Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha
by Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor
How A Tiny Argument Almost Ruined Our Vacation
About this podcast
Hey, what’s up fam. We’re Ken and Tabatha, and we’re so glad you found our YouTube page. We always pray, “God, let the people who need this channel find this channel.” So, if you’re here, you’re an answer to prayer.
We have one major goal. We want to help you grow in love with God and grow in love with the people God has placed in your life. The way we do that is simple. We take what we’ve learned and we share it. We’ve been married for 26 years, and we always jokingly say it’s been the best 24 years of our lives. The first two years were pretty bad. We had all the classic problems: silent treatments, weaponized sex, a lack of communication skills, financial pressures, and more. But we learned tools and principles from God’s Word that helped us turn our marriage around. Now we’re happy to say we’re best friends.
That’s why people ask us all the time, “Do you have a special anointing for marriage?” And our answer is always the same. No, we just have tools. This channel is our way of paying those tools forward to you, because we really believe that with the right tools, there’s no marriage and no relationship that can’t get better.
This is primarily a marriage and relationships channel, but it’s not just that. It’s also a personal growth channel, because we believe when you get better, the marriage gets better. So, get ready to have some fun. We’re going to talk about our highs, our lows, and everything in between. Honestly, you’ll probably learn more from our mess-ups than you will from our mountaintop moments.
Enjoy the journey, and share this with somebody, because we believe sharing is caring, and caring is sharing.
New episodes every Thursday at 3PM EST.
Peace.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 210 episodes
- How A Tiny Argument Almost Ruined Our Vacation · 32 minSend us Fan Mail A beachside dinner in Turks and Caicos should be easy romance, right? Ours nearly got derailed by one small moment, a napkin, a stuffy nose, and a reaction that…
- When You Get Better Your Marriage Gets Better · 40 minSend us Fan Mail Marriage advice is everywhere, but most of it avoids the hard truth: you can’t “fix” a relationship you refuse to grow inside of. After 27 years together, we’ve…
- Beware of the Rage Bait | Why Anger Is Controlling So Many People · 34 minSend us Fan Mail Rage bait is not an accident, it’s a strategy. We’re living in a moment where anger gets rewarded, fear gets monetized, and the loudest reactions rise to the top…
- Godly Prosperity vs. Ungodly Prosperity - Understanding the Purpose of Prosperity · 40 minSend us Fan Mail Prosperity can sound like a scam word until you separate what’s biblical from what’s flesh. We’re not interested in hype or debates. We want God’s heart, because…
- Good Sex Starts With Good Communication · 39 minSend us Fan Mail Sex gets awkward fast when nobody feels safe enough to tell the truth and that silence can slowly turn lovers into roommates. We’re Ken and Tabatha Claytor…
- Let Him Lead. A Call to Godly Wives. · 39 minSend us Fan Mail “Let him lead” can sound like a fight waiting to happen, especially if you’ve seen leadership used as control or heard submission preached like silence. We take…
- How to Stop Bumping Heads With Others · 37 minSend us Fan Mail The conflict is not always about the conflict. Sometimes it is pride trying to stay in control, old wounds looking for a target, or a tone that makes people stop…
- How Resentment Slowly Destroys a Marriage · 23 minSend us Fan Mail Resentment doesn’t usually sound like yelling. It sounds like “I’m fine,” feels like distance on the couch, and shows up as keeping score in your head. Ken and…
- Understanding the Fear of the Lord · 38 minSend us Fan Mail Casual faith sounds harmless until it starts reshaping your conscience. We sit down and talk honestly about the fear of the Lord and why it is not panic…
- Why Are So Many Good Marriages Quietly Falling Apart? · 29 minSend us Fan Mail A marriage can be stable on paper and still feel strangely far apart at home. We’re talking about the slow drift: the subtle, gradual disconnect that happens…
- The Most Common Lies Satan Uses — And How to Break Free · 34 minSend us Fan Mail The most dangerous prisons don’t have bars, they have beliefs. Ken and Tabatha Claytor go straight at the core of spiritual warfare: the lies that shape how we…
- Your Sons & Daughters Will Prophesy · 38 minSend us Fan Mail Your words are doing more than describing your life. They’re shaping it. Ken and Tabatha Claytor dig into the Scripture “your sons and your daughters shall…
- How To Love Your Spouse When You Do Not Like Them · 35 minSend us Fan Mail What do you do when you still love your spouse, but you honestly do not like them right now? We go straight into the real-life stuff couples actually fight…
- Five Practical Ways To Care For Your Husband With Faith And Respect · 48 minSend us Fan Mail What if the next breakthrough in your marriage is something simple you can do this week at home, not a huge speech or a dramatic reset? We sit down for a…
- The Number One Thing Wives Need · 48 minSend us Fan Mail What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage is waiting on the other side of real leadership at home? Ken and Tabatha Claytor sit down for a direct, honest…
- God’s Design For Sex · 48 minSend us Fan Mail Most couples don’t break because they stop loving each other. They break because they stop feeling connected, and one of the fastest places that disconnection…
- How to Fight for Your Marriage Together · 40 minSend us Fan Mail What if the tension in your home isn’t proof you married the wrong person, but proof you’re fighting the wrong enemy? We get real about spiritual warfare in…
- How To Save A Marriage With Better Thoughts · 29 minSend us Fan Mail A marriage can look fine on the outside while quietly getting torn down from the inside by one habit: a critical inner dialogue. We get honest about what happens…
- Why Keeping A List Of Wrongs Kills Intimacy And How To Let It Go · 28 minSend us Fan Mail Keeping a mental list of your spouse’s mistakes feels like self-protection, but it quietly turns your home into a courtroom. When every argument pulls out old…
- Seven Biblical Steps To Turn A Bad Marriage Around · 39 minSend us Fan Mail A bad marriage can feel like you’re trapped in the same house with a stranger, stuck between “I don’t want to leave” and “I can’t do this anymore.” We go…
