HisNHers Unfiltered
autor: Joia & Torrence
You Don't Want Love... You Want Leverage!
O tomto podcastu
His & Hers: Unfiltered is where real relationships meet real conversations.
Hosted by husband-and-wife duo Joia and Torrence, this isn't your typical relationship podcast. We're bringing honest, unfiltered discussions about love, marriage, dating, family, money, entrepreneurship, pop culture, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating.
Every week, we sit down with a signature cocktail in hand and tackle the conversations everyone is having behind closed doors but few are willing to have out loud. From modern dating struggles and marriage realities to viral relationship debates, Black culture, trending topics, and the challenges of building a life together, no topic is off-limits.
Expect bold opinions, healthy disagreements, plenty of laughs, and a fresh perspective from both the male and female point of view.
Whether you're single, dating, married, divorced, situationship-ing, or simply trying to make sense of today's relationship landscape, you'll find yourself somewhere in these conversations.
Each episode features:
🥂 The Signature Sip – A custom cocktail inspired by the week's topic
🎙️ Straight, No Chaser – Unfiltered discussion on the main topic
🍸 Sip or Tell – A game where honesty is tested and secrets may spill
📱 Y'all Said What? – Listener questions, hot takes, and social media drama
⚖️ The Verdict – Final thoughts and takeaways from both sides
At the end of the day, we're not relationship experts—we're just a real married couple sharing our experiences, perspectives, wins, mistakes, and lessons learned along the way.
So grab a drink, pull up a chair, and join the conversation.
Welcome to His & Hers: Unfiltered—where the conversations are honest, the opinions are bold, and the drinks are always flowing.
New episodes weekly. Subscribe and join the family
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- You Don't Want Love... You Want Leverage! · 1 h 9 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 22Do you really want love... or do you just want the upper hand? Some people say they want a healthy relationship, but what they're really looking for is control. They want loyalty…
- Men Marry Wives, Not Girlfriends! | Are You REALLY Wife Material? · 56 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 21A man can love you, date you, spoil you, and spend YEARS with you... and still never see you as his wife. So what's the difference between a woman he'll date and a woman he'll…
- You're the Red Flag! When Your Best Traits Turn Toxic · 1 h 22 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 20What if the biggest red flag in your relationship... is YOU? 🚩 Everybody loves to talk about toxic partners, red flags, and dealbreakers. But what happens when the very qualities…
- Would You Wanna Know? | The Truth That Could Ruin Your Relationship · 1 h 16 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 19Everybody says they want honesty in a relationship. But what happens when the truth hurts more than the lie? Would you REALLY want to know something about your partner if knowing…
- You Want a Traditional Partner... But Are YOU Traditional? · 1 h 32 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 18Everybody wants a traditional partner. But how many people actually want the responsibilities that come with a traditional relationship? Men want feminine, supportive women…
- Black Men vs. Black Women: When Did Love Become a Gender War? · 1 h 22 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 17Social media would have you believe Black men and Black women are at war. Black women are "too masculine." Black men are "dusty." Women need to "date out." Men need to "get their…
- Relationship Draft: What If You Could Build the Perfect Partner? · 1 h 45 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 16What happens when a husband and wife have to build their "perfect partner" from the same 15 relationship traits? In this episode of HisNHers Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence are…
- You Don’t Trust Them… So Why Are You Still There? · 1 h 18 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 15What happens when trust is broken in a relationship… but you decide to stay? You forgave them. You stayed. But now you’re checking phones, questioning stories, watching…
- Is It Cheating... If You Never Touched Them? · 1 h 25 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 14Can you cheat on your partner without ever physically touching another person? No sex. No kiss. Maybe you've never even been in the same room. But what about the DMs you deleted?…
- Great Chemistry... Terrible Compatibility · 1 h 29 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 13Have you ever had INSANE chemistry with someone you had absolutely no business building a life with? The attraction is there. The conversation flows. The sex is amazing. You…
- Are You in Love... or Just Codependent? · 1 h 38 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 12We hear it all the time after a breakup or divorce: I'm finally getting back to me. Suddenly they're traveling again, reconnecting with friends, getting back in the gym…
- What Would YOU Do? · 1 h 6 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 11What would you do if the person you love put you in a situation where there was no obvious right answer? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence put…
- The Hardest Relationship to Build... Is After Kids · 1 h 12 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 10Nobody warns you how much having kids can change your relationship. You can love your children deeply, become amazing parents... and somewhere between the school schedules…
- Strong Black Woman... But At What Cost? (The Conversation We Need to Have) · 1 h 39 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 9Being a Strong Black Woman has never been the problem. For many women, strength wasn't a choice—it was survival. But what happens when the very habits that helped you survive…
- When Little Things Become BIG Things... · 1 h 40 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 8They're just little things." We've all said it. The late replies. The lack of affection. The money habits. The family dynamics. The friendships. The communication style. The…
- Mind Your Business... Until When!? · 1 h 24 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 7YouTube & Captivate Description Episode 7: Mind Your Business... Until When? Everyone has heard the phrase "Mind your business." But is there ever a point when staying silent…
- Love Isn't Hard, Maybe Loving YOU Is · 1 h 16 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 6In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're challenging one of the biggest myths in modern relationships. Too often we blame dating, marriage, or our partners when the real…
- At What Point Is It YOUR Fault? · 1 h 21 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 5Everybody wants a healthy relationship—but are you willing to take an honest look at the role you play? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're having the conversation…
- Would. YOU. Stay? · 59 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 4Everybody says they'd leave... until it's their relationship. In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're putting love, loyalty, and dealbreakers to the ultimate test. We…
- Is It love?... Or Just Attachment · 53 min · Řada 1 Epizoda 3Is it love... or just attachment? In Episode 3 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence tackle one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships: the difference between…







