Igbo, Queer, and Unfiltered
von Charles Okeke
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Why Money Hits Different When You Are Gay and African
Why Money Hits Different When You Are Gay and African
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Welcome to a podcast unlike any other, in which I bring my unique intersectional identity as a gay Igbo man from Nigeria to the forefront. This is a space where personal stories meet cultural insights, and where meaningful discussions about LGBTQIA+ issues, representation, and empowerment take centre stage. Each episode is a journey into the intricacies of being queer and African, examining themes of identity, perseverance, and visibility. As I amplify queer voices, spill some palm wine, slay stereotypes, and redefine what it means to be seen and celebrated, you can expect a blend of heartfelt storytelling, insightful discussions, and a generous dose of humour. Join me as we navigate the intersections of culture, sexuality, and community, one candid conversation at a time. This is not just a podcast, it is a celebration of diversity, a call for inclusion, and a reminder that every voice matters.
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- Why Money Hits Different When You Are Gay and African · 29 Min. · Folge 87For most people money is about comfort. For gay African men it is about something more, it is about survival, autonomy, and the freedom to live honestly. Igbo Queer and…
- Bisexual Invisibility · 20 Min. · Folge 86Bisexual people are told they do not belong in straight spaces. Then they are told they do not fully belong in queer spaces either. For bisexual Africans, that double erasure is…
- The Church, Colonialism and Homosexuality in Africa · 37 Min. · Folge 85If colonialism and the spread of Christianity and Islam across Africa had not happened, would Africa be as homophobic now as it is at this moment? This episode is for every queer…
- The Truth About Love and Dating as a Gay African Man · 39 Min. · Folge 84Sex, dating and love as a gay African man is not a simple conversation. We bring internalized shame into our relationships before the first date even starts. We navigate racial…
- Why Gay African Men Are Struggling in Silence · 47 Min. · Folge 83Gay African men are carrying a specific mental health burden that almost nobody talks about. The religious trauma, the mental health system that was not designed with us in mind…
- Coming Out to African Parents · 48 Min. · Folge 82Coming out in mainstream LGBTQIA+ spaces is often talked about as a hopeful, even celebratory moment. But for gay Africans the reality is far more complex. The fear is different…
- The Trap That Is Killing Gay Men(Kito) · 43 Min. · Folge 81I'm discussing Kito this week. The practice of luring, trapping and extorting gay men in Africa using fake dating profiles. It is one of the most urgent crises facing gay men in…
- Things Black Gay Men Are Still Not Allowed To Say · 31 Min. · Folge 80As we celebrate Episode 80, I'm saying things out loud that gay African men have never been allowed to say in our families, churches, queer spaces, or even to each other. I'm not…
- The Uncomfortable Statistics About Homosexuality in Africa Nobody Wants to Publish · 30 Min. · Folge 79This episode discusses the real numbers on homosexuality in Africa, the research that has been done, what it has found, and the big difference between what African governments…
- The Hypocrisy of the African Church on Homosexuality · 27 Min. · Folge 78The same church that calls gay love sinful has covered up abuse, ignored domestic violence and blessed corrupt politicians. This episode is the conversation they do not want you…
- Homophobia was imported to Africa · 34 Min. · Folge 77African leaders call homosexuality a Western import. Same-sex relationships existed across Africa long before colonization. The criminalization came on the ships. The laws, the…
- What Nobody Tells You About Dating as a Gay African Man · 13 Min. · Folge 76This episode covers what most gay African men bring into dating before the first date even happens. Why secrecy does something very specific and very damaging to a relationship…
- When Your African Family Chooses Religion Over You · 27 Min. · Folge 75What it costs to grow up with conditional love, how to survive and rebuild even when families do not support you, and the particular grief that a queer African child experiences…
- Nigerian Men Are Not As Straight As They Want You To Think · 21 Min. · Folge 74For the most part, Nigerian men are not as straight as they act. This is not about outing anyone. This is about culture, behaviour, performance, and the very specific way that…
- You Are Never Too Old to Be a Gay Man · 23 Min. · Folge 73There is an unspoken rule in the queer community that by a certain age, you should know who you are. Come out young. Date young. Build your identity young. And if you didn't, if…
- My Non-Negotiables as a Gay Igbo Man · 26 Min. · Folge 72For years, I negotiated things that were never meant to be up for debate. My identity. My dignity. My peace. My right to be seen. In this episode, I share the personal principles…
- The Real Face of Evangelical Christianity · 29 Min. · Folge 71This episode examines evangelical Christianity from the perspective of lived experience in a candid and reflective manner. The kind that stays with you, shapes you, and sometimes…
- I Outgrew The Version Of Me They Preferred · 21 Min. · Folge 70A version of you that appears dependable, submissive, and easy to understand is what many people become attached to. In this episode, we look at what happens when your personal…
- The Freedom Of Self Approval · 25 Min. · Folge 69What would your life look like if you stopped waiting for permission to be yourself? In this episode, I am getting into something deeply personal. The emotional cost of seeking…
- I Am Not Responsible For Your Discomfort · 26 Min. · Folge 68Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos…
