I’m Trying, Dude.
by Daniel Victor and Marcel Floruss
Society & CultureE · Explicit
Latest episode
Not Done Trying.
Not Done Trying.
About this podcast
Welcome to I’m Trying, Dude—a podcast by two friends figuring out what it really means to be comfortable in our own skin.
We’re exploring a new, more open definition of masculinity, drawing from the ups and downs of relationships—whether with ourselves, partners, family, or friends. Along the way, we’ve stumbled, grown, sought therapy, and learned from mistakes (plenty of them).
This isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about sharing the process. If you’ve ever felt like you’re struggling to keep it together, you’re not alone. We’re right there with you, figuring it out one day at a time.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 26 episodes
- Not Done Trying. · 56 min · Season 3 Episode 8We wrap Season 3 with one of our most personal, reflective, and laugh-filled episodes yet. From stupid humor that sends us into tears to deep questions about legacy, fulfillment…
- Turns Out We Had Anger Issues · 55 min · Season 3 Episode 7In this episode of I'm Trying, Dude, Marcel and Dan dive into the real reason we struggle with consistency — especially when it comes to routines, working out, or picking up new…
- Hard Conversations Make Real Friends · 1 h 0 min · Season 3 Episode 6In this raw and real episode, Marcel and Dan unpack everything from Memorial Day weekend plans gone sideways to the value of hard conversations in male friendships. From…
- Why We Do Anything... 👉🏼 Impressing Her. · 52 min · Season 3 Episode 5Dan kicks things off with his Brooklyn Half win—and how that somehow led to a night of trying way too hard to impress a woman. Marcel confesses to breaking his sobriety and…
- Replacing Addiction with Obsession · 49 min · Season 3 Episode 4Addiction comes in many forms — and not all of them look destructive at first glance. In this episode, Marcel and Daniel open up about their own struggles with addiction, both…
- Body Image: Looking Good vs. Feeling Good · 52 min · Season 3 Episode 3This week, we’re diving into a topic we’ve both wrestled with — body image. Dan opens up about his long history with body insecurities, unhealthy dieting, and how a childhood…
- The Things We Got Away With — and What They Taught Us · 46 min · Season 3 Episode 2This week on I'm Trying, Dude, Marcel and Daniel dive into the moments that tested their moral compass — from small things they got away with as kids to the deeper question: are…
- Courage Is a Choice (And We’re Still Trying) · 50 min · Season 3 Episode 1We're back! Season 3 of I’m Trying, Dude kicks off with a deep dive into courage—what it means to show up, to try something new, to speak up, or to just sit with someone who's…
- Balance, Growth & Big Plans for Season 3! · 41 min · Season 2 Episode 10It’s the last episode of Season 2! 🎉 In this wrap-up, Marcel and Dan reflect on their journey so far, balancing goals with self-care, and how to build consistency without…
- Dance More, Worry Less: The Secret to Letting Go · 45 min · Season 2 Episode 9This week, we’re catching up and covering everything from Mardi Gras chaos to the underrated power of dancing. Dan’s trip to New Orleans takes an unexpected turn, Marcel gets…
- Balancing Burnout and Breakthroughs · 43 min · Season 2 Episode 8This week, we’re switching things up—again. A "long-distance" recording, half caffeinated, and a whole lot of real talk. Marcel and Dan catch up on life, injuries, and the mental…
- Rebel or Robot? How Rules Shape Who We Become... · 40 min · Season 2 Episode 7This week, we’re switching things up—again. Looser structure, more real talk, and a whole lot of rule-breaking. Marcel and Dan dive into childhood chaos, from strict upbringings…
- How to Be Alone & Actually Enjoy It (V-Day Edition) · 42 min · Season 2 Episode 6Learning to thrive solo & make the most of your time. Being alone doesn’t have to mean being lonely. Whether you’re single on Valentine’s Day or just looking to enjoy your own…
- What If You Couldn’t Fail? Here’s Why It Changes Everything · 45 min · Season 2 Episode 5What if the only thing standing between you and the life you want… was your fear of failure? In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the thought experiment that could change…
- Permission to Cry: Emotions and the Modern Man · 40 min · Season 2 Episode 4For years, men have been told to "man up" and hold it in. But why? In this episode, Marcel and Daniel dive into the stigma around men crying, where it comes from, and why it’s…
- The Fear of Being Average · 39 min · Season 2 Episode 3Why are we so afraid of being average? In this episode, Marcel and Dan dive into the deep-rooted fear of mediocrity—where it comes from, how social media fuels it, and the…
- Crash, Burn, Learn: Lessons from Taking L's · 55 min · Season 2 Episode 2We all make mistakes, but how often do we truly talk about them? Do we process them, and if so, how? Are you sure that all the mistakes you have made in your life left you with…
- The Lost Art of Fun: Why Everything Doesn’t Need to Be a Side Hustle · 53 min · Season 2 Episode 1Hobbies over Side Hustles, filling your cup rather than filling your wallet. Kicking off 2025 with the first episode of season 2 that will take us through the rest of winter with…
- Soft Finish · 27 min · Season 1 Episode 8Not what you think. Just a low-key episode shooting the sh*t to end the year and "season 1" of I'm Trying Dude. Stoked you guys made it here, and proud of ourselves for actually…
- Do Your Best On A Sh*t Day · 55 min · Season 1 Episode 7Ngl, this day was not it for Dan or Marcel. But it presented a nice opportunity to talk about how to handle feeling unmotivated & deciding when to push and when to rest up…
