Dateless in Delray
by Susan Shoer
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Ep. 87 - Why Wrong Feels So Right: How Attraction Can Lead to Bad…
Ep. 87 - Why Wrong Feels So Right: How Attraction Can Lead to Bad…
About this podcast
Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On Dateless and Delray, you'll see why looking for love is no day at the beach.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 89 episodes
- Ep. 87 - Why Wrong Feels So Right: How Attraction Can Lead to Bad Choices with Dr. Lynn Tress · 53 min · Episode 87The spark is undeniable. The red flags are obvious. And somehow, you still want another date.Susan welcomes psychologist and quantum coach Dr. Lynn Tress to explore why we’re…
- Ep. 86 - The New Rules: Evan Marc Katz Makes the Case for Love in an Age of Cynicism · 54 minOne of dating’s most influential voices joins Dateless in Delray. With millions of readers and podcast downloads, renowned dating coach and Love U founder Evan Marc Katz brings…
- Ep. 85 - You Thought It Went Well: What Your Date Really Said with Joy Wayne · 42 minTwo people can share the same first date—and leave with completely different impressions. Susan sits down with Joy Wayne, founder of Palm Beach Introduction, to reveal what…
- Ep. 84 - Are Relationships for Suckers? The Truth About Making Love Last with Belle Gayer · 38 minIs lasting love something we find—or a skill we learn? Susan sits down with Belle Gayer, author of "Are Relationships for Suckers?", to explore the lessons she has learned from…
- Ep. 83 - Microwave Love: Why We Rush Romance and Starve Connection—with Rose Lambert · 47 minWould you put a beautiful steak in the microwave? Then why do we do it to love?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes back elite Palm Beach matchmaker…
- Ep. 82 - Is My Ex Really a Narcissist? Dating, Personality Disorders & Mental Health with Frederic Bien · 1 h 0 min“He’s a narcissist.” “She’s borderline.” “My ex is toxic.” Mental health terminology has become part of modern dating—but are we actually recognizing disorders, or simply…
- Ep. 81 - Chemistry Test: Is It Love, Lust, or Your Nervous System with Pavini Moray, PhD · 45 minThat irresistible spark may feel like love—but sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing something familiar.Susan Shoer talks with Pavini Moray, PhD, somatic coach and…
- Ep. 80 - One Marriage. Two Relationship Philosophies: The MonoPoly Couple Explains · 44 minCan a marriage thrive when one partner is monogamous and the other is polyamorous?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Courtney and Nate, The…
- Ep. 79 - Boy School, Girl School: Learning to Understand Each Other with Naomi Jordan and Martin Pemberton · 51 minWhy do two people who genuinely care about each other so often end up feeling misunderstood?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with relationship and…
- Ep. 78 - Over It: Why Dating Apps Are Dying and What Comes Next with Scot MacKay · 57 minAre dating apps on life support?After years of endless swiping, ghosting, and burnout, more singles are asking a different question: Is there a better way to meet people? In this…
- Ep. 77 - Love After Loss: Can the People We Lose Help Us Find Love Again with Susan Anderson · 41 minLove doesn’t end when someone dies—and according to psychic medium, life coach, and author Susan Anderson, neither do the connections that matter most. In this fascinating…
- Ep. 76 - You Never Listen to Me: The Relationship Warning Men Ignore with Hoady Spencer · 53 minMany relationships struggle, not because of what we say, but because of what we fail to hear.In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes author, speaker, and…
- Ep. 75 - Delicious DNA: Why Some Men Get All the Dates with Suki Nefertiti · 45 minMost men aren't struggling because they're "bad at dating"—they're making mistakes they don't even realize they're making.In this eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan…
- Ep. 74 - The Formula of Desire: Why the Spark Fades—and How to Find It Again with Anna Elton · 50 minWhat really creates chemistry? Is the "spark" something you're lucky enough to find—or can it actually be cultivated?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down…
- Ep. 73 - Rediscovering Mars and Venus: Navigating Love and Hormones with John Gray · 1 h 1 minThirty-four years after Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus changed the conversation about relationships, bestselling author John Gray returns with surprising new insights…
- Ep. 72 - Plenty of Stories: Reinvention, Fearless Love & Building Your Next Chapter with Robin Fisher Roffer · 39 minReinvention isn’t just for brands—it’s for people, too. This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Robin Fisher Roffer, one of the pioneers of personal branding and…
- Ep. 71 - Love Starts Within: How Healing Yourself Changes Who You Attract · 1 h 0 minWhat if the secret to finding the right relationship starts with you — not with the right app, the right profile, or the right opener?This week, host Susan Shore sits down with…
- Ep. 70 - Man Up: Why Nice Guys Finish Last with Elliott Katz · 51 minA lot of men believe they're doing everything right in dating—being accommodating, avoiding conflict, and letting women take the lead. But according to relationship author…
- Ep. 69 - The Body Knows Best: Sara Perry on Desire, Intimacy, and Somatic Sexual Therapy · 48 minWhat if the real barrier to intimacy isn’t finding the right person—but learning how to be honest with the one you’re with?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits…
- Ep. 68 - Love at First Click: Dirty Little Dating Secrets with Lopaze Lasane · 39 minFrom ghosting and mixed signals to turning matches into real relationships, author and podcast host Lopaze Lasane joins Dateless in Delray to reveal the dirty little secrets…
