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Stuck Not Broken

Self-Regulation, Explained: Polyvagal Theory

· 13 min · Season 2 Episode 16

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Sometimes the most useful information in the therapy room isn't in what someone says; it's in their hands. This episode breaks down self-regulation on a nervous system level: the two main ways we do it, top-down (thoughts) and bottom-up (body), why top-down tricks work in the moment but don't solve anything on their own, and a session with a client whose hands were saying something her voice wasn't.
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