How do YOU do love?
by Margaret Dahlberg
Our need to be seen, hearing what we want to hear and other…
About this podcast
How do you do love? Let's explore in a unique way. First, I'll perform chapters of my show and then next, my good friend Ang & I will chat about the themes! We've both had a LOT of dating experience plus we have both explored our inner selves and learned a great deal about human interaction as educators over the years. We enjoy talking about how WE do love and how we want to be loved and we have a LOT to say! Do you have something to say? Any comments or ideas around our themes are welcome: Drop us a voice memo that we could add to the next episode: [email protected]
Episodes
- Our need to be seen, hearing what we want to hear and other ramblings. . . · 43 min · Season 2 Episode 7We unpacked a lot of things in this episode! 1- Why do we have such a deep need for people to know 'how important we are'? 2- Do we just hear what we want to hear at the…
- Losing yourself in relationships, lying on the apps and other ramblings. . . · 52 min · Season 2 Episode 6Here we go! Ang is feeling the challenge of wanting to talk about relationships in general without sharing too much about her current beau so we zoom out and respond to more…
- Surrendering, Platonic friendships and other ramblings · 41 min · Season 2 Episode 5We continue to follow Ang & Mag's trajectories - Ang, in a new relationship and Mag, a few months single. What happens when we give up the need to have control? Can women & men…
- Following your gut and other ramblings. . . · 40 min · Season 2 Episode 4Learn what happened after Ang's THIRD date with that FOURTH guy. At what point do you drop the strategies and just know to trust your gut? Or is that simply retrospective in…
- Online filtering, Gaslighting and other ramblings · 51 min · Season 2 Episode 3OK folks, Ang is online dating now and we talk about a LOT of universal relationship concepts. When we knows we are a 'no' we have to let a suitor down. Why are we so hard-wired…
- Online dating and many other ramblings · 39 min · Season 2 Episode 2This episode further explores love-bombing and an online dating 'how-to' list. Ang & Mag get down to it as Ang gets CLOSER to going online herself. We ask our listeners to…
- Accommodating others vs. being true to yourself & other ramblings. . . · 49 min · Season 2 Episode 1We're back! Mag & Ang return to the recording studio (a.k.a. Angela's kitchen) to talk about love and relationships. We catch up and project what our hopes for the summer will…
- What do YOU know about love-bombing and other ramblings. . . · 42 min · Season 1 Episode 10As usual Ang and I talk about a lot 'relating to others' (otherwise known as relationships). Thank you for your comments. Please chime in again! How do YOU do love: 1 - Have you…
- Fawning, Forgiveness and other ramblings. . . · 36 min · Season 1 Episode 9Here we are again - I had a little vacay and now listen to Ang & I talk about various concepts that we grapple with. What do YOU think? How do YOU do love? Please send us your…
- Being honest with ourselves and other ramblings · 44 min · Season 1 Episode 8Ang & Mag continue the fun, talking and sharing their ongoing life challenges - in relationships that are romantic but really ALL relationships: How being REALLY honest with…
- Chapter 7 - It's Time · 1 h 2 min · Season 1 Episode 7The play concludes with a final reflection back on the same night as Chapter 1 was set in. We talk about a few things from what it means to find the strength to take chances. We…
- Chapter 6 - Voices · 41 min · Season 1 Episode 6OK so you know the inner dialogue that can rule our lives at times? Here we go. . . our main character is an expert in beating herself up and yet she finds a simple solution. Can…
- Chapter 5 - Monster in my Closet · 56 min · Season 1 Episode 5This episode is the 'mic drop' in our heroine's life where she finally realizes that SHE is the problem and that she has work to do. Our tendency to fixate on the external is…
- Chapter 4 - Middle Ground · 1 h 2 min · Season 1 Episode 4Things are getting interesting! Now our heroine has started online dating for the first time in her life. Especially challenging since her last relationship began prior to the…
- OH NO! Episode 2 correction. . . · 2 min · Season 1I have been working on this release all summer and have listened and re-listened to make sure everything is smooth but somehow missed this most recent error. Thank you to my…
- Chapter 3 - Comfort · 54 min · Season 1 Episode 3So as the show itself gets sillier, we get a little more serious because we delve into the concept around self-love and acceptance. It's a lot easier to think about changing who…
- Chapter 2 - Eas'ly · 55 min · Season 1 Episode 2After listening to Chapter 2 of the play, you hear of our heroine trying to make it work by changing herself to fit the guys she meets. Ang & I explore these things: Why is it we…
- Chapter 1 - Enough · 46 min · Season 1 Episode 1We cover all kinds of relationship-talk after listening to Christine reject the picture-perfect proposal. Here are some questions: Why don't we want the more available people?…







