min · Episode 94She recently transitioned to a new role and organization and is having trouble finding inspiration and motivation. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through why she feels…
- Ask Muriel Anything: Productivity, Layoffs, and Visibility · 36 min · Episode 93Are you worried that you have developed a habit of quitting when times get tough?Do you struggle with finding authentic ways to be seen by senior leadership?Are you trying to…
- How Do I Help My Boss Without Doing Their Job For Them? · 51 min · Episode 92She's energized by her company and the possibilities of her role, but keeps running into tension with her boss around how they work together. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her…
- Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Dave Stachowiak · 44 min · Episode 91Have you ever felt like your boss might be holding you back? Do you have a hard time determining your non-negotiables? Do you struggle with constantly changing priorities from…
- How Can I Move Forward When My Company Won’t Promote Me? · 48 min · Episode 90She’s been at her current organization for decades, and loves the leadership role she’s in. But she’s always aspired to make it to the C-suite. As that opportunity seems less and…
- Introducing: Ask Muriel Anything · 29 min · Episode 89Long-time executive coach and Coaching Real Leaders host, Muriel Wilkins, takes questions from listeners, past guests and community members and helps them unpack some of the…
- How Do I Get Buy-In From My Boss? · 50 min · Episode 87She’s an ambitious leader with a strong vision to drive value and growth for the company. But she’s concerned that plan may now be in jeopardy due to lack of buy-in from her…
- Coming Soon: Season 11 · 2 min · Episode 86From uncovering the belief that’s quietly holding you back… to mapping your path to the C-suite… to recovering after a career-defining mistake — executive coach Muriel Wilkins is…
- Do I Really Want to Be CEO? · 41 min · Episode 6She’s a leader who unexpectedly finds herself running a company, but isn’t sure it is the right role for her long-term. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through defining what she…
- How Do I Manage My Former Peers Now That I’m Their Boss? · 47 min · Episode 5He’s relatively new to being a people manager after working hard and getting promoted quickly at his organization. He’s struggling with communicating and managing effectively…
- How Do I Handle So Much Organizational Uncertainty? · 52 min · Episode 4She’s climbed the ladder at her company through many years and phases of growth. Now, she’s sensing a changing organizational tide and isn’t sure where she fits in its future…
- How Do I Lead When I Don’t Feel Like I Belong at the Table? · 1 h 1 min · Episode 3He is a leader looking to advance, but feels like he often struggles in meetings with more senior leadership. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches him through ways to approach these…
- How Leaders Can Spot What’s Really Holding Them Back · 36 minListen as executive coach Muriel Wilkins joins Amy Gallo and Amy Bernstein on Women at Work to describe what she’s learned about what holds leaders at all levels back, how to…
- How Should I Plan for My Next Role When I’m Happy with the One I’m In? · 43 min · Episode 2She’s found herself in a role that she loves at a company she loves, but is wondering how – and to what extent – she should be planning for the next role and beyond. Host Muriel…
- How Do I Address Feedback on Increasing My Visibility? · 53 min · Episode 1She’s recently switched industries and has seen her fast-paced leadership growth stall out. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through understanding the feedback she’s receiving…
- Coming Soon: Season 10 of Coaching Real Leaders · 2 minAre you experiencing a roadblock in your leadership path? On this season of Coaching Real Leaders, executive coach Muriel Wilkins works through issues like imposter syndrome…
- How Do I Adapt My Leadership as My Company Grows? · 42 min · Episode 6She’s an entrepreneur who has led her company to a fair amount of success. After recently hitting a roadblock, she’s hired new talent and is looking to position her company for…
- How Do I Co-Lead with a Challenging Partner? · 57 min · Episode 5His leadership role requires him to co-lead a project with someone he finds challenging to work with. With clashing styles and unclear roles, their partnership feels anything but…
- How Do I Deal with a Competitive Peer? · 54 min · Episode 4She’s stepped into a leadership position thanks, in part, to a former boss at her organization. But now, this former boss has become a peer, and perhaps competition for the…
- How Do I Get Out of Constant Crisis Mode? · 51 min · Episode 3She’s been in leadership roles for over a decade, but is feeling challenged at her latest company. She wants to focus on developing a long-term strategy but finds herself getting…
- How Do I Define My Personal Brand at Work? · 48 min · Episode 2He’s a seasoned business professional who’s worked at a number of companies with the aspiration of becoming a senior executive. But while he knows he adds value, he feels stuck…
- How Do I Get Recognized as a Leader? · 1 h 1 min · Episode 1She has been given more leadership responsibilities, but she worries that she’s not seen as a leader at her company. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through why she feels like an…
- Coming Soon: Season 9 of Coaching Real Leaders · 2 minA lot of things change throughout your career, but challenges will always be there. Executive coach Muriel Wilkins helps leaders at all levels deal with the leadership hurdles…
- How Do I Position Myself to Influence Senior Leadership? · 50 min · Episode 6He’s a leader who took a role at an organization where he can expand his area of expertise and make more of a strategic impact. But he’s getting mixed signals from leadership on…
- How Do I Lead Change When There Is Stakeholder Resistance? · 1 h 4 min · Episode 5She’s an experienced leader who made a big international move to take on a new change management role. But the transformation project isn’t working out the way she had hoped. Now…
- Do I Really Want To Be a C-Suite Leader? · 53 min · Episode 4She’s put in the hard work and might be next in line for an important, C-suite level job. But she’s not sure if that role is something she really wants. Host Muriel Wilkins…
- How Do I Deal with Low Performers on My Team? · 48 min · Episode 3He leads a large team that has grown quickly. Now he’s struggling with senior members on the team whose work isn’t meeting his expectations. He’s not sure how to hold them more…
- How Do I Handle It When I Disagree with My Boss’s Decisions? · 55 min · Episode 2After finishing business school, he landed several leadership positions and was fast-tracked into the executive level of his organization. But he’s been struggling to find his…
- How Do I Balance My Career Ambitions as Part of a Dual-Career Couple? · 42 min · Episode 1She has ambitions to reach the C-suite, but her career has hit a plateau. Opportunities in her current role have stalled, and she feels her options are limited as she tries to…
- Coming Soon: Season 8 of Coaching Real Leaders · 2 minButting heads with your boss? Trying to decide whether to push for a promotion to the C suite? Struggling to figure out what really matters to you in your career? These are all…
- How To Make the Most of Your Work Day (from Working It) · 21 minHave you ever wondered why different people work better at different times of the day? Maybe you love to do your most challenging work first thing in the morning or perhaps…
- How Can I Set the Right Boundaries in a New Job? · 54 min · Episode 6She’s experienced burnout in more than one past role. Now, after taking some time away from work, she’s gearing up to start a new position and she wants to avoid making the same…
- How Do I Prove I’m the Right Person for a Different Leadership Role? · 53 min · Episode 5He’s come up the ranks and built his career working in the field, and now wants to transition to the corporate side of his company. But he’s struggling to convince senior…
- How Do I Avoid a Career Plateau at Midlife? · 1 h 3 min · Episode 4She’s an experienced leader who has always been highly ambitious and motivated to achieve impressive results. But now as she enters mid-life, she’s thinking about the next phase…
- How Do I Stay on the Fast Track to the Next Level of Leadership? · 1 h 5 min · Episode 3She has moved up in her organization quickly and often feels like she’s playing catch up. But she also has gotten positive feedback from senior executives that she’s performing…
- How Do I Get Results Without Feeling Burned Out? · 51 min · Episode 2He’s a leader with a passion for going the extra mile and achieving results. But he’s struggling with how long he can sustain the level of effort and time required to meet the…







