I Wish You Knew
by Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov
Latest episode
The Real Reason You Feel Like You Don't Matter | John R. Miles &…
The Real Reason You Feel Like You Don't Matter | John R. Miles &…
About this podcast
Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships.
From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all.
If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!
Episodes
The newest 20 of 100 episodes
- The Real Reason You Feel Like You Don't Matter | John R. Miles & Adam Lane Smith · 56 min · Episode 153He was CIO at Dell managing a billion and a half dollar budget. And he could not tell if he was valued more than the piece of furniture he was sitting in. Most people are living…
- Why Men Pull Back When They're Hurting (And How To Help Them) | Dr Aaron Kheriaty · 1 h 6 min · Episode 152Stress has gone down by almost every historical measure. Suffering has gone up. Those turn out to be different things. In this episode, attachment expert Adam Lane Smith sits…
- Why Modern Dating Is Failing Those Seeking Marriage | Emily & Daniel Hussem · 1 h 12 min · Episode 151She had 7000 comments on a single matchmaking post. Thirty of those people are now married. Six babies have been born. And it all started because she asked one question: what if…
- What Happens When Two Avoidants Fall in Love | Relationship Psychology Explained · 1 h 19 min · Episode 150Everyone said it could not work. Two avoidant people in the same relationship. Two people wired to pull back, protect themselves, and disappear the moment things get close. And…
- What God Wants From Men: How to Build True Masculinity | Met. Jonah & Adam Lane Smith · 52 min · Episode 149We have talked about masculinity and manhood on this show before. Today is the mature version of that conversation, going back to the oldest teachings we have. In this episode…
- The Truth About ADHD VS Attachment Trauma in Relationships | Dr. Steven Storage & Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 10 min · Episode 148ADHD, attachment, trauma, anxiety, and stress can look surprisingly similar. So how do you know what you’re actually dealing with? Adam Lane Smith sits down with psychiatrist Dr…
- The Real Reason Your Husband Is Pulling Away | Laura Doyle & Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 3 min · Episode 147Trying harder to fix your marriage can leave you exhausted, resentful, and convinced you’re married to a man who doesn’t care. In this episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith…
- How to Get Out of Your Head and Feel Like Yourself Again | Mark Walsh & Adam Lane Smith · 54 min · Episode 146Disembodiment rarely announces itself. It can look like fatigue, unexplained aches, trouble concentrating, or difficulty feeling close to the people around you. In this episode…
- I Respond to My Most UNHINGED Podcast Comments | Adam Lane Smith Reacts · 43 min · Episode 145Adam Lane Smith celebrates three years of the I Wish You Knew podcast by reading your wildest comments, answering your most pressing questions, and sharing what he has learned…
- What Couples Therapy Gets Wrong About Men | Jeff St. James & Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 8 min · Episode 144Most women use therapy as a metric for whether a man is ready for marriage. Most couples therapists are operating from a framework that was never designed with men in mind. And…
- The Science of Why You Cannot Feel Loved | Dr. Sue Carter & Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 11 min · Episode 143You are genuinely loved. Your partner is loyal. And you still cannot breathe out and relax all the way. That is not a character flaw. It is a biochemical problem. And it has a…
- What Psychiatry Gets Wrong About Attachment and Mental Health | Dr. Aaron Kheriaty & Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 11 min · Episode 142Adam Lane Smith sits down with Dr. Aaron Kheriaty, psychiatrist, medical ethicist, and author of Making the Cut, to break down what modern psychiatry is getting catastrophically…
- What It Takes to Win an Avoidant Man's Heart | Brandon & Dana Wade · 57 min · Episode 141He built one of the most controversial dating sites in the world. He told every woman upfront on day one that he did not believe in marriage. And then he met Dana. And everything…
- 13 Habits That Build Emotional Resilience | Amy Morin and Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 4 min · Episode 140She lost her mother to a brain aneurysm. Then three years to the day, her 26 year old husband died of a heart attack. She was a therapist who had studied grief and still felt…
- What Divorce Does to a Man’s Psychology | Adam Lane Smith & Ralph Brewer · 1 h 6 min · Episode 139He did everything right. Stayed loyal. Showed up for his family. And one day in Florida he found out his wife had been having an affair. That was the moment everything he thought…
- Why 83% of Relationship Money Fights Are About Attachment | Rachel Cruze and Adam Lane Smith · 52 min · Episode 138Money is in the top three reasons for divorce in America. But most couples fighting about money are not actually fighting about money. They are fighting about safety, worth, and…
- Why Gen Z Women Are Lonelier Than Ever (& How To Fix It) | Freya India · 1 h 13 min · Episode 137👉 Feeling disconnected, anxious, or overwhelmed by modern dating and social media? Start building secure attachment for FREE. Get access to a supportive community, foundational…
- Why Women Fear Men and How To Fix It | January Donovan and Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 9 min · Episode 136👉 Join Secure Circle PLUS: https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/secure-circle-plus?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social&utm_content=6/18 Women have been given two options. Be…
- The Resentment Epidemic Your Wife Will Never Tell You About | Dr. Morgan Cutlip and Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 12 min · Episode 135She is exhausted, overwhelmed, and carrying a running list in her head that never stops. And he has no idea it exists. Not because he does not care. Because nobody ever showed…
- Why Men Stop Trying to Make You Happy | Alison Armstrong & Adam Lane Smith · 1 h 10 min · Episode 134Most women have been trying to understand men the same way they understand other women. And it has never worked. Not because men are broken, but because nobody ever showed her…
