According To B
by Bokang Lehlokoe
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I Became the Woman I Was Warned About
I Became the Woman I Was Warned About
About this podcast
According to B is your go-to podcast for real talk with women who are ditching the rulebook and doing life their way. Hosted by Bokang Lehlokoe, it’s all about the messy middles, quiet wins, and bold moves behind the scenes. We’re not here for highlight reels - we’re here for who you’re becoming. Expect raw convos, big laughs, deep feels, and a reminder that living boldly beats living perfectly, every single time.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 32 episodes
- I Became the Woman I Was Warned About · 51 min · Season 3 Episode 13What if becoming the woman you were warned about turns out to be the best thing that ever happened to you? No husband. No children. A career that looks nothing like the one she…
- Can Friendships Survive Marriage, Motherhood & Different Timelines? ft. Dr. Katlego Selikane · 1 h 14 min · Season 3 Episode 13What happens when your best friend’s life starts looking nothing like yours? Between marriage, motherhood, changing priorities and the realities of your thirties, maintaining…
- The First Woman in My Bloodline to Break the Blueprint: Zithobe Macheli on Career, Money & Love · 1 h 9 min · Season 3 Episode 11What if becoming the person who gets to live your dream life starts long before the dream actually arrives? Zithobe Macheli has transformed more than one area of her life-from…
- The Pleasure of Becoming a Grown Woman: Your 30s, Age Gap Dating & Celibacy ft. Nandipha Mqoco · 1 h 8 min · Season 3 Episode 10Whoever convinced women that life peaks in their twenties has some explaining to do. 😭 Because if you ask us? The thirties are kind of giving. This week, Nandipha Mqoco pulls up…
- Breaking Up With My Dream Life: Bonge Gumede on Success, Surrender & Starting Over / Thumbnail: I got everything I wanted… · 1 h 8 min · Season 3 Episode 9What happens when you get everything you worked for… and realise you might not want it anymore? Bonge Gumede spent years building the dream. She left university to bet on…
- Do We Have to Settle Down? Popi Sibiya on Travel, Marriage & Being Choicefully Childfree · 1 h 2 min · Season 3 Episode 8What happens when you stop building your life around the milestones you were told you should want and start asking what you actually want instead? Travel creator and digital…
- From a Village Girl to Miss South Africa, Columbia University & Beyond w/ Shudu Musida · 1 h 19 min · Season 3 Episode 7Shudufhadzo Musida has never been afraid to dream beyond what seems realistic. From entering Miss South Africa when she never considered herself a “pageant girl,” to eventually…
- Unlearning The Good Girl You Were Raised To Be ft. Ursula Mariani | According To B x Bernini · 52 min · Season 3 Episode 6This episode of According To B is in partnership with Bernini - the sparkling spritzer born from real wine. Who are you beyond praise? Beyond approval? Beyond productivity?…
- Chasing Big Dreams (When You Have No Proof It’ll Work) ft. Gaisang Noge | According To B x Bernini · 44 min · Season 3 Episode 5This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini-the sparkling spritzer born from real wine. What would the younger version of you think of your life…
- The Lost Art of Dating Yourself with Gugulethu Nyatsumba · 48 min · Season 3 Episode 4Dating yourself doesn’t mean you’ve given up on love. It means you’ve decided to show up for your own life with intention. In this episode, lifestyle creator and podcaster…
- Live Like a Moodboard (In Real Life) ft Lwandile ''The Fruity Chapters'' Makhaza · 53 min · Season 3 Episode 3This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini- South Africa’s only real spritzer made from wine. The internet loves an It Girl-but what if the real…
- Friendship Breakups, Comparison & Choosing Each Other with Landzy Gama & ZeeXOnline · 42 min · Season 3 Episode 2This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini- the sparkling spritzer born from real wine. We live in a world that quietly teaches women to compete…
- Live Your Life on Your Own Terms with Amahle "Jaxx" Jaxa · 53 min · Season 3 Episode 1This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini - the sparkling spritzer born from real wine. A drink made for the women who choose to celebrate with…
- When Did Friendships become so Hard & Expensive?! | According to B · 58 min · Season 2 Episode 8➜ Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su... ✰ ABOUT ✰ This one is close to my heart. In this episode, I sit down with two of my closest friends…
- From Dropout To Digital Empire: Mpoomy Ledwaba’s Unconventional Road To Success | According To B · 49 min · Season 2 Episode 7➜ Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su... ✰ ABOUT ✰ In this powerful episode of According to B, Bokang sits down with Mpoomy Ledwaba to unpack…
- Stop waiting for permission and believe for more with Candice Modiselle · 60 min · Season 2 Episode 6➜ Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su... ✰ ABOUT ✰ How do you give yourself permission to dream again? How do you stop playing small when it…
- Changing My Life By Living Like A Rom-Com Main Character · 23 min · Season 2 Episode 5What would your life look like if it was the opening scene of a rom-com? For me, that question went from a fleeting thought to a full-on experiment. In this very first episode of…
- Unemployed in South Africa FOR YEARS to Living my Dream Life in Korea ft. Litha Meyile-Choi · 1 h 0 min · Season 2 Episode 4In this episode of According to B, I sit down with Litha Meyile Choi—a South African-born content creator and influencer now based in South Korea—who shares her incredible story…
- What they DON'T tell you about Motherhood: Changes to Bodies, Relationships & more w/ Friendship Frequency · 1 h 22 min · Season 2 Episode 3In this week's episode of According To B, I sit down with Stephanie Ndlovu and Petronella Tshuma — actresses, mothers, storytellers, and real ones. We’re talking about motherhood…
- Nonhle Thema on Losing It All and Finding Herself Again · 1 h 23 min · Season 2 Episode 2In this week's episode of According To B, I sit down with the iconic Nonhle Thema—a woman whose name is etched into the early fabric of South African pop culture. In this raw and…
