Libido Lounge
by Dr. Diane Mueller
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About this podcast
If your marriage still looks fine from the outside but something has quietly disappeared — this podcast is for you. Dr. Diane Mueller, Board Certified Sexologist, goes deep on what's really happening and what works
Episodes
The newest 20 of 153 episodes
- Why Did Our Sex Life Stop? How Couples Get It Back with Dr. Holly Richmond · 20 minYou used to want each other, and now you pass in the hallway like roommates, both too nervous to be the one who brings it up. Sex therapist Dr. Holly Richmond explains why the…
- Is Something From My Childhood Ruining Our Sex Life? with Brooke Bralove · 24 minYou love your spouse and nothing terrible ever happened to you, yet the moment things turn physical, something in you tightens up and pulls away, and you can’t explain why. Sex…
- Privacy or Secrecy? What I'm Not Telling My Spouse with Brooke Bralove · 25 min · Season 1You've started keeping things to yourself, like what you search late at night and what you wish you could say out loud, and you can't tell anymore whether that's privacy or a…
- What Does a Wife Need to Actually Want Sex? With Caroline Hood (Part 2) · 22 min · Season 1If you've been waiting for the "right moment" to feel like lovers again instead of roommates, and it never seems to come, you're not broken, and you're not alone. In Part 2, Dr…
- What Does a Wife Need to Actually Want Sex? With Caroline Hood (Part 1) · 23 min · Season 1If sex has become something you do just so you're not the "bad" partner, or something you keep waiting to feel like doing, you're not broken and you're not alone. In this episode…
- How a Time Limit on the Fight Saves Your Marriage with Kameran Alareqi (Part 2) · 26 minYou had the same fight again tonight — different words, same wall — and now you're lying back-to-back on your own edges of the bed, wondering when "partners" quietly became…
- How a Time Limit on the Fight Saves Your Marriage with Kameran Alareqi (Part 1) · 25 min · Season 1By now it feels safer to stay quiet than risk another talk that ends with one of you walking off and the other chasing them down the hall. In this episode you'll see that what…
- The 2 Rules That Beat the Gottman Method in Relationships with Zach Brittle (Part 2) · 25 min · Season 1You've done the date nights and the "we just need to communicate more" talks, and somehow you're still two polite roommates who happen to share a bed. In Part 2 with therapist…
- The 2 Rules That Beat the Gottman Method in Relationships with Zach Brittle (Part 1) · 24 min · Season 1One of you wants more, and has no idea how to bring it up without it landing as pressure or getting quietly turned down, so lately nobody reaches at all. By the end of this…
- Is Your Marriage Stuck in the Same Fight? with Dr. Jessica Higgins Part 2 · 21 min · Season 1You've had this fight so many times you could script both sides, and you're starting to wonder if the two of you are just fundamentally incompatible. In Part 2, you'll learn why…
- Is Your Marriage Stuck in the Same Fight? with Dr. Jessica Higgins Part 1 · 22 min · Season 1t's the same argument on a loop — different night, same wall, same silence afterward — and you keep thinking if you could just explain it better this time, it would finally land…
- Do this for 3% of the day to save your marriage with Monica Tanner Part 2 · 25 min · Season 1You lie next to someone you love and feel more like co-managers of a household than a couple — and you couldn't name the day it started. In this second part, Dr. Diane Mueller…
- Do this for 3% of the day to save your marriage with Monica Tanner Part 1 · 25 min · Season 1You're not fighting — but you're not really reaching for each other either, and somewhere between the mortgage and the bedtimes the two of you started living like polite…
- Why You Can't Tell Your Husband What You Want Part 2 with James Bullard · 27 min · Season 1You're lying awake next to them wondering when reaching over became the hardest thing in the room — and whether asking out loud would fix it or finally break it. In this episode…
- Why You Can't Tell Your Husband What You Want Part 1 with James Bullard · 27 min · Season 1The longer you're married, the harder it gets to even identify what you want from each other — let alone say it out loud without it sounding like a complaint. This first episode…
- The Attachment Style Quietly Running Your Marriage with Dr. Diane · 27 min · Season 1You're lying six inches apart every night, and it still feels like the loneliest room in the house. This episode explains why that distance usually isn't about attraction fading…
- The Four Horsemen Destroying Your Marriage With Dr. Diane Mueller · 26 min · Season 1If you and your partner stopped fighting but also stopped connecting, you're not in a better place — you're in a more dangerous one. This episode breaks down the four…
- Is It Low T — Or Is Something Else Wrong? with Arthur L. "Bud" II, MD, MBA, FACS · 21 min · Season 1If you've been quietly wondering whether low testosterone is the reason you've stopped wanting to touch your wife — or stopped wanting to at all — this episode is for you. You'll…
- Menopause Stole Her Brain — Not Just Her Drive with Andrea Donsky · 49 min · Season 1If your wife has felt like a different person these last few years — foggy, irritable, checked out of the bedroom — and her doctor keeps telling her everything looks fine, this…
- How One Person Can Fix a Dead Marriage with Dr. Lee Baucom · 28 min · Season 1You've been managing the household, the kids, and the calendar together — but somewhere along the way you stopped actually being together, and now it feels like you're sharing a…







