Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast
de Ali Jackson
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On Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast, dating & relationship coach Ali Jackson (@findingmrheight) brings you her positive and practical approach built from personal experience in the dating trenches. No matter where you are in your relationship journey, you’ll learn how to identify your needs, embrace your feelings, and directly communicate both.
Ready to feel more authentic and grounded in your relationships and more joyful in your life overall? Tune in as Ali brings you relatable conversations with both expert guests and listeners just like you, peppering in her own personal insights along the way.
Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or any major podcast network. Find even more content from Ali on her Patreon, (https://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight)
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- 295. The Farewell One ft. Roark and Erica · 59 min · Episodul 295After six years and nearly 300 episodes, this is the final episode of Finding Mr. Height on the public feed, and Ali didn’t want to do it alone. Her first co-host, Roark, and her…
- 294. The Nickname, The Private Stuff, and The Ending ft. Skyline · 44 min · Episodul 294Skyline is back, this time for his send-off from the public pod. He talks about finding out what FMH actually was, going back to listen after their first few dates to scope out…
- 293. The Friends I Made Along the Way ft. Ilana Dunn & Talia Koren · 51 min · Episodul 293For one of the last episodes of Finding Mr. Height, Ali sits down with the two friends she made in a podcasting world she assumed would be cutthroat: Ilana Dunn of Seeing Other…
- 292. If She's Not Too Much, Why Am I? ft. Serena Kerrigan · 52 min · Episodul 292Serena Kerrigan went on 50 blind first dates on Instagram Live, and she is still making the same argument she made then: most of us decide who a person is before we have met…
- 291. Six Years of the Pod, Reread by a Psychologist (Pt 1) ft. Dr. Katie Rickel · 1 h 0 min · Episodul 291Dr. Katie Rickel is a clinical psychologist and a longtime FMH listener, and over six years of listening she kept collecting moments. Not clinical notes, just things Ali had said…
- 290. The Announcement · 29 min · Episodul 290After more than five years and almost 300 episodes, Ali is ending the public podcast. In this solo episode she says it out loud for the first time, and then sits with the harder…
- 289. What I Only Say on Patreon · 52 min · Episodul 289Ali is away this week, so this episode goes behind the Patreon paywall. It pulls together four of her favorite Updates segments from the last few months: designing an engagement…
- 288. Hot Topics #24: The Half Full Glass on the Counter · 48 min · Episodul 288Ali is back with another Hot Topics episode answering listener questions. She opens with a question about her own path toward getting evaluated for ADHD: what finally pushed her…
- 287. What Everyone Can Learn From Kink ft. Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant · 59 min · Episodul 287Ali sits down with Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant, a sex and relationship coach and former NYC dominatrix, for a conversation that might surprise you in its relevancy…
- 286. What Your Jealousy Is Trying to Tell You ft. Ally Iseman · 1 h 0 min · Episodul 286This week Ali sits down with relationship coach Ally Iseman, founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, for a full reframe of the emotion we love to hate. Ally's case: jealousy is not a…
- 285. Moving In Together, Part 3 ft. Skyline · 48 min · Episodul 285Ali is joined by Skyline for part three of the moving-in-together series, and this time he is in the chair to answer for the version Ali told solo in parts one and two. They get…
- 284. Decentering Men When You're Already Partnered ft. Sam Showalter · 1 h 13 min · Episodul 284Ali is joined by creator Sam Showalter, who went viral for a series about decentering her own husband. Eleven years into a relationship with her now-husband, she realized how…
- 283. Moving In Together, Part 2: The Emotional Side of Sharing a Home · 41 min · Episodul 283We're continuing the multi-part moving-in series inspired by listener questions. In part two, Ali gets into the stuff you can't put in a spreadsheet: sharing a space with another…
- 282. Moving In Together, Part 1: Money, Chores, and the Mental Load · 48 min · Episodul 282We’re talking all about moving in with a partner in this multi-part series I inspired by listener questions. In part one, Ali breaks down the practical side of moving in with a…
