Emotional Intelligence Developer
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Emotional Intelligence Developer Podcast
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Helping people improve wellbeing through practical tools, honest conversations and resources for reflection, resilience and personal growth.
Our episodes explore emotional intelligence, self-awareness, confidence, relationships, mental resilience, work, personal growth and the challenges of everyday life. Each message is designed to give you something to think about, apply, or discuss.
We're more than a podcast — we're a community for people who need one.
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FREE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE TOOLS
A free emotional support tool you might find useful Suicide Prevention Awareness Tool: https://emotionalintelligencedeveloper-glitch.github.io/mcn/Suicide-Prevention-and-Emotional-Support-Tool.html
This is a free 2027 - A.I. Tool, work and life reflection tool helps you feel less alone and find a next step: https://emotionalintelligencedeveloper-glitch.github.io/mcn/ai-bubble-fear-2026-tool.html
This free Boundary Builder tool helped me find my words: https://emotionalintelligencedeveloper-glitch.github.io/mcn/boundary-builder-tool.html
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Episodes
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- Dave Chappelle's Charlie Kirk Joke: Insensitive, Not Funny, and Too Soon is Too Soon, and It Is Too Too Soon. · 11 minDave Chappelle's comments about Charlie Kirk's murder raise a difficult question: when does comedy cross the line into insensitivity?In this message, we examine why joking about…
- One Free Tool Can Travel Across Borders. Here's How You Can Make It Happen. · 4 minImagine discovering a free emotional intelligence tool because someone shared it with you. You find it useful, so you share it with a friend. That friend forwards it to someone…
- Stealing Can Cost You More Than You Think. Here's Why You Should Stop. · 5 min"Put it in your pocket. Nobody is watching." It might seem like a small decision at the time. A child takes something from a classmate, a teenager steals to impress friends, or…
- When You Use What You Have to Control Others. Here's Why Power Should Never Make You Cruel. · 10 min"I am the one who pays the bills, so I have the final say." For some people, that sentence is more than a reminder of who provides for the household. It becomes a way of…
- Why Black Friday Is Not a Financial Emergency. Here's How to Protect Your Money. · 8 min"Buy it now. The offer ends tonight." You see the discount, check your bank balance and start convincing yourself that you are saving money. But were you planning to buy that…
- You Can Admire Someone and Still Be Destroyed by Their Influence. Here's How to Protect Your Mind. · 7 minYou see someone online living the life you wish you had. The money, the cars, the confidence and the attention can make their advice feel like a shortcut to success. But what…
- The Fake Rich Guru Exposed: Why We Love Watching Internet Millionaires Fall · 10 min"Do you actually own this mansion? Are those really your cars?" Imagine building an online reputation around financial freedom, luxury cars and an extraordinary lifestyle, only…
- What Is Your Emotional Intelligence Score? Find Out In 20 Questions. · 2 minSomeone told you that you're too sensitive. Someone else said you're cold. Both can't be true, so how do you really come across? Most of us have a feeling about how we handle…
- Mental Game: Find 40 wellbeing words, learn what each one means and get a 7 day plan. · 3 min"What's wrong?" "Nothing." "I'm fine." But you're not fine. You just don't have the word for it.Most of us were never taught the words for what we feel. That's not your fault…
- A 15-Year-Old Javits Frimpong Was Walking to School. What Does His Death Teach Us About Bullying and Emotional Intelligence? · 13 minA fifteen-year-old leaves home in the morning, expecting to return that afternoon. His father expects to see him again. His classmates expect to meet him at school. But that…
- The Gender Reflection Tool. I'm Not Sure Where I Fit. Here's A Gentle Place To Start · 3 minI Am Not Sure Where I Fit. Here Is A Gentle Place To Start. Someone says, "Ladies on this side, gentlemen on that side," and for a second you don't move. Many people carry a…
- Try The New & Improved Teens Glow-Up Mood Tracker & Growth Journal · 3 minYou said "I'm fine" again today. But you weren't, and you couldn't say why. Most teens feel moods that rise and fall with no explanation. One day you feel strong, the next you…
- A Free Game That Teaches All Ages About Feelings. It's called the Feelings Detective Course. · 2 minA door slams. You ask what's wrong, and the answer is nothing. Then you realize you said the same word yourself this week. If you only have a few words for what you feel, you're…
