Better After Divorce
by Coach Ivy
Latest episode
You Already Know Why He Only Sees You on Weeknights
You Already Know Why He Only Sees You on Weeknights
About this podcast
Better After Divorce with Coach Ivy is for women who’ve rebuilt the career, the home, and the life, and still feel the dimmer switch. Not recovering. Becoming.
Each episode names the patterns that keep us choosing what hurts, in dating, in love, and in the life we’re building, and what to choose instead. Real stories, honest talk, and a little velvet-edged truth from someone who’s been exactly where you are.
I help women after divorce turn their light back on. Happily ever after starts with you.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 58 episodes
- You Already Know Why He Only Sees You on Weeknights · 35 min · Episode 57You Already Know Why He Only Sees You On Weeknights He only sees you on weeknights. He’s “not big on labels.” And somewhere underneath, you already know why. What you tolerate in…
- The Heartbreak You Keep Choosing · 33 min · Episode 56🎟️ Choose, Don't Chase: Stop Repeating the Heartbreak Live on Zoom · Wednesday, October 28 · 7 PM Eastern $27, and every seat comes with a free plus one. Bring the girlfriend…
- Every Man You Date Is Being Asked to Prove You're Not Broken · 25 min · Episode 55Every Man You Date Is Being Asked to Prove You're Not Broken For years I dated as proof I wasn’t broken. Every man was evidence for a case I didn’t know I was building. This week…
- Body Betrayal or Body Evolution - The Pause No One Talks About · 29 min · Episode 54BODY BETRAYAL OR BODY EVOLUTION - THE PAUSE NO ONE TALKS ABOUT Better After Divorce with Coach Ivy · FemFactor Fit, Episode 1 Nobody asked me. I wasn't prepared. And frankly — it…
- Worthy of Being Choosen · 38 min · Episode 53Worthy of Being Chosen When I got divorced, I thought I’d lost everything. The marriage. The family I’d built. The thing I was most proud of. That’s not what I lost. The…
- Being Single On Purpose · 1 h 2 min · Episode 52Being Single On Purpose The world has exactly one story for a single woman in midlife: something is wrong with you. You're waiting. Still looking. Got issues. Bullshit at its…
- Intimacy Cost More Now - And You Have More to Lose · 47 min · Episode 51Intimacy Cost More Now - And You Have More to Lose You want the closeness, the connection. You even want the sex. So why does the thought of actually going out and getting it…
- You Were So Busy Being Chosen You Never Chose Him · 42 min · Episode 50You Were So Busy Being Chosen You Never Chose Him The date went well. You know it did — because you checked. Once when he leaned in, and again in the car, replaying the whole…
- You Can't Flirt In A Body You're Not Feelin' · 33 min · Episode 49You Can't Flirt in a Body You're Not Feelin' You know that half-second delay when you catch your reflection and think — that's not me. Or it is. It's just not the me I expected…
- Your Not On A Date. You're On A Job Interview · 24 min · Episode 48You're Not on a Date. You're on a Job Interview. It's crazy out here — and you're spending a fortune of energy for almost nothing. But not for the reason you think. This week…
- You're Not Unlucky. You Keep Telling the Wrong Story. · 36 min · Episode 47You're Not Unlucky. You Keep Telling the Wrong Story. This week we’re talking about the shadow — the place every archetype goes when the pattern wins. And the woman who lives…
- You Feel Everything for Everyone. When Do You Finally Get to Feel Something for Yourself? · 33 min · Episode 46You Feel Everything for Everyone. When Do You Finally Get to Feel Something for Yourself? This week we’re talking about the Empath — the woman who feels everything for everyone…
- Creating a Test He Can't Win is What's Keeping You Single · 36 min · Episode 45Creating a Test He Can't Win is What's Keeping You Single This week we’re talking about the Valkyrie — the woman who tests every man she meets. And wonders why they all fail…
- Potential is Not Reality · 25 min · Episode 44This week we’re talking about the Seeker — the woman who can see the potential in every man she dates. And keeps forgetting to see herself. She’s not naive. She’s not desperate…
- You Keep the Peace. But Who Is Keeping You? · 25 min · Episode 43You Keep the Peace. But Who Is Keeping You? This week we're talking about the Matriarch — the woman who holds everything together. And wonders why no one is holding her. She's…
- You're Treating Him Like an Employee, Not a Partner · 22 min · Episode 42You're Treating Him Like an Employee, Not a Partner This week we're talking about the Lioness — the woman who handles everything. Including the relationship. You're a woman who…
- You're Not Dating Him. You're Dating Your Pattern. · 22 min · Episode 41You're Not Dating Him. You're Dating Your Pattern. Have you ever found yourself further along in a relationship in your head than you actually were in real life? In this…
- Men Are Not the Problem — When a Green Light Does Not Feel Like Chemistry · 41 min · Episode 40Men Are Not the Problem — When a Green Light Does Not Feel Like Chemistry Sometimes the issue is not that there are no good men. It is that healthy men can feel easy to overlook…
- Men Are Not the Enemy — The Real Problem Is What You Keep Tolerating · 33 min · Episode 39Men Are Not the Enemy — The Real Problem Is What You Keep Tolerating If you have been disappointed, hurt, or exhausted in dating, it can be easy to make men the problem. But…
- The Small Things You Tolerate Become the Relationship. · 27 min · Episode 38The Small Things You Tolerate Become the Relationship What you excuse in the beginning rarely stays small. In this episode, Coach Ivy unpacks how women quietly tolerate subtle…
