Jillian on Love
by Jillian Turecki | Daylight Media
Latest episode
The 5 Relationship Mistakes That Slowly Destroy Love
The 5 Relationship Mistakes That Slowly Destroy Love
About this podcast
Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself.
Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you.
Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships.
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Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book
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Episodes
The newest 50 of 222 episodes
- The 5 Relationship Mistakes That Slowly Destroy Love · 47 min · Season 3 Episode 66How do you know when to fight for a relationship and when it's time to walk away? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the real reasons relationships fail, even when love is…
- Relationship Anxiety: Are They Wrong for You or Are You Overthinking? · 30 min · Season 3 Episode 65How do you know if you're with the right person? What happens when your relationship feels more like a friendship than a romance? And is love enough to make a long-distance…
- 9 Self-Love Lessons That Will Change Your Relationships · 38 min · Season 3 Episode 64Today, Jillian shares 9 essential lessons in self-love, self-worth, and self-respect that can completely transform the way you approach relationships. From letting go of people…
- Everything You Need to Know Before Your Next Relationship · 50 min · Season 3 Episode 63Finding healthy love isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about knowing what truly matters, recognizing the patterns that keep you stuck, and learning to choose a…
- Constant Texting Is Not a Sign They Like You ft. Sabrina Zohar · 1 h 9 min · Season 3 Episode 62What happens when your fear of losing someone becomes stronger than your fear of losing yourself? Jillian sits down with Sabrina Zohar, host of The Sabrina Zohar Show and author…
- Dr. Shefali: Heal the Childhood Patterns Affecting Your Relationships · 1 h 15 min · Season 3 Episode 61Dr. Shefali is one of the world’s leading voices on conscious parenting—and this conversation goes far beyond parenting. Jillian sits down with the clinical psychologist and…
- 8 Things You Must Know Before Getting Married · 24 min · Season 3 Episode 60Before you marry someone or build a life together, there are some conversations you simply cannot afford to avoid. Love and chemistry are important, but they aren't enough to…
- Choose the Love That Feels Safe, Mutual, and Real · 48 min · Season 3 Episode 59Love should never require you to abandon yourself. In this episode, Jillian explores the courage it takes to walk away from the wrong relationship, trust yourself again after…
- If Your Partner Does This, RUN · 30 min · Season 3 Episode 58What if the person you love is actually making you feel unsafe? Jillian answers listener questions about jealousy, controlling behavior, conflict, and betrayal—and shares how to…
- Functional Medicine Doctor: These Are the Warning Signs Your Body Is Overwhelmed · 56 min · Season 3 Episode 57What if the stress in your relationships is affecting your body more than you realize? Jillian sits down with functional medicine expert Dr. Will Cole to explore the powerful…
- Why They Pull Away After You Sleep Together · 31 min · Season 3 Episode 56In this listener call-in episode, I’m answering two questions that come up all the time in dating and relationships: Why does someone pull away after you sleep together, and what…
- The Top 7 Traits of All Healthy Couples · 33 min · Season 3 Episode 55What does it actually take to build a healthy, lasting relationship? In this episode, Jillian shares seven uncomfortable truths about love that most of us were never taught—from…
- Jillian’s Top 7 Dating Rules · 21 min · Season 3 Episode 54Dating can make it easy to confuse chemistry with compatibility, mixed signals with potential, and the desire for a relationship with an actual connection. In this episode…
- The Moment You Need To Stop Pursuing Someone · 39 min · Season 3 Episode 53Have you ever found yourself making excuses for someone's mixed signals? In this episode, Jillian answers three listener questions that all point to the same truth: healthy…
- Your Attachment Style Is Not Your Identity · 34 min · Season 3 Episode 52Have you ever wondered if you'll always struggle with relationship anxiety? If you've convinced yourself that anxious attachment is simply who you are, this episode is for you…