- 281. Why Self-Sufficient Women Are Still Codependent ft. Esin Pinarli · 1 h 2 min · Episodul 281Esin Pinarli, a psychotherapist with 18 years of experience, joins Ali to talk about people-pleasing, attachment, and what she calls modern codependency. Esin breaks down the…
- 280. Live a Longer Lonely Life: What Tech Is Actually Doing to Connection ft. Alex Wolf · 53 min · Episodul 280Alex Wolf, the founder behind the original Boss Babe movement turned tech philosopher, joins Ali to explore what the attention economy is quietly doing to our ability to connect…
- 279. Hot Topics #23: First-Time Manager Nerves, Single Mom Dating Apps, Timeline Anxiety, Dating Burnout, and the Talking Stage · 38 min · Episodul 279Ali answers five listener questions that all share a common thread: the gap between wanting something and being able to follow through. A first-time manager grappling with…
- 278. Listener Storytime: Rebuilding Intimacy After Desire Faded · 45 min · Episodul 278This week, Ali is joined by Sarah, a listener who reached out to share her journey with desire and intimacy. Sarah opens up about how her health anxiety quietly muted her desire…
- 277. What If the Best Dating Profile Was Written by Your Best Friend? ft. Brooke Janousek · 54 min · Episodul 277TW: This episode contains a brief discussion of cancer and loss. If you want to skip it, the guest segment begins at approximately minute 13. Brooke Janousek, founder of Someone…
- 276. Ali’s Guide To Getting The *Right* Job Offer (Parts 1 & 2 of 3) · 1 h 15 min · Episodul 276You're being interviewed, but you're also doing the interviewing. Most people forget the second part. Ali shares two episodes from the Finding Mr. Height Patreon in this special…
- 275. When You Outgrow the Life You Built ft. Sarah Vacchiano · 52 min · Episodul 275This week, Ali sits down with Sarah Vacchiano, author of Soft Launch, who got married at 21, divorced at 27, and moved to New York City to start over from scratch. Sarah shares…
- 274. Listener Storytime: When Staying Felt Safer Than Leaving · 45 min · Episodul 274TW: This episode includes discussion of grief, miscarriage and emotional abuse. This week, Ali is joined by a listener who shares her story of leaving a marriage rooted in…
- 273. Two Years In: The Anniversary Episode ft. Skyline · 58 min · Episodul 273Ali and Skyline are celebrating two years together! Together from Italy, they go deep on what two years actually looks like, covering how they handle disagreements, how…
- 272. Designing a Life That Fits ft. Danielle McGeough · 51 min · Episodul 272Danielle McGeough joins Ali to talk about what happens after you hit the goal you've been chasing your whole career and realize it doesn't feel the way you thought it would (and…
- 271. Dating Burnout and the Patterns Behind It ft. Jordanne Sculler · 58 min · Episodul 271Jordanne Sculler, licensed therapist, joins Ali to talk about dating burnout from the inside out. Rather than pointing to apps or circumstances as the culprit, Jordanne breaks…
- 270. The Relationship Advice You Inherited Might Be Wrong ft. Monica Tanner · 1 h 13 min · Episodul 270Marriage coach Monica Tanner joins Ali to challenge the unwritten rulebook most of us absorbed about relationships without ever questioning it. Monica, the author of Bad Marriage…
- 269. Interdependence, Earned Security, and the Art of Being Unsingle ft. Amy Chan · 1 h 3 min · Episodul 269Amy Chan returns to the pod for an in-person recording with Ali, a conversation spurned from her own deep attachment work. The two chat about Amy’s new book Unsingle, where she…
- 268. Listener Storytime: Building a Full Sex Life on Your Own Terms · 53 min · Episodul 268This week, Ali sits down with Julia, a listener who shares her experience discovering that vaginal sex just doesn't work for her body. She walks through how that shaped her early…
- 267. The Deeper Pattern Beneath Your Dating Life ft. Meg Tuohey · 57 min · Episodul 267Relationship coach and author Meg Tuohey joins Ali to introduce her concept of the HeartPrint, the idea that each of us is as unique as our fingerprints in how we move through…
- 266. The NYT Tried to Give Us Dating Rules and We Have Notes ft. Darcy · 49 min · Episodul 266Returning guest and Ali’s good friend Darcy is back on the pod, and they’re diving straight into the New York Times' crowdsourced list of 35 dating rules. Some of them? Genuinely…
- 265. Dating Advice We Wish We'd Taken Sooner ft. Ilana Dunn · 1 h 8 min · Episodul 265Ali sits down with Ilana Dunn, host of Seeing Other People, for a conversation about the dating advice they both either ignored in the past or wish they’d taken sooner. They dig…
- 264. Hot Topics #22: First Messages, Being Someone's "Type," and People-Pleasing in Progress · 45 min · Episodul 264We’ve got some amazing listener questions this week, and the thread running through all of them is a concept introduced in this week's Media Mention: high involvement, low…
