Ask the Unfaithful
autor: James & Sam
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O tomto podcastu
The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners.
Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam:
Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade.
Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.
Epizody
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- DEFENSIVENESS: WHAT ARE THE UNFAITHFUL REALLY DEFENDING WHEN THEY GET DEFENSIVE? · 51 min · Řada 21 Epizoda 58Why do unfaithful partners become so defensive - even when they genuinely want to repair the damage they've caused? After infidelity or betrayal, the unfaithful partner's…
- 5 MISTAKES THE UNFAITHFUL MAKE THAT WILL END BETRAYAL RECOVERY · 31 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 79Are you genuinely trying to repair your relationship after infidelity—but still finding that your betrayed partner doesn't feel safe, understood, or supported? In betrayal…
- TRICKLE TRUTH: Why Staggered Disclosures Re-Traumatize Betrayed Partners in the Worst Way · 45 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 78Why can trickle truth feel even more devastating than discovering the affair itself? For many betrayed partners, discovery is not a single event. First comes the affair. Then…
- 4 MISTAKES THAT PREVENT COUPLES FROM HEALING FROM INFIDELITY · 31 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 73Are you actually moving forward in betrayal recovery or are you rushing to avoid discomfort? After infidelity, many unfaithful partners enter recovery with sincere intentions…
- THE VICTIM MINDSET: WHY THE UNFAITHFUL WHINES, BLAMES, AND ISN'T EMPATHETIC · 43 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 76What if the biggest obstacle to your recovery isn't shame, defensiveness, or even your affair - but believing you're the victim? Many unfaithful partners experience real grief…
- 4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL MINIMIZE AND DEFLECT · 30 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 75Why does recovery stall even when you're trying? If you're the unfaithful partner, you may genuinely want to heal your relationship—but without realizing it, you could be making…
- 4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL LEARNED IT WAS OKAY TO CHEAT · 39 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 74HOW DID THE UNFAITHFUL LEARN THAT INFIDELITY WAS OKAY? Can your childhood make you more prone to infidelity? Not by causing you to cheat, but by shaping how you learned to handle…
- 5 PATTERNS THAT CAN CAUSE THE UNFAITHFUL TO CHEAT (AND TO FAIL IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY) · 47 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 73Why do unfaithful partners cheat and why do they have such a hard time staying in recovery? The answer is almost never just one reason. In this episode of Ask the Unfaithful…
- THE ONE ACTION THAT UNLOCKS THE UNFAITHFUL'S RECOVERY WORK · 34 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 72What is the ONE action that unlocks real recovery for the unfaithful? In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James Annear and Sam reveal the single most important shift…
- IS THE UNFAITHFUL SLEEPWALKING THROUGH BETRAYAL RECOVERY? · 32 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 71How conscious are you of your actions and how they impact your own recovery, your betrayed's recovery and your relational recovery? In this powerful episode of Ask The…
- BREADCRUMBING: HOW THE UNFAITHFUL CREATE A TRAUMA BOND THAT KEEPS THE BETRAYED POWERLESS TO HEAL · 42 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 70What is breadcrumbing, and why is it one of the most damaging patterns an unfaithful partner can engage in during recovery? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam…
- 10 Hallmarks of Authentic Betrayal Recovery In The Unfaithful · 36 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 69Are you actually doing the work… or just going through the motions? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, Sam and James break down 10 powerful signs of authentic recovery—and…
- 15 LANGUAGE SHIFTS THE UNFAITHFUL CAN USE TO REBUILD TRUST AFTER BETRAYAL · 38 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 68If you're trying to rebuild trust after betrayal, your words matter more than you think as James and Sam discussed in the previous episode of Ask The Unfaithful. In this episode…
- IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY, WORDS MATTER - HEALING vs. HARMFUL LANGUAGE · 25 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 67After betrayal, your words are no longer neutral. In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, we break down the critical difference between healing language and harmful language and…
- 3 CORE MISUNDERSTANDINGS THE UNFAITHFUL HAVE THAT BLOCK RELATIONAL RECOVERY · 30 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 66Why does it feel like no matter what you, the unfaithful, do… your partner still isn't okay? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, we break down the 3 core misunderstandings…
- THIS "RECOVERY BEHAVIOR" IS JUST ANOTHER FORM OF BETRAYAL · 30 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 65In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, we break down a hidden but deeply damaging pattern in relationships affected by infidelity: self-erasure - when the unfaithful…
- UNDERSTANDING BETRAYAL: DO MEN AND WOMEN CHEAT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS? · 36 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 64In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James Annear and Sam explore the key psychological, developmental, and behavioral differences between male and female problematic…
- SUBTLE WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL PHONE IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY - PERFORMATIVE VS REAL RECOVERY · 32 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 63Are you really in recovery… or are you just performing it? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam tackle one of the most damaging patterns in affair recovery…
- Peter Pan Syndrome: Can The Unfaithful Ever Really Grow Up? · 34 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 62In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam explore "Peter Pan Syndrome" (the "Eternal Child") through a Jungian and trauma-informed lens, unpacking why some unfaithful…
- Rebuilding Trust: The Missing Key The Unfaithful MUST Know · 39 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 61One of the most overlooked drivers of infidelity isn't desire, entitlement, or opportunity — it's broken self-trust. In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam dive…