- Are Your Values Good Or Harmful? Here Is How To Tell. · 2 minYou hear a sentence come out of your mouth that you swore you'd never say, in the exact tone of someone who raised you. Where did that come from? Many of the quiet rules we live…
- I Don't Know What I'm Good At Emotionally. Here's How To Find Out. · 2 minYou're staring at a blank line that says list your strengths, and all you can think of is what's wrong with you. If you've spent years believing you're not really good at…
- Fallon Sherrock: Woman Who Beat the Men’s World Number 1 at Darts. Her Lesson. · 10 minThey Said She Did Not Belong On That Stage. Then She Beat Luke Littler. Here Is What Every Girl and Young Person Can Learn From Fallon Sherrock. Fourteen people walked out to…
- I Am Scared Of Losing My Job To A.I. Here's How To Feel Less Alone. · 3 minAnother headline. Another company saying a tool can now do what a whole team used to do. You put your phone face down, look at the work you've spent years getting good at, and a…
- I Feel Like My Life Does Not Match Who I Am Inside. Here Is How To Check. · 3 minEverything looks fine from the outside, yet something inside quietly says, this is not me. If your life feels like clothes that almost fit, you are not broken, ungrateful, or…
- How old was I when I grew up? · 2 minMy father died when I was 7 years old. Did my mental switch happen then? I remember hearing family members after the funeral tell me that I was now the man of the house, but…
- The Transgender Conversation We Are Afraid to Have: Fear and Hope · 12 minA mother stands at a kitchen counter at eleven at night, and her child says, "Please don't be angry." Across town, a grandfather puts down his fork and says what nobody at the…
- I Am Afraid, And I Want To Do It Anyway. Here Is Your Next Step. · 2 minIt's been open on your screen for days. The form, the message, the page you keep coming back to. Your finger hovers over the button, your heart races, and you close it again. If…
- I Keep Exploding Over Small Things. Here Is Why, And What To Do. · 3 minIt was only a glass of water. Someone knocked it over, and you snapped, louder and sharper than the spill deserved. Then the room went quiet, and you wondered why you just did…
- I Need To Have A Hard Conversation With Someone And I'm Terrified. Here Is What To Say. · 3 minYou've practised it in the shower. You've practised it in the car. You know exactly how it starts. Then the moment gets close, and every word disappears. If you're terrified of a…
- I Cannot Say No To Anyone And I'm Exhausted. Here Is How To Start. · 3 minIt's Sunday night. You open your calendar and look at the week ahead, searching for one thing on the page that you chose for yourself. You can't find it. If you can't say no to…
- I Am Panicking Right Now. Here Are The Next 3 Minutes. · 3 minYour heart is pounding. Your breath feels short. Your hands are tingling, and a voice in your head keeps saying something is terribly wrong.If you are panicking, your body's…
- I Am Scared Of Gun Violence At School Or In My Area. Here Is What You Can Do. · 3 minA door slams. A car backfires. Something drops in the hallway. And for one second your whole body freezes and your eyes go looking for the nearest way out.If you are scared of…
- Why Phone Sex Is Good for Your Relationship: 10 Benefits of Keeping the Fire Burning · 11 minA fire only burns when you feed it. In a relationship, passion needs attention, affection, and two people who still want to enjoy each other. Love can be beautiful, playful…
- Someone I Love Was Killed By Violence. Here Is How To Get Through Today · 3 minThe phone keeps ringing. People keep arriving with food you cannot eat. Someone asks if you are okay, and nothing comes out.When someone you love is killed by violence, grief…
- I Do Not Want To Be Here Anymore. Here Is What Can Help Right Now · 3 minYou smiled at work today. You told people you were fine. Then you got home, everything went quiet, and the thought came back again. I do not want to be here anymore. If you are…
- I Am Being Hit By The Person Who Says They Love Me. It Is Not Your Fault. Here Is What You Can Do Next · 2 minThey said sorry again. They cried. They promised it would never happen again. And you wanted to believe them.If you are being hit by someone who says they love you, you may feel…
- I'm Being Sexually Abused and It's Not My Fault. Here Is What I Can Do Next · 2 minI Am Being Sexually Abused. It Is Not My Fault. Here Is What I Can Do Next.You keep asking yourself what you did wrong. Why you froze. Why you stayed. Why you did not fight back…
- They Cheated. Do You Stay or Leave? · 12 minYou see a message on your partner's phone, and suddenly every memory, every promise, and every quiet moment in your relationship feels different. You want answers, but you are…
