We're Doing It! with Sofia & Albert
by Sofia Aleman
My Husband Left Me to Fight a Pit Bull Alone: Exorcisms, South Texas…
About this podcast
Welcome to We’re Doing It!
Forget the polished, picture-perfect marriage advice. We’ve been married for 12 years; we have two kids, and we are officially using a podcast to have the honest, everyday arguments that keep a long-term relationship real.
Every week, join Sofia and Albert for an unfiltered, funny, and fiercely real look at the everyday stuff we all go through in life, parenting, and marriage. No characters, no labels, just two equal partners airing out their daily grievances, roasting each other's worst habits, and blind-reacting to the wildest relationship stories Reddit has to offer. From the invisible mental load of parenting to petty household standoffs, socks on the floor vs. the leftover graveyard in the fridge, nothing is off-limits.
This is a lighthearted, funny, and fiercely authentic look at the beautiful chaos of family life. You might hear from a special guest or a rotating co-host from time to time, but mostly, it’s just Sofia and Albert figuring it out in real-time.
Grab a coffee, pick a side, and welcome to the trenches. We’re doing it. We’re all doing it.
New episodes drop every Monday!
Episodes
- My Husband Left Me to Fight a Pit Bull Alone: Exorcisms, South Texas Haunted Trails, & When Flight-or-Fight Ruins a Marriage · 1 h 7 min · Season 1 Episode 19Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to We're Doing It! with Sofia & Albert. In this spooky, Halloween-themed episode, we’re diving into the fine line between real-life terror and the…
- Why Do Women Choose the Bad Boy? Toxic Romance, the Myth of Passion, and Why Healthy Love Feels Boring · 1 h 13 min · Season 1 Episode 18Send us Fan Mail Is healthy love boring? And why do we keep romanticizing the very relationships that leave us emotionally wrecked? We thought Season 1 was over, but apparently…
- Gio's Story: Van Life, Setting Boundaries, Special Ed Teacher Burnout, & the Importance of Following Your Dreams [Season Finale] · 53 min · Season 1 Episode 17Send us Fan Mail For our season finale, we’re sitting down with our guest Geovanna for part two of our deep dive into following your dreams! We talk about what it really takes to…
- As Long as You’re Breathing, It’s Not Too Late: Addiction, Human Trafficking, Second Chances, & the Importance of Following Your Dreams [Michelle's Story] · 1 h 9 min · Season 1 Episode 16Send us Fan Mail Content note: This episode contains discussion of addiction, domestic violence, human trafficking, sexual exploitation, and trauma. What happens when following…
- The Death of a Pastor's Wife 3: Stephanie’s Story, Purity Culture, & What Mica Miller’s Journey Teaches Us about Finding Your Voice · 1 h 25 min · Season 1 Episode 15Send us Fan Mail What is it really like to walk away from a high-control marriage and face the heavy machinery of church divorce culture? In Part 3 of our series inspired by the…
- The Death of a Pastor's Wife 2: The Stigma of Divorce in the Church, Spiritual Abuse, & What Mica Miller’s Story Teaches Us about the Importance of Breaking Free · 1 h 18 min · Season 1 Episode 14Send us Fan Mail Why do high-control religious environments treat divorce as an unforgivable sin while quietly sweeping abuse under the rug? In Part 2 of our deep dive inspired…
- The Death of a Pastor's Wife: Deconstructing Patriarchy, Control & What Mica Miller’s Story Teaches Us about One-Sided Submission · 1 h 21 min · Season 1 Episode 13Send us Fan Mail Why do high-control religious environments and demands for absolute obedience lead to such devastating consequences? In this deeply personal episode of We're…
- The Art of Letting Go: Marketplace Horror Stories, Sock Mysteries, Emotional Chaos, and Midlife Decluttering · 1 h 22 min · Season 1 Episode 12Send us Fan Mail In this episode of We’re Doing It, Sofia and Albert dive into the cathartic (and sometimes chaotic) process of decluttering...not just physical items, but mental…
- Turning 40, First-Time Makeup Mistakes, Midlife Clarity, and When He Asks to Come Back · 1 h 28 min · Season 1 Episode 11Send us Fan Mail In this episode of We’re Doing It, Sofia and Albert dive into the reality of turning 40, shifting mindsets, and why "midlife clarity" feels so much better than a…
- I Almost Didn’t Post This: The Vulnerable Truth About Parenting, Kids Roasting Us, and Unfiltered Mom Guilt · 1 h 20 min · Season 1 Episode 10Send us Fan Mail I almost didn’t post this episode. For our 10th milestone episode, Albert and I decided to tackle a topic we’ve been avoiding: parenting. To keep things light…
- Shut Up & Act Normal: Public Fights, Car Farts, and Being Embarrassed by Our Spouse. · 1 h 14 min · Season 1 Episode 9Send us Fan Mail What happens when "for better or for worse" means dealing with public scenes, bad posture, and cultural clashes? This week on We're Doing It!, Sofia and Albert…
- Why Are You Like This? Public Embarrassments, Weird Wardrobe Choices and Husbands Who Misremember Everything · 1 h 23 min · Season 1 Episode 8Send us Fan Mail Do you ever look at your spouse in public and think, "I love you, but please pretend you don't know me right now"? This week on We're Doing It!, Sofia and Albert…
- Mildly Infuriating Annoyances: Part 2, Texting Read Receipts, Overstimulation Resentment, and the Reality of the "Man Flu," · 1 h 16 min · Season 1 Episode 7Send us Fan Mail Are we completely losing our minds, or are everyday irritations just hitting harder late at night? We are back with a brand-new episode of We’re Doing It, and…
- Mildly Infuriating Habits of Everyday Life: Grocery Cart Procrastination, Missing Hygiene Habits, and the Stress of Everyday Logistics · 1 h 2 min · Season 1 Episode 6Send us Fan Mail We’re back this week on We’re Doing It, and we are breaking down the mildly infuriating everyday pet peeves that drive us completely insane. Since Sofia has to…
- The Reality of AI Relationships: Chatbots Replacing Real Human Connections, and the Modern Loneliness Epidemic. · 1 h 15 min · Season 1 Episode 5Send us Fan Mail Is your AI chatbot secretly a better friend than the real people in your life? This week, Sofia and Albert are back with a brand-new episode of We’re Doing It…
- Are We the Problem? Really Shitty Friends (Friendship Audit Part 2) · 1 h 11 min · Season 1 Episode 4Send us Fan Mail Are we the dream besties we think we are, or are we actually the problem? 🫣 In Part 2 of our adult friendship episodes, we are turning the mirror on ourselves!…
- Pure Drama of Adult Friendships: Friendship Breakups and the Hurtful Reality of Loneliness as Grown-Ups · 1 h 14 min · Season 1 Episode 3Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to We're Doing It! Today we are tackling a topic we all thought we’d be done with by high school graduation: friendship breakups, adult drama, and…
- Broke, Bitter, & Going Back to School to Make Less Money · 1 h 14 min · Season 1 Episode 2Send us Fan Mail Every morning starts the exact same way: "Good morning, Sofia. Today you are poor, and that's okay." This week, we are stripping away the filters and talking…
- Double Standards & The Things We Can't Stand About Each Other · 1 h 16 min · Season 1 Episode 1Send us Fan Mail What happens when an intense, calendar-obsessed household manager is married to a chaotic, defensive ADHD creative? Welcome to the relaunch of We’re Doing It…







