Dating After Betrayal
by Haelly Kirk, Dating After Betrayal Coach
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The Truth About Truth: Lindsay Clancy, Charlie Kirk, and the…
The Truth About Truth: Lindsay Clancy, Charlie Kirk, and the…
About this podcast
Dating After Betrayal is a candid, grounded, and deeply honest exploration of love, self-trust, and rebuilding after betrayal.
Through real dating stories, voice-note-worthy reflections, and honest conversations, Haelly Kirk breaks down what’s actually happening beneath the surface after heartbreak. From attachment patterns and mixed signals to people-pleasing, chemistry, discernment, and learning how to trust yourself again.
This isn’t a podcast about “dating perfectly.”
It’s about understanding why betrayal changed the way you see love, men, yourself, and your future.
It’s about noticing your patterns, questioning the stories betrayal left behind, and learning how to date from clarity, confidence, and calm power instead of fear, fantasy, or survival mode.
Come for the dating stories.
Stay for the self-trust.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 110 episodes
- The Truth About Truth: Lindsay Clancy, Charlie Kirk, and the Certainty Complex · 1 h 0 minIf you’ve ever wondered how we decide what is true—or felt frustrated by people who seem absolutely certain about events they never witnessed—this episode will help you question…
- The Tinder Swindler: Everything Women Need to Know About Romance Fraud · 26 minIf you’ve ever wondered how romance fraud actually happens, or felt afraid that being more discerning would make you cynical, this episode will help you understand how to stay…
- Can Trust Be Rebuilt After Betrayal? What Meg and Hercules Teach Us About Repair · 36 minIf you’ve ever wondered whether trust can be rebuilt after betrayal, but felt unsure how to tell the difference between a sincere apology and actual repair, this episode will…
- The Access Audit: How to Know When Someone’s Access Needs to Change, Even Family · 48 minIf you’ve ever wondered whether someone’s access to you needs to change, but felt guilty because they are family, this episode will help you separate love from access without…
- When Men Say They Don’t Date Single Moms: Preference, Contempt, and Being a Package, Not Baggage · 44 minIf you’ve ever heard a man say, “I don’t date single moms,” and felt that little sting in your chest, this episode will help you separate preference from contempt without making…
- What to Do When a Guy Sends You a Rude Joke or Meme · 31 minIf you’re still questioning whether you’re “too sensitive,” this episode will help you understand what to do when a man sends you a rude joke, meme, or comment that does not feel…
- What Do You Want? Why It’s Not That Simple · 28 minIn this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most deceptively simple questions: “What do you want?” Inspired by The Notebook scene where Noah asks Allie this question and she…
- What You Haven’t Learned From Betrayal Yet: A Case Study on Samson and Delilah · 36 minIf you are interested in learning more about how to heal from betrayal and the sneaky ways you might be sabotaging your future with your dream person, book a call with me HERE…
- The Mother’s Day Episode You Didn’t Know You Needed · 26 minMother’s Day is beautiful… and for some of us, it’s complicated. In this episode, I’m talking about the part of motherhood we don’t always say out loud: the grief, the guilt, the…
- The Story You Inherited About Men: What It’s Actually Shaping · 47 minIn this episode, I’m introducing The Dating Mind Detox by exploring how the stories we inherited about men may still be shaping the way we date today. Before we ever experienced…
- The Courtroom, The Betrayal, and Why I Became A Dating Coach · 33 minThis episode is a little bit of everything… the courtroom, the betrayal, and the lessons that came through it. I share what happened with my pendente lite case, how I almost…
- The Dating Mistake that Feels Like "Being Nice": Mr. Styrofoam Explained · 33 minReady to stop overthinking your dating life and start getting real clarity? Book your FREE 20-minute dating consult here: [Insert Link] If you’re navigating confusing situations…
- He Was Everything… Except Available 💔 Mr. Logistically Unavailable, Explained · 35 minReady to stop overthinking your dating life and start getting real clarity? Book your FREE 20-minute dating consult here: [Insert Link] If you’re navigating confusing situations…
- The Internet Says Single Moms Are "Ruining The Dating Pool".... · 36 minSingle moms — or those of you who know and love a single mom — pay attention. I’m hosting a FREE workshop called Love Without Anxiety on March 9th and March 16th at 5:30 PM EST…
- Dating Isn’t Working… Yet: The Art of Wanting · 38 minIf you’ve been dating for a while and it hasn’t worked… If you’ve gone on the apps, tried the dates, put yourself out there… and still haven’t found your person… If you’re…
- Demystifying Imposter Syndrome: What It’s Actually Pointing To · 27 minImposter syndrome is usually treated like a confidence problem. But what if it’s actually information? In this episode, we demystify imposter syndrome by exploring what it’s…
- Cracks, But Not Broken: Healing with Fire, Faith & Feminine Power with Adlin Morales Aguilú · 52 minIn this powerful and heart-opening episode, I sit down with clinical therapist, woman of faith, and fierce advocate for healing, Adlin Morales Aguilú, to talk about her book…
- Presence over Perfection: The Christmas We Actually Need · 30 minChristmas has a way of convincing us that it has to be bigger, better, and more beautiful every year. In this episode, Haelly uses How the Grinch Stole Christmas as a mirror for…
- For That Day When Shit Hits the Fan… Yeah, Listen to This. · 22 minToday was one of those days — and if you’ve ever had a moment where everything collapses at once, this episode is for you. My car literally died in the middle of the road. A…
- Dating Like a Scientist: The Art of Experimenting Without Losing Yourself · 25 minWhat if dating didn’t have to feel heavy, confusing, or high-stakes? In this episode, Haelly breaks down the simple shift that transformed her entire dating journey — moving from…
