Decisions, Decisions
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Selective Ignorance: Why Nas Let Me Down feat. Bonsu Thompson
Selective Ignorance: Why Nas Let Me Down feat. Bonsu Thompson
About this podcast
Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Episodes
The newest 50 of 657 episodes
- Selective Ignorance: Why Nas Let Me Down feat. Bonsu Thompson · 1 h 4 min · Season 2Mandii B joined by super producer A-King and king of the headlines Jason "Jah" Lee, welcomes award-winning writer and filmmaker Bonsu Thompson to Selective Ignorance for a…
- Different Apps, Same Bad Decisions feat. Cruising Confessions · 39 minChris and Gabe from Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions join Mandii B and Weezy for a special You Got Decisions crossover about what straight and queer dating cultures can learn from…
- EP 498: Till the Comments Do Us Part feat. Hope Giselle · 1 h 16 minHope Giselle joins Mandii B and Weezy for a candid conversation about love, marriage, emotional intimacy, and how much of your relationship the internet deserves to see. From the…
- You've Got Decisions: We Had a Threesome. Now My Husband Is Secretly Sending Her Money? feat. Janelle & Dre · 19 minJanelle and Dre join You Got Decisions to talk about broken trust, money boundaries, and whether the couple can reset the rules. Plus, dating after an argument and what happens…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 88 | Stop Turning Zeroes Into Heroes · 1 h 43 min · Season 2 Episode 18Mandii B returns with another thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance, joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee for unfiltered conversations about Election…
- You've Got Decisions: BF Prostate · 21 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- EP 496: The Stud Bylaws feat. Punkie Johnson · 1 h 12 minPunkie Johnson joins Mandii B and Weezy, and the missed signals are getting cleared up! Weezy reveals she tried to shoot her shot, Punkie explains the unwritten stud rules she…
- You've Got Decisions: My Friend is Flaky! Should I Cut Her Off? · 21 minMandii B and Weezy unpack one-sided friendships, question what a godparent actually owes your child, and call out the difference between someone letting you down and expecting a…
- You've Got Decisions: Would I Be Wrong For Leaving My Bf Because Of His Autism? · 19 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 86 | Ban Dogs, Ban Laws, Ban Freedom Of Speech Feat. Deante Kyle · 1 h 47 min · Season 2 Episode 16Mandii B returns with another thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance, joined by A-King, Jason "Jah" Lee, and special guest Deante Kyle (Grits & Eggs Podcast) for…
- EP 495: The Floor Is Obsession ft. Erica Chidi · 1 h 0 minMandii B and Weezy are joined by doula, author, and women’s health educator Erica Chidi for a conversation about knowing your body, asking for what you want, and refusing to…
- You Got Decisons: Reality TV Star Kara Leona Sit Down · 35 minKara Leona joins Weezy to talk marriage, motherhood, OnlyFans, and making decisions the internet doesn’t approve of. Kara shares her side of the split with Guillermo, explains…
- EP 494: Freak With Limits feat. Connie · 1 h 9 minConnie of First Date Diaries is back, and even Mandii and Weezy have questions about where the freak flag stops flying. The trio gets into sleeping with friends, working as a…
- You've Got Decisions: Yuck Mouth - Can I Get Past Bad Oral Hygiene? · 25 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 84 | Consent is Not in Perpetuity · 1 h 44 min · Season 2 Episode 14In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens with an important Breast Cancer Awareness Month screening information [ 00:47 ] before previewing the week’s topics [ 01:12…
- EP 493: Friends With Baby Benefits · 60 minMandii B and Weezy are joined by Eddin for a wild conversation about dating, intimacy, non-monogamy, and what happens when friendship and parenthood start to overlap. From…
- You've Got Decisions: Doubling Back on My Baby Daddy vs Being with a Vegan · 25 minWould you take your ex back to split the bills? Mandii B and Weezy help a listener choosing between her child’s father and a new man who wants a vegan, off-the-grid lifestyle…
- EP 492: That’s My Wife, Not My Mom! feat Olivia & Kelly · 57 minMandii B and Weezy welcome Olivia and Kelly to talk about their 19-year age gap, the eight-hour drive that started their love story, and finding a connection neither of them…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 82 | Rollin', Robots & Raggedy Robert feat. Akeem Ali · 1 h 55 min · Season 2 Episode 12In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and guest artist Akeem Ali, who previews his upcoming fall tour [ 00:44 ][ 02:53 ]. After…
- EP 491: Stud Standards feat. Carter the Body · 1 h 15 minCarter the Body joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about catching feelings, setting boundaries, and why nobody wants to be somebody’s experiment. The All the Queen’s Men…
- You've Got Decisions: Am I Settling or Just Chasing Lust? · 21 minOn this episode of You Got Decisions, a 24-year-old listener loves his girlfriend but is bored, tempted to cheat, and still living with her parents. Mandii B and Weezy unpack…
