Don't Blame Me!
by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts
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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it.
Check out their other show, But Am I Watching?
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- BLUE MF TSUNAMI · 1 h 7 minIn this episode of Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa discuss election night 2026, Halloween, Melisa seeing Alanis Morissette, Meghan sharing some disturbing jewelry, and they…
- 8 Day Road Trip · 1 h 19 minOn this episode, Meghan and Melisa give advice on using your PTO for a family trip and get an update from the person who had unexplained infertility. They also discuss the WNBA…
- Friend’s BF Says Slurs · 57 minThis week on Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa give advice on what to do when your friend's boyfriend is an idiot. They also discuss Melisa's respiratory test, blimps, foraging…
- Accidental Throuple · 1 h 5 minMeghan and Melisa give advice on navigating your new normal with the two men in your life, and also discuss Halloween, Thanksgiving, Meghan's anniversary, Melisa attending a…
- Dating 20 People In A Month · 1 h 0 minThis week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on trying to get over a friend you want to be romantic with, and your boyfriend being better as a friend. They also discuss the new…
- Unexplained Infertility · 1 h 13 minThis week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on being bitter toward people and your fiance being the town bike. There's also an update about machetes, Melisa shares more…
- Taking Care of a Grow Man · 1 h 7 minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice to a caller whose boyfriend expects her to do all the household chores. They also discuss Melisa being selected for jury duty, Meghan…
- Taken Advantage Of · 1 h 14 minThis week, Meghan and Melisa give advice on working for a non-profit. Melisa brings back a classic But Am I Wrong rant. And Meghan shares some new info with Melisa. Join our…
- Bizarre Love Triangle · 53 minThis week, Meghan and Melisa give advice on a friend who retaliates and another friend who accuses the listener of picking fights. The duo also discuss the heat wave, paying to…
- Everyone's Pregnant But Me · 1 h 24 minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on dealing with a shitty mom and fertility issues. They also discuss Melisa going to a movie premiere, Meghan's road trip from Denver, the…
- Always Dating Older Men · 1 h 4 minThis week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on dealing with your sister acting weird and navigating relationships in a healthy way. They also honor Dolly Parton, and discuss…
- Cursed Witch · 1 h 27 minThis week on Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa once again argue about season and calendar dates. They discuss the recalls. Meghan is reorganizing and went to the gyno. Melisa is…
- DBM: Break's Over · 1 h 10 minMeghan and Melisa are back from their summer break, and one of them is worse for wear. They discuss Melisa's disastrous trip (which is why this is audio only) Meghan's fun trip…
- Dating My Teacher · 1 h 5 minThis week, Meghan and Melisa give advice on pursuing a relationship as a widow, your grandfather being a sugar daddy, and recovering from endometriosis surgery. Join our…
- Family Friend is My Ex · 1 h 6 minThis week on Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on how to ensure your girlfriend isn't jealous of your ex, thoughts on not graduating from college, and a Don't…
- My BF Hooked Up With My BFF · 1 h 8 minOn this episode, Meghan Melisa gives advice on feeling behind when dating, your friend group being a reality show, and in Don't Blame Me, a bunch of you write in to share your…
- ADHD and PhD · 1 h 2 minOn this week's episode of Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on what to do if you think you have ADHD, if you should drop out of your PhD program, and an update…
- Evil Weirdo · 1 h 9 minOn this episode of Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on what to do if you start dating your friend, but they still have feelings for their ex, your partner not…
- Summer Fling · 1 h 4 minThis week on Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on pursuing things further with a friend you've always had tension with, and how to handle a friend who talks too…
- I Kissed My Ex's Friend · 56 minThis week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on dating within a 5-mile radius of your ex, your mom being jealous of your dad's new girlfriend, and an update from the person…
- My Best Friend is Jealous of My Girlfriend · 1 h 0 minIn this episode of Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on what to do if you're miserable in your job, and how to handle your friend who thinks you're putting all…
- Sexless Relationship · 1 h 0 minMeghan has no issues. Melisa has all the issues. After Meghan fills Melisa in on the fires she knew nothing about, Meghan and Melisa give advice on if you should break up with…
- Costal Elite Set the Standard · 58 minThis week of DBM, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice to someone who found their engagement ring and is unsure if they want to get married, and receive an update from the caller…
- Drawing Boundaries With My Older Coworker · 59 minThis week on Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on befriending your coworker and also letting your friend know that they can't just change your plans. They also…
