Joy Meets Pain
de Dr Dorcas Matowe
Episode 40: Can you laugh at yourself?
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This engaging series confronts the multifaceted nature of family dynamics, Join Dr. Dorcas Matowe, an experienced family therapist, as she delves into the profound complexities of family life in the Joy Meets Pain Podcast.
Tackling themes like forgiveness, sibling bonds, and the dark realities of murder and incest. With heartfelt personal stories and insightful guest interviews, Dr. Matowe provides a compassionate space for listeners to navigate their own family challenges.
Discover the joys and pains that unite us all in this thought-provoking exploration of what it means to be family.
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- Episode 40: Can you laugh at yourself? · 25 minDr. Dorcas and Taffy highly recommend a daily dose of laughter. Who's the comedian in your family? Do you use humor excessively to mask your pain?
- Episode 39: All or Nothing Thinking- How does it complicate your life? · 23 minJoin Dr. Dorcas in recognition of Mental Health Awareness Month as she explores the harmful patterns and problematic practices that often keep mental health in the grey zone. In…
- Episode 38: The Rise in Depression & Anxiety: Are you struggling? · 26 minWhy are depression and anxiety rising at such alarming rates across all age groups? In this thought-provoking episode of Joy Meets Pain, we explore a deeper perspective inspired…
- Episode 37- The Flip Side of Adverse Childhood Experiences · 38 minWhen we talk about Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), the focus is often on the pain, the trauma, and the long-term impact. But what about the other side of the story? In this…
- Episode 36: How did your last fight really go? · 21 minIn this episode, we invite you to step out of the story of what they did and gently examine the role you played. Because conflict is rarely about the dirty dish, the late reply…
- Episode 35: When siblings date each other’s friends · 41 minJoin Dr. Dorcas and Taffy for this lively discussion about the joys and pains of siblings dating each other’s friends. Dr. Dorcas took a bold move and invited her brother CJ for…
- Episode 34: Black History Month: What does being Black mean to you? · 38 minJoin Taffy and Dorcas as they discuss Black people who are making history and why. The hosts invite listeners to think about their own Black identity and what they would like…
- Episode 33: From Valentine’s Day to Singles’ Day: Where do we go wrong when it comes to love? · 39 minValentine’s Day is one of the most celebrated—and commercialized—holidays in the world. Yet loving well remains one of the hardest things we do. In this episode, we explore how…
- Episode 32: Human Trafficking: What Part Do You/Can You Play? · 41 minIn this episode, Dr. Dorcas and Taffy tackle the urgent issue of human trafficking, discussing its definition, its profound impact on families, and practical steps for addressing…
- Episode 31: How I Plan to Become A Better Human in 2026 · 31 minIn this episode of Joy Meets Pain, Taffy and I share how we’re intentionally shaping the kind of human we want to be in 2026 — in our relationships, our environment, and…
- Episode 30: When the Year Ends but the Patterns Don’t: Family, Reflection, and Soft Landings · 28 minEpisode 30: When the Year Ends but the Patterns Don’t: Family, Reflection, and Soft LandingsIn this closing episode of Joy Meets Pain for 2025, Dr. Dorcas and Taffy reflect on…
- Episode 29: What Families Don't Talk About at the Holidays · 27 minHoliday gatherings come with laughter, awkward silences, and landmine topics that everyone politely walks around — until someone doesn’t. This episode explores why families…
- Episode 28: Soft Landings: Being at peace with what you did this year · 34 minAs the year winds down, the world gets louder: “Finish strong.” “End on a high note.” “Don’t carry old energy into the new year.” But what if the real power move isn’t the final…
- Episode 27: When the Holidays Hurt_Navigating Conflict and Loss in Family · 38 minThe holiday season is often painted as a time of joy, connection, and celebration—but for many, it can be one of the most emotionally challenging times of the year. In this…
- Episode 26: The Narcissism Obsession · 17 minIn recent years, “narcissist” has become one of the most overused labels in our cultural vocabulary. From social media to relationship advice, it seems everyone knows—or has…
- Episode 25: “What’s Your Story? The Narratives That Shape Who We Think We Are · 18 minWe all tell ourselves stories — about who we are, what we do, and why. These narratives give meaning to our experiences but can also quietly limit us. In this episode, Dorcas…
- Episode 24: How do you describe yourself? · 19 minWhen someone asks, “So, how would you describe yourself?”—what comes to mind first? Do you lead with your job, your personality, your family role, or the things you value most?…
- Episode 23: Who Are You? Mapping Your Story with a Genogram · 24 minOur family histories shape more of who we are than we often realize. In this episode, I demonstrate how to create a genogram—a powerful tool that visually maps out your family…
- Episode 22 : The Power of a Name · 29 minOur names are often the first stories told about us. They carry history, culture, family hopes, and sometimes expectations we never chose. In this episode, we explore the names…
- Episode 21 Faith Over Loneliness: a 91-Year-Old’s Guide to a Fulfilling Life · 30 minIn this inspiring episode, I sit down with Dr. Franklin Brewer, a vibrant 91-year-old who has defied the odds and refused to become a statistic of loneliness in old age. He…