- How To Feel Secure Without Constant Reassurance · 28 min · Season 3 Episode 51If you constantly find yourself chasing emotionally unavailable people or bringing overwhelming anxiety into your relationships, this episode is for you. Jillian breaks down why…
- The #1 Mistake You Can Make On A First Date · 38 min · Season 3 Episode 50Why do some first dates never turn into second dates? And why do so many people shut down when relationships get hard? Jillian answers two listener questions that reveal what…
- People Can Only Meet You Where They Are · 48 min · Season 3 Episode 49Why do we spend so much time trying to explain someone else's behavior? In this episode, Jillian shares the mindset shift that can instantly change the way you experience dating…
- Can A Relationship Survive Bad Sex? · 29 min · Season 3 Episode 48What do you do when you meet someone who seems perfect… but the sex is terrible? It's one of the hardest dating questions to admit out loud: Can a relationship survive without…
- 5 Habits That Quietly Destroy Every Relationship · 45 min · Season 3 Episode 47Most relationships don't end because of one big mistake—they slowly fall apart through small habits we rarely notice. In this episode, Jillian reveals the behaviors that quietly…
- Dating an Avoidant · 40 min · Season 3 Episode 46You sent in the questions, and Jillian hand-picked three conversations that uncover what so many people struggle with in love. Is your jealousy really insecurity—or are your…
- Are We Doomed to Lose Attraction to Our Partner? · 32 min · Season 3 Episode 45Ready to go deeper? Join the Conscious Woman membership for exclusive content, coaching, and community to help you get the love you want. Link in shownotes…
- The Sign It's Time To Let Them Go · 40 min · Season 3 Episode 44We're trying something new. We asked you to send in your relationship questions—and you delivered. In these listener call-in episodes, Jillian personally listens to your…
- Stop Abandoning Yourself for Unavailable People · 39 min · Season 3 Episode 43Why do so many people ignore what they already know deep down in their relationships? In this episode, Jillian explores the difference between anxiety and intuition, the red…
- The 5 Red and Green Flags You Can’t Ignore · 43 min · Season 3 Episode 42Everyone talks about red flags. But what about the green flags that actually matter? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the difference between anxiety, chemistry, emotional…
- Why You Stay Attached To Someone Unavailable · 30 min · Season 3 Episode 41Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian This episode is for anyone…
- Why Dating Feels Emotionally Exhausting · 36 min · Season 3 Episode 40If you've ever felt completely fine when you're single—confident, healed, grounded—and then watched all of that fall apart the moment you actually liked someone, this episode is…
- 5 Reasons You Feel “Chemistry” With the Wrong Person · 34 min · Season 3 Episode 39Why do you keep falling for the wrong person—even when you know better? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five real reasons we choose partners who can’t meet us, from…
- Should You Stay or Leave? The Truth About When NOT to Break Up · 42 min · Season 3 Episode 38Thinking about leaving your relationship? Before you do, Jillian challenges the idea that walking away is always the strongest move. She breaks down when staying—and doing the…
- You Can’t Make Someone Love You · 40 min · Season 3 Episode 37You can’t convince someone to love you—and the more you try, the more you lose yourself. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the painful truth about chasing someone who won’t…
- From Avoidant to Secure: How to Overcome Your Fear of Conflict with Dean Graziosi · 1 h 8 min · Season 3 Episode 36What if the reason your relationships aren’t working… has more to do with you than you think? In this conversation, I sit down with Dean Graziosi for a deeply honest look at the…
- How To Heal Your Inner Child with Dr. Nicole LePera · 56 min · Season 3 Episode 35Jillian sits down with Dr. Nicole LePera to talk about her new book Reparenting the Inner Child and the powerful ways our past shapes how we think, feel, and relate to others…
- No One Gets Away With Betrayal · 23 min · Season 3 Episode 34When someone betrays you, it’s easy to believe they get to move on with their life while you’re left carrying the pain. In this episode, Jillian challenges that belief and…
