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Defining Diego

Defining Diego

by Somethin' Else / Sony Music Entertainment

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About this podcast

Defining Diego is the story of one Guatemalan adoptee and his mother, a reporter who documented their journey from his earliest steps, as they try to understand how international adoption boomed and busted, and what it all means for families like theirs, with feet in two worlds.

When Laurie Stern set out to adopt a baby from Guatemala in 1999, she thought the process would be pretty straightforward. Lots of people were doing it.

But the adoption was held up just as she went to Guatemala to get her son, Diego. That began a journey of discovery. What unfolds is the story of why international adoption peaked — and then collapsed — in Guatemala. It is also the story of how Diego, now 24, learned to be a Maya man with deep roots both in his birth village and Minnesota, where he still lives.

Now, Diego has questions about his adoption, too — like why tiny Guatemala was such a popular choice for many adoptive parents in the U.S. and Europe in the early 2000s. As one of more than 50,000 Guatemalan adoptees, Diego’s still figuring out what it means to be Guatemalan, American, indigenous Tzutujil, and an adoptee raised by white parents in St. Paul, Minnesota.

At its heart, Defining Diego is a deeply personal narrative: of a mother and son grappling with big questions about identity and health, and the meaning of home and family. Using 20+ years of the family’s archive recordings, we hear Diego grow up — and begin his own journey of self-discovery

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Episodes

The newest 20 of 26 episodes

  • The Dark Trail of Sandra Bridewell - Dead Husbands & Stolen Identities · 5 minShe had a million-dollar smile and a trail of dead men behind her— who was Sandra Bridewell? Host and investigative report Cooper Moll exposes the secrets of the 'black widow' on…
  • Defining Diego | Adoptee Voices · 31 min · Season 2 Episode 10Aa Tiko' travels to a meet up of Guatemalan adoptees in Washington D.C., though he’s a little unsure of what he’ll find there. He talks to three different adoptees from two…
  • Defining Diego | What Brought Me Here · 22 min · Season 2 Episode 9Aa Tiko' takes us on a journey through Guatemalan history — from the Spanish invasion to the rise of the banana industry and eventually the Guatemalan Civil War — to understand…
  • Defining Diego | 8. Becoming Aa Tiko’ · 40 min · Season 2 Episode 8A birth family reunion in 2022 helps Diego piece together more parts of his identity, but it also sparks new questions that he struggles to process — especially as he and Laurie…
  • Defining Diego | 7. What's On Paper · 47 min · Season 2 Episode 7It’s 2022, and Diego has a mission: to reclaim his Guatemalan citizenship. But on the ground in Guatemala City, he finds that his identity as an adoptee is still complicated…
  • Defining Diego | 6. Resist and Release · 43 min · Season 2 Episode 6We hear from a family whose adoption was in-progress when the Guatemalan government shut everything down. A few years after his fateful diagnosis, Diego is a surly teenager. The…
  • Defining Diego | 5. When Everything Changed · 42 min · Season 2 Episode 5When Diego turns 12, he’s diagnosed with a life-threatening illness, and his entire world turns inside out. The family goes into survival mode. Sick and angry Diego acts out —…
  • Defining Diego | 4. The Fall of International Adoption · 36 min · Season 2 Episode 4The international adoption racket is surging — and it’s gotten way out of control. All over the world, ugly stories begin to surface: of stolen children, shady adoption lawyers…
  • Defining Diego | 3. Baby Boom · 38 min · Season 2 Episode 3Adoption has become a booming industry — the price is soaring, and Guatemala has become a top exporter of babies for adoption, second only to China. But when making families…
  • Defining Diego | 2. Where I'm From · 41 min · Season 2 Episode 2Laurie takes three-year-old Diego back to Guatemala for the first time since his adoption. While Diego bonds with his birth mother Isabel, Laurie starts talking with birth…
  • Defining Diego | 1. My Two Mothers · 41 min · Season 2 Episode 1It’s 1999, and reporter Laurie Stern wants to adopt a child with her husband. At the time, international adoption seems pretty straightforward — Laurie wants a baby, and there…
  • 24 Years in the Making · 3 minDefining Diego is the story of one Guatemalan adoptee and his mother, a reporter who documented their journey from his earliest steps, as they try to understand how international…
  • What Makes a Family? · 5 minFamilies are complex, and so are the ways they come together. TJ Raphael, host of BioHacked, speaks with the host of our upcoming season — All Relative: Defining Diego, coming to…
  • BioHacked | 12. A Future Without Shame · 44 min · Season 1 Episode 12The baby business has used shame and secrecy as tools for decades. But a new generation of parents are removing stigma by leaning into a model that centers love, science, and…
  • BioHacked | 11. Underground Markets · 41 min · Season 1 Episode 11From Facebook groups to Tinder-like apps, a new generation of parents are using unregulated tech to form families outside the baby business. Get to know the women and couples…
  • BioHacked | 10. The Great Sperm Drought · 41 min · Season 1 Episode 10Fertility industry experts have a warning for donor conceived activists: new rules in the baby business could have some big, unintended consequences. Learn more about your ad…
  • BioHacked | 9. Anger To Action · 40 min · Season 1 Episode 9Donor conceived activists want lasting change, but they'll have to go big with their plans to overhaul the baby business. They've organized and strategized — and now, they're…
  • BioHacked | 8. A Deadly Donation? · 43 min · Season 1 Episode 8Thousands of women donate eggs for cash or freeze them for personal use. Could this life-altering treatment be a lot more dangerous than we think? Learn more about your ad…
  • BioHacked | 7. Cease and Desist · 34 min · Season 1 Episode 7A grandmother, a granddaughter, and one anonymous donor's fight to maintain his privacy. What happens when a genetic test creates a family rift? Learn more about your ad choices…
  • BioHacked | 6. Wrongful Life · 38 min · Season 1 Episode 6The David and Goliath battle between an industry powerhouse and a family with a sick child. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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