- 263. Listener Storytime: Holding Grief While Choosing What’s Next · 44 min · Episodul 263TW: This episode includes discussion of grief, loss, and suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out. You can call or text 988 to connect with the Suicide…
- 262. Are We Watching Love (Is Blind) Stories or Unresolved Patterns? ft. Jackie Dorman · 1 h 11 min · Episodul 262Matchmaker Jackie Dorman joins Ali to break down the latest season of Love Is Blind through the lens of someone who has helped over 1,600 people get engaged or married. They dig…
- 261. How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Becoming Rigid ft. Dr. Paula Freedman-Diamond · 1 h 21 min · Episodul 261Dr. Paula Freedman-Diamond joins Ali to discuss people-pleasing and how it relates to control in dating and relationships. Paula, a therapist and author of Toxic Striving, breaks…
- 260. Hot Topics #21: Attachment Patterns, Workplace Feedback, and Dating Dynamics · 1 h 3 min · Episodul 260Ali is back with another Hot Topics episode, starting with listener updates and reflections sparked by a recent listener storytime and a past Hot Topics question. She then dives…
- 259. Using Conflict to Build Trust ft. Anna Lecat · 1 h 15 min · Episodul 259This week, Ali hosts Anna Lecat for a conversation that reframes conflict as a powerful tool for connection rather than something to avoid. Together, the two unpack why so many…
- 258. Relatability Creates Chemistry: Feel a Real Connection on Dates ft. April Beyer · 1 h 7 min · Episodul 258This week, Ali sits down with veteran matchmaker April Beyer (who has 25+ years in the industry!) to unpack why dating feels harder than ever and how to make it more human again…
- 257. Listener Storytime: Designing a Relationship That Breaks All the Rules · 1 h 11 min · Episodul 257Ali sits down with FMH listener Allison for a storytime episode all about building a relationship that works for you, even if it breaks societal norms. Allison shares what it was…
- 256. How To Make First Dates More Fun ft. Miriam Katz · 1 h 8 min · Episodul 256Did you ever think that improv could apply to dating? Repeat guest Miriam Katz is back this week, a fun, hands-on conversation about how to feel lighter, more confident, and more…
- 255. New Year Reset: Foundation, Routines, and Intentional Living · 47 min · Episodul 255In this New Year episode, Ali shares her word for the year, foundation, and the theme guiding how she’s setting up the year ahead: less chaos, more intention. She explains her…
- 254. The 2025 Relationship Year In Review One ft. Skyline · 47 min · Episodul 254In this episode, Ali is joined by Skyline for a continuation of last week’s year in review episode, this time focused on their relationship. Using a framework from her friend…
- 253. The 2025 Year In Review One · 1 h 23 min · Episodul 253In this solo Year in Review episode, Ali shares an honest recap of 2025, including the wins, the messy parts, and why this year felt more like a quiet level-setting season than a…
- 252. The Family Holidays One ft. Mama J · 51 min · Episodul 252Ali is joined by her mom (aka Mama J) from their girls trip to Costa Rica for a real, funny, and super practical convo about holiday logistics when you’re dating someone. They…
- 251. Listener Storytime: Entering Menopause at 36 · 1 h 14 min · Episodul 251Content note for this episode: we talk in detail about menopause, infertility and IVF, chronic pain, medical dismissal, and depression. This week, Ali is joined by longtime…
- 250. The Seventh Dating Diaries One ft. Katy & Tony · 58 min · Episodul 250Katy & Tony are back this week to share their updates from the dating trenches. First, Tony tells us about the guy he’s surprisingly started dating long distance - we unpack…
- 249. The Unspoken Etiquette One ft. Miriam Tinberg · 1 h 24 min · Episodul 249This week, Ali welcomes the brilliant and endlessly curious Miriam Tinberg, a content creator who describes herself (rightly so!) as a conversation starter. If you like…
- 248. The Somatic Sex Coach One ft. Rachel Overvoll · 58 min · Episodul 248In this episode, Ali sits down with somatic sex coach and author Rachel Overvoll for an honest, expansive conversation about divorce, desire, and learning to feel safe in your…
- 247. The Twentieth Hot Topics One · 1 h 4 min · Episodul 247Ali is solo this week answering questions submitted by you, the listeners! Our question round up includes: navigating comfort vs spark chasing in a new relationship, starting to…
- 246. The Self-Trust One ft. Stacey Sherrell of Detangling Divorce · 1 h 7 min · Episodul 246Therapist and creator of Detangling Divorce, Stacey Sherrell, joins Ali to talk about the role of self-trust in finding a strong partnership, her own path to divorce, and how…