- Empty Nest: Your Children Grew Up. Who Are You Now? · 7 minThe house is quiet. The cooking is finished. Nobody is asking where their shoes are, what is for dinner, or whether you can help them with something. You finally have the peace…
- I Lost My Marriage. How Do I Start My Life Again? · 18 minYou reach for two cups, and then you put one back. That is the moment it becomes real.Divorce does not only end a marriage. It takes the Sunday plans, the shared jokes, the…
- Everyone Thinks You Have Money Because You Have a Job · 14 minYour salary has barely arrived, and somebody is already asking for a share. You have bills to pay, debts to manage, and your own plans to think about. But to your family, you…
- They Bullied Me For My Parents. Here's How to Face the Shame That Was Never Yours · 15 min"Your dad doesn't even live with you, does he?"Sometimes, one question in a school corridor is enough to make a child wish their family were different. A joke about divorced…
- While Rich Countries Panic About AI, Africa Gets a Second Chance. Here's What Africa Should Do With It · 18 minImagine spending decades building a career, only to discover that artificial intelligence is changing the job you believed would keep you secure. Now imagine being a young…
- Halle Berry, a Photo, and a Teen Caught in the Middle. Here's What Every Family Should Know · 11 minA teenager takes a photograph of his mother. Soon, that image is being discussed in court while his parents fight over custody. But behind the headlines is a much bigger…
- Academic Pressure: Everyone Thinks You're Doing Fine. You're Actually Falling Apart. Here's What You Can Do · 10 minYou tell your parents that your studies are going well. You tell your friends that you are keeping up. You walk into lectures, smile at your classmates, and try to look like…
- They Mock Your Shoes Because You're Poor. Here's How to Face Them Without Losing Yourself · 11 minIt starts with a small hole in a shoe and a laugh nobody was supposed to hear. Then it becomes a nickname, a photo in the class group chat, and a question whispered across a…
- They're Making Your Job Miserable. Is It Time to Speak Up? · 11 minThe worst part of your job may no longer be the work itself. It is the email you read four times, the meeting where people laugh at you, the kitchen that goes quiet when you walk…
- The Blesser, The Sugar Daddy And The Gift With Strings In Africa: What Nobody Tells You Until You Owe Them. Here's How To Walk Away Safely. · 15 minThe phone arrives as a surprise. The money comes when she needs it most. Her friends tell her she is lucky, and for a while, she believes them. But when she finally says she…
- The African Scammers' Trap: Why Smart People Lose Money and How to Protect Yourself · 15 minYou get a message. It looks real. The person sounds desperate. The opportunity promises exactly what you have been hoping for. And before you have had time to question what is…
- The African Betting App Trap: Why Young Men Gamble Their Future for a Chance at Money · 10 minThe Betting App Is Not A Side Hustle: Why It Feels Like Hope For Young African Men And Costs Everything. 3 FREE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE TOOLS 1. A free emotional support tool you…
- The Degree On The Wall And No Job: Why Sitting At Home Is Not Your Identity · 16 minThe degree is on the wall. The visitor is on the couch. And the question you have learned to dread is already on its way. So, what are you doing now? If you have studied…
- Why the African Mind Is in Shambles and Will Become Worse Because of Artificial Intelligence. Here's What You Should Do · 11 minWhat happens when an African asks artificial intelligence to explain their culture, their faith, their relationships and their future, only to discover that the machine may…
- Why a 'f*ck you' is completely warranted in certain encounters: Is it okay to care less about a specific person, situation, or outcome? · 3 minFor open messages visit the community This is a no under 18 podcast message. We’re about to talk grown folks’ business... something young people haven’t truly experienced. You’re…
- RJ Mitte: Why pain shouldn’t be silent but loud · 3 minRJ Mitte on Why We Need to Make Our Pain Loud. RJ Mitte died on October 12, 2026, at age 34. His reps confirmed his death by suicide in Texas. Wikipedia. The clever people will…
- Our Community, We Need You. Help Us Keep the Lights On · 2 minYou can become a community member for just five or fifteen dollars, or make a donation through our website. Visit the links on our profile to get started. You can also visit…
- If Soldiers Can Get PTSD From War, What Happens to the People Who Never Leave the War Zone? · 11 minA soldier drops to the floor when a plate breaks at the dinner table. Far away, a mother carries her child down the stairs in the dark for the ninth night in a row.One has come…