- The Difference Between Pursuing and Chasing · 58 min · Season 3 Episode 33In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener untangle what he thought was anxious attachment and reveals what may actually be happening instead: he’s getting emotionally…
- The 7 Habits of Happy Couples · 34 min · Season 3 Episode 32What actually makes a relationship healthy—and why do so many couples miss the basics? In this episode, Jillian shares the seven principles that keep love alive, from the way you…
- Why We Stay Too Long in the Wrong Relationships with Sarah Shahi · 1 h 1 min · Season 3 Episode 31Actress and author Sarah Shahi joins Jillian for an unfiltered conversation about heartbreak, childhood wounds, and the patterns that shape the way we love. Sarah shares the…
- Why Your Relationship Feels Harder Than It Should · 31 min · Season 3 Episode 30The biggest threat to your relationship might not be your communication — it might be the story you’re telling yourself. In this episode, Jillian explores how negative…
- How To Heal Low Self-Worth and Anxious Attachment · 1 h 33 min · Season 3 Episode 29What if the story you’ve been telling yourself — that you’re “too much,” too sensitive, or too difficult — was never actually true? In this listener call, Jillian helps a woman…
- Why You Don’t Have to Forgive Them with Dr. Ellen Langer · 1 h 19 min · Season 3 Episode 28Jillian is joined by Harvard psychologist Dr. Ellen Langer, the pioneer of mindfulness research, for a conversation that challenges everything you think you know about stress…
- The #1 Reason Why You’re Unlucky in Love · 30 min · Season 3 Episode 27With Valentine’s Day around the corner, Jillian dives into one of the biggest obstacles to real love today — the growing resentment and distrust between men and women. In this…
- How To Choose Your Life Partner · 1 h 3 min · Season 3 Episode 26Jillian works with a listener who’s spent most of her adult life in long-term relationships and is now learning how to trust herself in choosing love differently. After leaving a…
- Jay Shetty: When a Relationship is Beyond Repair · 1 h 24 min · Season 3 Episode 25Jillian sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about what “the work” in love actually looks like — in real time. Jay shares why he created Messy Love (his Audible Original), where…
- Red Flag: The Controlling Partner · 1 h 0 min · Season 3 Episode 24What happens when a relationship starts with intensity, reassurance, and “I’ve done the work” — and then slowly turns into jealousy, control, and emotional chaos? In this…
- Dating in 2026: The Rules Have Changed · 29 min · Season 3 Episode 23Dating in 2026 feels harder than ever—but what if the problem isn’t you, it’s how you’re approaching it? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the biggest mindset shifts she’s…
- Anxiety: How to Not Sabotage a Healthy Relationship · 1 h 5 min · Season 3 Episode 22Have you ever been in a healthy relationship and still felt anxious waiting for it to fall apart? In this coaching episode, Jillian works one-on-one with a woman who can’t stop…
- Lust is Not the Same Thing as Love · 32 min · Season 3 Episode 21In this episode, Jillian reads from It Begins With You to break down one of the most painful patterns in modern dating: confusing lust, intensity, and obsession with real love…
- Stop Falling in Love With Their Potential · 32 min · Season 3 Episode 20What if the reason your relationship feels so painful is because you’re loving someone’s potential instead of who they actually are? In this episode, Jillian unpacks why trying…
- Stop Chasing: How to Date with Confidence · 47 min · Season 3 Episode 19In this special coaching episode, Jillian sits down with a 38-year-old listener who’s four dates into a new connection and stuck in her head about one big question: Is he…
- The 5 Reasons You’re Attracted to Toxic People · 36 min · Season 3 Episode 18Many people feel pulled toward someone who isn’t good for them, even when they know the relationship is toxic. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five core reasons we…
- Is It Embarrassing to Have a Boyfriend? · 33 min · Season 3 Episode 17Is it really “embarrassing” to have a boyfriend? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the viral Vogue UK article and the cultural shift that’s convincing women to hide their…
