Maybe You’re the Problem
by SNM Jones
OSC16: Coming Up Short
About this podcast
Welcome to Maybe You’re The Problem—the channel where accountability isn’t optional.
We talk relationships, dating, marriage, modern gender dynamics, and the choices that keep people stuck in the same situations they claim they want to escape.
The conversations may be uncomfortable. The opinions may be unpopular. And sometimes, the problem isn’t your ex, your dating pool, society, or the opposite sex.
Maybe you’re the problem.
This is a space for honest conversations, tough love, self-reflection, and accountability—without the sugarcoating.
If you’re ready to laugh, think, disagree, and occasionally take a hard look in the mirror, you’re in the right place.
New conversations. Real opinions. No excuses.
Subscribe and join the conversation.
Because before you blame everybody else... maybe you should ask yourself:
Maybe You’re The Problem.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 63 episodes
- OSC16: Coming Up Short · 1 h 53 minDiddy. High-value men. Dating standards. Sarah Fontenot rating herself a 6. This Off-Season Conversation gets uncomfortable fast. The crew dives into the internet’s latest…
- OSC15: What Does Love Cost · 1 h 46 minIn this off-season conversation, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, & Delvin The Expert of The BLC Pod unpack the unspoken costs of modern love. From family entitlement and financial pressure…
- OSC14: Dating Deposits, Druski & Revoking Black Cards · 1 h 43 minThis off-season conversation gets straight to the uncomfortable questions shaping Black dating, culture, and accountability. The panel breaks down whether physical attraction has…
- OSC13: When We Fall Down · 1 h 38 minThis off-season episode of the BLC Pod dives into the contradictions shaping faith, accountability, and modern relationships in Black culture. The conversation opens with the…
- OSC12: Dollars and Sense · 1 h 32 minThis Off-Season Conversation gets uncomfortable — and that’s the point. The BLC Pod breaks down the rise of “financial celibacy” and whether men are practicing discipline or…
- OSC11: Paid The Cost, To Be The Boss · 1 h 7 minSeason 5 might be over, but Nic Nice, SNM Jones, and Just J aren’t done talking their talk. In this off-season conversation, the crew recaps a fiery Season 5 and dives into some…
- OSC10: Baby Mommas, Ballers, Bills, and Blackness · 1 h 56 minIn this episode of Off-Season Conversation, the crew tackles controversial conversations about relationships, money, and identity. We kick things off with a Quick Take on Sherri…
- OSC09: Medium Ugly · 1 h 59 minIn this episode of Off-Season Conversations, we dive into some of the most heated discussions in culture right now. From Trump’s $5M ‘Golden Pass’ for citizenship to Joy Reid’s…
- OSC08: Boys Will Be Boys! · 1 h 25 minIn this week’s off-season conversation, the fellas dive into some of the hottest trending topics, sparking debates and calling out the culture’s biggest contradictions. 50 Cent…
- The Real Problem Ain’t Serena— It’s Y’all · 6 min · Episode 15Welcome to POV with SNM, where we cut through the noise and get straight to the real. In this episode, we break down the Serena Williams Super Bowl Crip Walk backlash—was it…
- A Dance, A Diss, and A Lot of Nonsense · 6 min · Episode 14Serena Williams did a Crip Walk at the Super Bowl, and suddenly the internet lost its mind—again. In this episode of POV with SNM, we break down the backlash, the double…
- This Ain't About You, Aubrey · 11 min · Episode 13In this episode of POV with SNM, bestselling author SNM Jones breaks down the cultural moment of Serena Williams’ Crip Walk at the Super Bowl halftime show. From the backlash in…
- OSC07: More Money, More Problems? 🤔 Accountability & Podcast Scandals! · 1 h 46 minThe BLC Pod Off-Season Conversations #7 dives into viral lawsuits, accountability, gender roles, and industry drama. We discuss Dank DeMoss vs. Lyft, accountability in the Black…
- OSC06: Trump’s Inauguration, Celebrity Backlash, & Defining Disrespect · 2 h 3 minJoin The BLC Pod for an engaging Off-Season Conversation as we dive into Trump’s latest inauguration and the impact of his executive orders on race, class, and society. We also…
- BLCAD410: Doing Too Much: Guy Code, Dry Snitching & TMI · 2 h 19 min · Season 4 Episode 10In the season finale of BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew tackles a whirlwind of topics guaranteed to spark conversations. From TikTok’s potential ban to Aaron Pierce’s viral…
- BLCAD409: Joy and Pain: Lawsuits, Leg ups, and Love in Modern Dating · 2 h 3 min · Season 4 Episode 9In Episode 9 of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew dives into Tyrese’s engagement drama, Yung Joc’s divorce over phone snooping, and the explosive allegations surrounding…
- AD408: Prize Picks, Who’s Really the Prize: Hunter, HOV, Ho’s, & Has-beens · 2 h 22 min · Season 4 Episode 8In the 8th episode of BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, Delilah Belvedere, Just J, and Delvin The Expert close out 2024 with lively discussions and…
- BLCAD407: Jay-Z Denies, Remy Ma/Papoose Demise, & Double Standards Arise! · 2 h 15 min · Season 4 Episode 7On the seventh episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, joined by Just J, Kim Johnson, Delvin the Expert, and new host Delilah Belvedere, dives into provocative…
- BLCAD406: Hall Passes, Hoe-dometers & Why Men & Women Cheat · 1 h 42 min · Season 4 Episode 6In this sixth episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the hosts tackle big questions around modern love and trust. They start by dissecting a tense post-game encounter…
- BLCAD405: Swingers and Misses: Lifestyle & Curveballs · 1 h 43 min · Season 4 Episode 5The fifth episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition features hosts Nic Nice, S.N.M. Jones, Kim Jones, and Just J as they dive into a lively discussion on modern relationships…







