Men Worth Dating
by Rafael Gomez
Society & CultureE · Explicit
Latest episode
“Men Need Better Men” | Megan Lucky on the Advice Men Are Getting…
“Men Need Better Men” | Megan Lucky on the Advice Men Are Getting…
About this podcast
(Formally Women on Men Podcast)
Every man says he’s a good guy. Not one of them can prove he’s done the work. You can.
I’m Rafael Gomez. There are ten standards that make a man worth dating: like women as people, know yourself, decide what you want, look after yourself, have a full life, go after what you want, keep your promises, be safe to be around, be kind not nice, be good company.
Not one of them is a trait you either have or you don’t. All ten are learnable, and working on any one of them improves your chances.
Here you’ll find teardowns of the advice men are being sold, interviews with women about what actually moves them, and the work itself.
Find out if you’re worth dating: menworthdating.com
Episodes
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- “Men Need Better Men” | Megan Lucky on the Advice Men Are Getting Online · 43 minMegan Lucky went viral twice for chugging a beer at the US Open, and the internet decided it knew who she was. She’s now training to be a therapist.We get into being labeled at…
- Your Loneliness Has Nothing To Do With Women | YV Edit · 1 h 3 minYV has been reading the manosphere since before most of its audience found it. She was deep in TheRedPill subreddit fifteen years ago, before it was quarantined, and she has been…
- Hypergamy Goes Both Ways | Therapist Jamie Lynn on the Red Pill’s Favorite Word · 44 minA licensed therapist went on a red pill podcast, didn’t like what she heard, and built the opposite. Jamie Lynn on why the techniques don’t survive contact with an actual…
- Everything The Red Pill Swears She Can't Be | Jade Greene · 52 minBuy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok…
- The Cambridge Debate Master Takes Apart The Red Pill | Tilly Middlehurst · 58 minBuy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok…
- She Went On Fresh & Fit & Exposed Their Manipulation Playbook | Mac Lawson · 60 minBuy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok…
- The Flirting Crisis Killing Men's Dating Lives | Marni Kinrys · 56 minBuy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok…
- The 4 Red Flags Women Won't Forgive (And Why Red Pill Tactics Backfire) | Amy Rushworth · 50 minBuy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok…
- She Dated a Red Pill Believer. Here's What She Observed. | Emily Elizabeth · 1 h 3 minBuy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok…
- She Worked at the Whatever Podcast. Here's What She Saw. | Felicity Hughes · 31 minBuy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/womenonmenpod/60min Join me live every Thursday on TikTok…
- The Truth About the Manosphere | Kyla Turner (Not So Erudite) · 1 h 2 minKyla Turner — known online as Not So Erudite — is a political commentator and former addiction counselor with a background in psychology and nursing. Her audience is 85% young…
- The Sex Recession, Debunking "High Value" Men, & The Low T Myth with Dr. Danielle Kramer · 41 minBuy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/womenonmenpod/60min Why are 1 in 3 young men completely opting out…
- Subconscious Dating Habits, Shadow Work, & The "Nice Guy" Trap with Veneta Nikolova · 54 minAre you recreating your childhood trauma in your dating life? Today on Women on Men, host Rafael Gomez sits down with Veneta Nikolova, a Somatic Shadow Work Coach specializing in…
- Deprogramming the Manosphere: Male Loneliness, Neurodivergence, and the "Bad Boy" Myth · 38 minThis week, Rafael is joined by Robyn Silber, a creator and author who applies her engineering background to a different kind of complex system: modern masculinity. Robin…
- Dating App Fatigue, Emotional Immaturity, and The "Male Loneliness" Myth with Hailey Ferretti · 54 minIn this episode of Women on Men, Rafael sits down with skincare specialist and TikTok creator Hailey Ferretti for a candid discussion about dating app burnout and the disconnect…
- The Plight of the Nice Guy: Bad Boys, Financial Stability & The "Good Man" Distinction w/ Drea Renee · 54 minWhy do women say they want a nice guy but date the bad boy? In this episode, Rafael joins forces with Drea Renee, host of Hey Babe, Can We Talk?, to explore the evolution of…
- Michelle Allegra Murad on What Women Actually Find Attractive · 53 minIn this episode of Women on Men, Rafael sits down with actress, writer, and producer Michelle Allegra Murad for a raw and thoughtful conversation about what women really find…
- How to Flirt Without Being Creepy: Brenna’s Guide for Men · 1 h 28 minBrenna Lynn, a speech-language pathologist and viral TikTok creator, joins the show to share her no-nonsense guide for men on dating, flirting, and building real attraction. She…
- Holly Solem on Masculinity, Attraction, and the Myth of the Provider · 47 minHolly Solem has been featured in Vogue, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily—but her bold questions on TikTok’s “Manthropology” series are what drew us in. In this candid conversation…
- Marriage, Masculinity & Emotional Intelligence | Lauren Faudree Interview · 46 minWhat do women actually want in a partner—and how does that change over time? In this episode of Women on Men, Lauren Faudree, a dance teacher, mom, and wife of six years, joins…
