Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind
de Corey Shapiro
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It Is Over. So Why Do I Not Feel Free?
It Is Over. So Why Do I Not Feel Free?
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Every time you cooperate, they escalate. Every time you're fair, they take more. A podcast about one-sided divorce, for the spouse whose reasonableness is being used against them. Hosted by Corey Shapiro, NYC divorce attorney and author of Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind.
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- It Is Over. So Why Do I Not Feel Free? · 13 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 42The agreement is signed, the exchanges are happening, and the whole thing still starts up again every time a pickup text lands. This episode is about why grief after divorce…
- It Isn't Better. It's Just Different · 8 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 41It is a few months after the divorce, the apartment is smaller and quieter than you pictured, and the life that was supposed to show up hasn't. Corey tells the story of the move…
- You Didn't Get to Grieve Yet · 8 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 40It's a few weeks after you signed, the house is quiet on a night without the kids, and you feel worse than you did when the fight was still on. This episode is about why that…
- You Settled Your Divorce. Now What? · 10 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 39The papers are signed, everyone keeps asking if you feel relieved, and mostly you just feel tired. This episode is about why that's normal, the three ways people land after a…
- The Opposing Lawyer Admitted They Knew They'd Lose · 10 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 38Your first court date is coming and you keep imagining the worst version of it. This episode walks you through that morning, including what the aggressive lawyer on the other…
- You Did Everything Right. They Still Won't Settle. · 12 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 37You took the pause, stayed flexible, made every deposit, and the other side still refuses to move. This episode breaks down the three kinds of divorce trials, which one you are…
- Why Do I Have to Take the High Road? · 9 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 36The other side just sent something obnoxious, and your reply is sitting there ready to go. Before you hit send, hear what the judge is actually watching for, and why every choice…
- The Three Unspoken Rules of Divorce Court · 14 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 35Mediation fell apart, a court date is on the calendar, and your mind keeps jumping to courtroom scenes from the movies. This episode gives you the real lay of the land, the three…
- Mediation Is Not Giving Up · 10 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 34You have already decided your spouse is too difficult for mediation, and court feels like the only road left. This episode walks you through the front door and the back door to…
- Is This Attorney Actually on Your Side? · 15 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 33You have consultations booked and no idea how to tell the attorney who will actually protect you from the one who just tells you what you want to hear. This episode gives you the…
- Can They Afford the Four Seasons for a Year? · 8 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 32You looked up the firm your spouse hired, saw the fancy address and the wall of attorney bios, and felt your stomach drop. Before you assume the worst, this episode gives you the…
- Refusing To Give An Inch Feels Like Strength · 8 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 31You're done being the reasonable one, because being reasonable is what got you here. Before you lock in the position that finally feels like fighting back, here's what it does to…
- You Told Yourself It Wouldn't Come Up · 7 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 30You've told yourself it probably won't come up, so you haven't mentioned it to anyone, including your lawyer. This is what it costs if you're wrong, and why handing it over now…
- Every Issue Feels Like an Emergency · 8 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 29The emails and requests keep coming, and each one feels like it needs an answer right now. Most of it is built to drain you, not to win, and this is how you spot the few that…
- You Keep Being Reasonable. It Keeps Not Working. · 5 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 28You keep sending reasonable proposals and they keep getting brushed aside, and you cannot figure out why. What looks like chaos is usually a strategy, and this episode names the…
- Nobody explained how any of this works · 5 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 27You are about to hand your case to a lawyer, and no one ever laid out how the system works. This is the scouting report, so you walk in knowing your job and who to trust with the…
- When It Doesn't Feel Like It's Working · 3 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 26Somewhere in the middle, the work stops feeling like progress and starts feeling like nothing is changing. This is a pause to show you what already has. You keep being…
- Reply Like a Judge Is Reading Every Word · 8 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 25A last-minute request blows up your plans with the kids, and you have about ten seconds before you respond badly. Watch how to handle it in real time so the calm answer is also…
- When Being Reasonable Stops Working · 6 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 24Being nice hasn't worked. Getting angry isn't who you are. There's a third way to respond, and one question gets you there. You keep being reasonable, and it keeps being used…
- Stop Telling. Start Asking. · 8 min · Sezonul 6 Episodul 23When they tune you out, saying it louder won't get through. Step four of the CLEAR Method, and the one move that shifts a conversation from reactive to real. You keep being…