- I Hate My Friends · 58 minThis week on Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa get an update about the Coke-zilla, and also give advice to a high school senior who has grown apart from their friend. In other…
- Sacrificing Your Livelihood For a Man · 1 h 1 minWelcome to the most nasal episode yet! Meghan and Melisa's health is deteriorating. They have an update from the December 18, 2023 episode where a listener's dog was ruining…
- Playing With Toys · 1 h 5 minThis week on Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa give advice on rekindling a friendship with someone who cut off another friend, and introducing toys in the bedroom with your…
- Flew Out For Friend's Bridal Fitting · 1 h 6 minIn this episode, Meghan and Melisa give advice having hard conversations in friendships. They also discuss going to space camp, eyesight, Jeopardy!, Easter plans, Juggalos…
- How to Propose · 1 h 6 minThis Week Meghan and Melisa are giving a long time listener advice on proposing! They also discuss: - Project Hail Mary - The curvature of Tahj Mowry's Back - Chili from TLC…
- Vegas Trip · 1 h 5 minThis week they're giving advice on: - Taking a spontaneous trip to Las Vegas - Update: Dumping your boyfriend They also discuss: - Meghan is coming around to liking Melissa's…
- Sibling Reconciliation · 1 h 24 minOn this week's Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa have a live update from someone who desperately wants to reconcile with their sister. They also discuss Sinners' Oscar Wins…
- My Friend is Always the Drama · 1 h 13 minThis week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on a friend who is constantly not learning from their mistakes and getting an update from the writer whose friend wanted to do coke…
- The Bride Wants to Play In *Snow* at Her Wedding · 1 h 25 minOn this episode, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: - Being a bridesmaid to an out-of-control bride - Dealing with a rough 2026 They also discuss: - Nightmares - Selena…
- Cousin In A Cult · 1 h 3 minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: - Reconnecting after a fight with a friend - Cousin being in a cult And also discuss: - Incredible TV: Ponies, Paradise, The…
- Making Time For Your Partner · 1 h 6 minThis Week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Scheduling time with your boyfriend Clarification from the gal dating Italians They also discuss: America's Next Top Model…
- Winter Olympics Drama · 1 h 14 minThis week on Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Dating guys from the same country Reconnecting with your sibling They also discuss: Melisa getting it on…
- The Week of Bad Bunny · 58 minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Your co-working possibly being on coke Asking for a recommendation letter And in pop culture they discuss: Timothée's new woman?…
- 2026 Predictions · 1 h 6 minThis week, Meghan and Melisa mourn Catherine O'Hara, give advice on not letting work consume your life, and receive an update from the person keeping their distance from their…
- He’s Focused On My Butt · 57 minWe're back! And on this week's episode, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Supporting your friend who's with someone who is poly, but they aren't First time being in a…
- Closing Up Shop For The Winter · 1 h 10 minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Situationship Doesn’t Want a Relationship Dating a divorce woman in her 40s with kids And also discuss Melisa’s trip to Arkansas, Meghan…
- Figuring Out Who You Are As An Adult · 1 h 0 minMeghan and Melisa give advice on not getting along with your supervisor and then they delve into how to manage a relationship when your partner struggles to handle emotional…
- He Shushed Me · 1 h 5 minIn this week's episode, Meghan and Melisa give advice to a listener struggling to get over fear in the workplace . Then, they settle a sticky listener debate about dealing with…
- REPLAY: Friend Wanted to Throw A Party Over My Breakup · 1 h 13 minOriginal Air Date: November 20, 2023 Meghan and Melisa to give advice on: Update: Friend thinks I’m going to hell because I’m bisexual. Is finishing your degree worth it?…
- He's Too White For Her · 46 minIt's been a wet week in LA! Meghan shares the sweet details of making a birthday cake for her nephew and excitedly installing her new Christmas lights. Meanwhile, Melisa opens…
- A 29 Year Old Wants to Date An 18 Year Old · 1 h 18 minThis week, we're delving into the drama! A listener has written in with a classic dilemma: She's got a major crush on her much older boss. We also get an update from our caller…
- My Friend is Part of The Problem · 57 minThis week, Meghan and Melisa delve into tough subjects and personal updates. The advice segment addresses a listener struggling with the decision to reach out to a problematic…
- The Monkey Has Been Destroyed · 1 h 0 minMeghan kicks things off by reflecting on her Halloween costume. Melisa follows with a non-announcement. They also laugh over that old viral clip of the Boston cop going down the…
- They Wished They Could Do What In Your Mouth? · 50 minMeghan and Melisa reintroduce themselves for the new version of Don’t Blame Me. They discuss Kristen Bell’s unfortunate post, answer a listener’s question about taking children…
- SYNT: The Bisexual Compromise (Show Finale!) · 35 minMeghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong - The bisexual compromise. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
- Subscribe to But Am I Watching? · 1 minWe've started a new-ish podcast! Head over to our other feeds: Subscribe to But Am I Watching? Apple Spotify Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
