DOMMED
by DOMMED Podcast
Tease and Denial: Why Dominatrices Love Saying No
About this podcast
DOMMED is a podcast about power, desire, and what kink reveals about being human.
Hosted by Gemma Li and Seraphyna, the show explores BDSM, FemDom, and power exchange through provocative conversations on intimacy, identity, control, surrender, trust, and the dynamics shaping how we relate.
What happens inside a scene is rarely separate from the rest of life. Through psychology, lived experience, and honest conversation, DOMMED makes taboo feel intelligent, intimate, and unexpectedly familiar.
Connect: www.dommedpodcast.com
Gemma Li: www.mistressgemmali.com
Seraphyna: www.theseraphyna.com
Episodes
The newest 20 of 21 episodes
- Tease and Denial: Why Dominatrices Love Saying No · 23 min · Episode 15Tease and denial is one of BDSM and FemDom’s clearest forms of erotic control, and one of Gemma and Seraphyna’s favorite kinds of power play. In this episode of DOMMED, they…
- BDSM Aftercare: Sub Drop, Domme Drop & What Happens After · 20 min · Season 2 Episode 14The part everyone often rushes past may be the part that matters most. Gemma and Seraphyna explore BDSM aftercare, sub drop, Domme drop, the comedown that can follow the…
- Is Total Power Exchange Too Extreme? Inside 24/7 D/s · 44 min · Episode 13Total Power Exchange can look extreme from the outside until you realize healthy D/s dynamic shares the same structure like any good relationship. Ōkimi Rei Yamazawa joins Gemma…
- BDSM 101: Consent & What Sex Ed Didn’t Teach You · 25 min · Episode 12This is BDSM 101, but not the beginner lecture you are expecting. Before there are whips, rituals, roles, or surrender, there has to be consent, trust, communication, and the…
- BDSM Gender Role Reversal: Feminization, Power & Permission · 18 min · Season 2 Episode 11BDSM gender role reversal is not just roleplay. Through feminization, FemDom, power exchange, and self-expression, gender can become something explored rather than assumed. Gemma…
- Why “Normal” People Secretly Crave Control · 24 min · Episode 10Power dynamics are not as taboo as people pretend. BDSM makes power visible, but the same dynamics shape relationships, religion, leadership, money, influence, and the choices…
- Chastity, Surveillance & Control: Inside 24/7 BDSM Play · 19 min · Season 2 Episode 6Chastity, surveillance, and control are not just kinky prompts. Inside 24/7 power exchange, they become language, structure, obsession, and proof that submission has no off…
- When Power Exchange Gets Messy: Truth, Conflict & Real Submission · 19 min · Season 2 Episode 5Real power exchange is not always clean, erotic, or easy. In part three of the pups’ Mini-Series, Gemma, Seraphyna, and pups talk about what happens when a BDSM dynamic hits…
- 24/7 Power Exchange: What Real Submission Looks Like · 17 min · Season 2 Episode 4Real submission is not only latex, whips, and obedience during a scene. In part two of the pups’ Mini-Series, Gemma, Seraphyna, and pups talk about 24/7 total power exchange and…
- Inside Financial Domination: The Findom Contract Behind Our Power Exchange · 34 min · Season 2 Episode 3What happens when financial domination becomes more than a transaction? Gemma, Seraphyna, and pups open the first part of the pups’ Mini-Series with a personal look at Gemma and…
- FinDom: Money, Power & Online Domination · 48 min · Season 2 Episode 2Financial domination is not just sending money. Findom reveals how value, praise, shame, devotion, power, and desire can attach themselves to money. Gemma and Seraphyna are…
- How FemDom Changed Us: Power, Kink & Season 2 · 32 min · Season 2 Episode 1Season 2 begins with a shift. Gemma and Seraphyna return to DOMMED after growth, heartbreak, change, and a deeper understanding of FemDom, BDSM, and power exchange. This is not…
- Edge Play: Try These Psychological BDSM Mind Games · 32 min · Season 1 Episode 9Psychological edge play is where BDSM leaves the body and enters the mind. Gemma and Seraphyna get into fear play, shadow play, mind games, confusion, control, trust, and the…
- He Dedicated His Whole Life to a Dominatrix · 43 min · Episode 8What does it really mean to dedicate your life to a Dominatrix? Seraphyna interviews pups, Gemma Li’s collared FemDom submissive, about devotion, structure, surveillance…
- The Hidden Risks of Being a Dominatrix · 29 min · Season 1 Episode 6Being a Dominatrix is not only fantasy, performance, and power. It also means navigating stigma, privacy, censorship, legal risk, and systems that often misunderstand adult work…
- Is BDSM the New Religion? Ritual, Worship & Power Exchange · 33 min · Episode 7BDSM and religion have more in common than most people want to admit. Both use ritual, hierarchy, worship, confession, surrender, and devotion to shape the body and soul. Gemma…
- Dominatrix Fantasies You’ve Never Heard Before · 38 min · Season 1 Episode 5Dominatrix fantasies are rarely just about sex. They carry worship, control, shame, longing, power, and the hidden stories people bring into BDSM before they ever enter a scene…
- From Ancient Goddess to Today: The Provocative History of Female Dominance · 32 min · Season 1 Episode 4This episode Gemma and Seraphyna unravel the provocative, often overlooked history of Femdom and BDSM. From an ancient goddess to today’s online Dominatrix, the story of female…
- How Curiosity Becomes Control: Seraphyna’s FemDom Origin Story · 36 min · Season 1 Episode 3Curiosity is often the first doorway into control. Gemma interviews Seraphyna about her path into FemDom, kink, self-expression, and the kind of power that comes from becoming…
- Inside the Mind of a Dominatrix: Power, Seduction & Surrender · 33 min · Season 1 Episode 2Power is not only what a Dominatrix does. It is what she sees, holds, and transforms. Seraphyna interviews Gemma Li about BDSM, FemDom, psychological surrender, edge play, and…