- EP 490: Flowers Don’t Fix Cheaters ft. Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson · 1 h 26 minMandii B and Weezy are joined by relationship expert Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson for a candid conversation about the patterns we inherit and the ones we need to break. Dr. Stacii…
- You've Got Decisions: Update: Porn May Be Ruining Me! feat. Eddin · 22 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 80 | Power Of The Tongue · 1 h 25 min · Season 2 Episode 10In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, A-King, and Jason “Jah” Lee tackle food safety, religion, manifestation, surveillance, privacy, and politics. After previewing…
- EP 489: Men Want Me, Baby and All feat. Jamilah Lemieux · 1 h 6 minMandii B and Weezy sit down with acclaimed writer and cultural critic Jamilah Lemieux to discuss her book Black Single Mother and unpack the stigma surrounding single motherhood…
- You've Got Decisions: Update: A Girl Who Just Wants a Threesome · 22 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- EP 488: Non-Mainogamy feat. Maino · 1 h 16 minMaino joins Mandii B and Weezy to discuss his dating philosophy, why he no longer promises women traditional commitment, and whether actions should matter more than relationship…
- You've Got Decisions: Do I Dump His A**? · 25 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 78 | CIS-ieval Times · 1 h 43 min · Season 2 Episode 8In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation spanning Atlanta culture…
- EP 487: Flights, Freaks & Faith · 58 minIn this solo episode, Mandii B and Weezy revisit the conversation surrounding marriage, prenups and protecting assets before discussing gift-giving, women paying for their…
- You've Got Decisions: My Man Wants a 3Some but I’m the Jealous Type · 22 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- EP 486: No Label, No Loving! feat. Bryanna Gena · 55 minMandii and Weezy are joined by certified sex and relationship coach, board-certified sexologist, and registered nurse Bryanna Gená for an honest and hilarious conversation about…
- You've Got Decisions: WTF is MGen? + A Good Ol Nasty Birthday · 20 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 76 | Dumb Dems, Dumb Men & Dumb DMs · 1 h 41 min · Season 2 Episode 6In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring politics, current…
- EP 485: The $20 ICK feat. Killah Bee · 51 minKillah Bee joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a hilarious and unfiltered conversation about whether sex-positive women can still find lasting love, when women should stop dating…
- You've Got Decisions: Can You Really Catch Feelings in Three Months? · 25 minTrigger Warning: Domestic Abuse** Mandii and Weezy reflect on high school reunions, homeownership, motherhood, and whether a $250,000 dream wedding is worth the price. This…
- EP 484: Heauxing Responsibly feat.Shae Primus · 1 h 10 minMatchmaker, author, and Love Match Atlanta personality Shae Primus joins Mandii B and Weezy for a raw conversation about dating successful professionals, what really happens at a…
- You've Got Decisions: Update: Do I Make Him Not Feel Bad For Cheating? · 23 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 74 | Right Message, Wrong Messenger · 1 h 45 min · Season 2 Episode 4In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jason Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation…
- EP 483: Are Women Financial Liabilities in Marriage? Feat. Earn Your Leisure · 53 minMandii B and Weezy sit down with Troy Millings and Rashad Bilal of Earn Your Leisure for a candid conversation about how money shapes dating, marriage and business. They break…
- You've Got Decisions: UPDATE: I Slept with My BF’s Parents x My Wife Doesn’t Want My Sub to Join · 32 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- EP 482: A Freak in the seats feat. Mr.Whatchair (Joshua Adams) · 56 minOn this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Joshua Adams, better known as Mr. What Chair, for an honest and unfiltered conversation about sex…
- You've Got Decisions: C0rn May Be Ruining Me! Help! · 24 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 72 | 3 Nights, White Knights and Israelites · 1 h 57 min · Season 2 Episode 2In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, for a timely conversation covering hip-hop culture, media legacy…
- EP 481: Happy Heauxs Ain’t Hatin’ · 1 h 2 minOn this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy get back in their niche with a hilarious and honest catch-up about fan pushback, age-gap relationships, platforming…
- You've Got Decisions: How Do I Make Him Not Feel Bad For Cheating? + Coke Can D · 19 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 71 | Bible Thumpers & Bad Parenting · 1 h 51 min · Season 2 Episode 1In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation examining American politics, Black…
- EP 480: How To Spot A Dusty (feat. Maiya the Don) · 1 h 3 min*TRIGGER WARNING* - Mentions of depression and s*icide This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy link up with Maiya The Don for a real, honest, and super relatable…
- You've Got Decisions: Decade Long Stagnant Relationship · 21 minSend us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram…
- Selective Ignorance: Ep. 70 | Court Of Public Opinion Strikes Again · 2 h 9 min · Season 1 Episode 52In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation…
