I Killed My Cactus
by Naida Allen
Spilling the TEA on MAFS
About this podcast
Life is messy, right? No one really teaches you what it means to "get your sh*t together" and feel confident doing it. The thing is, we're all figuring it out – there is no right or wrong. We are humans in progress. But we take ourselves way too seriously when we make mistakes or f*ck up and it's BORING. Let's be real, we're on a floating rock, so why don't we just giggle about it? After all, it's all part of the plot...
Listen along for unfiltered chats on life, relationships, careers, solo travel & everything in between. You'll either learn, laugh, cry or all the above.
All the love, Nads x
P.S. I actually did kill my cactus – I think that pretty much sums this up.
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Episodes
The newest 20 of 43 episodes
- Spilling the TEA on MAFS · 12 min · Episode 41Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. This is a random (but juicy episode) and I need…
- "What if there's something more?" & other dilemmas (part 2) · 26 min · Episode 40Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. Sooo, today’s episode is a juicy one - we’re…
- "How do I let go of a friendship?" & other dilemmas (part 1) · 31 min · Episode 39Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. Sooo, today’s episode is a juicy one - we’re…
- What to do when you feel "bleugh" · 14 min · Episode 38Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. Sometimes it feels like your life is a sitcom…
- Babes, look how far you've come! · 11 min · Episode 37Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life's chaotically fun, messy bits and laugh about it. Today's episode is all on SELF-CELEBRATION…
- "Guysss, time is time..." · 13 min · Episode 36Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. I’m excited to get into this slightly…
- "soft-girl era" philosophy · 15 min · Episode 35Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. It's been a WEEK so I'm sharing some of the…
- "I don't like my friend's boyfriend" & other confessions · 14 min · Episode 34HAPPY NEW YEAR my little cacti! Welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. This is a JUICY episode…
- Things I'm leaving behind in 2025... · 15 min · Episode 33Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. Now, as we approach a new year, it naturally…
- How to live like a main character · 16 min · Episode 32Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. Lately I've seen a lot of TikTok videos where…
- My CV of top failures... (LOL) · 25 min · Episode 31Welcome back to IKMC - the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun & messy bits and laugh about it. I feel like we always see the ‘wins’ and glamorous…
- Sisterhood yaps ft. Melissa · 46 min · Episode 30Welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life's chaotically fun messy bits, and laugh about it. Today is a special 30th episode ft. my partner in crime…
- Am I being a bad friend? · 22 min · Episode 29Hello and welcome back to IKMC - the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun & messy bits, and laugh about it. 🌵 Today’s episode is a question I’m sure…
- Your permission to RELAX · 17 min · Episode 28Hello and welcome back to IKMC - the shame-free podcast where we yap about life’s chaotically fun & messy bits and laugh about it. Today’s episode is about relaxing - and I…
- How to turn fear from foe to friend · 10 min · Episode 27Hello and welcome back to IKMC - the shame-free podcast where we yap about life's chaotically fun & messy bits, and laugh about it. Today’s episode is all about fear and…
- 10 Reasons Why I Love Moving Back Home · 16 min · Episode 26Hello and welcome back to IKMC – the shame-free podcast where we yap about life's chaotically fun & messy bits, and laugh about it! Today I'm yapping about 10 reasons I love…
- Restarting (again) at 29 · 19 min · Episode 25Helloooooo - I'm back. Did ya miss me? It's been a hot minute since I got out the mic. I'll be real, life kinda hit me hard this year (literally) and I had a bit of a wake-up…
- Ignore FOMO - it's not real! · 17 min · Episode 24Why do we always feel 'guilty' for not going out? Why do we have to justify wanting to stay in, binge telly, and do... nothing? I think it comes down to social pressure and the…
- Don't ignore the tough conversations! · 15 min · Episode 23Hey you - I know you're avoiding something big. I also know, it's been weighing on you a wee bit. Trust me, I've been there, done that, got the certificate. Listen & learn why…
- I almost forgot this is the whole point · 19 min · Episode 22Hello & welcome back to IKMC - the shame-free podcast where we yap about life's messy & fun bits, and laugh about it. You're ALL asking me about Ibiza... so lemme share the PG…







