About this podcast
I started this podcast as the result of my own experience in a narcissistic abusive marriage, which I eventually left. My hope is that as you listen, you will gain a better understanding of what narcissistic abuse is and how to be an Overcomer, not just a survivor. It is my heart’s desire for every woman to know how valuable you are and how much you contribute to the goodness in this world. Don't ever accept crumbs. Live the Life you Deserve. Disclaimer: I am NOT a professional counselor and I do not have a degree in this area. I am simply someone who was able to find true hope after narcissistic abuse and wanted to share what has helped me personally.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 82 episodes
- It's Not Your Job to Save Them · 8 minHey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. How many of you have heard someone say to you “It’s not your job to save them”? Although this statement pertains to any…
- Afraid of Losing What? · 8 min · Episode 80Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. So I have a question for you: Have you ever been in a relationship and the thought of losing it finds its way across your…
- Attention is Not Love · 7 min · Episode 79Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. I know I’ve spoken before in one of my previous episodes (I believe it was #76) about the difference between Attention and…
- I Choose ME · 7 min · Episode 78Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. In this world of self help and self healing, the words I Choose Me, especially for women, hold a different meaning than…
- Healthy Boundaries in a Relationship · 7 min · Episode 77Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. So today, I want to talk about Boundaries….Healthy Boundaries. Healthy Boundaries are important in ALL aspects of our life…
- Attention is Not Affection · 8 min · Episode 76Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today what I want to talk about is Attention is not Affection. What a statement. Do you misinterpret attention for…
- The Danger of "Potential" · 6 min · Episode 75Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I want to talk about seeing the “Potential” in someone especially when it comes to relationships. This is a topic…
- Love Bombing - Is it Happening to Me? · 8 min · Episode 74Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I want to talk about Love Bombing. This is a topic I’m pretty passionate about because I’ve lived it and I want…
- Waiting is Hard · 6 min · Episode 73Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I want to talk about Waiting. Ugh. Waiting is Hard. It doesn’t matter if you are waiting on finding your special…
- Having Self Respect · 6 min · Episode 72Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Having Self Respect is what I want to talk about today. Why is it so important especially when it comes to relationships?…
- Standards in Relationships · 7 minHey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. A word I’ve heard a lot of, especially in the dating/relationship world (and maybe you have too), is Standards. Apparently…
- Finding Your Peace · 6 min · Episode 70Today’s topic is Finding Your Peace. This is not about me telling you how to find it but rather me simply sharing some of my own experiences in MY search for Peace. Whether they…
- Are You Chasing or Attracting? · 6 minHey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. I have a question for you. In the context of relationships, have you ever thought about whether you’re chasing or whether…
- When to End a Relationship · 7 min · Episode 68Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I want to talk about relationships. They certainly aren’t easy and ending them can prove to be very difficult…
- Seeking Validation · 6 minHey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Have you ever thought about the ways in which you seek validation? Are you even aware that it’s something you do? As…
- The "I Love You" Trap · 6 minHey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I wanted to talk about something that applies to not only those of us who are single but also to those of us who are…
- Finding Your Person · 6 min · Episode 65Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. So I’ve been thinking lately about this whole “single and wanting to meet someone” position many of us find ourselves in…
- Right or Wrong Person For You · 6 min · Episode 64Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Have you ever met someone and felt like you knew they weren’t the “right” person for you but you were drawn to them anyhow…
- Dimming Your Light · 6 min · Episode 63Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. So as I’ve been reflecting back on my own Life experiences, one thing I’ve become aware of are the times when I allowed…
- Turning Pain Into Power · 6 min · Episode 62Life can really deal us some heavy blows when it comes to pain. It can come in the form of loss, abandonment, rejection, or even disappointment on how Life has turned out. We ALL…







