Monarch for Love
av Michelle Hays
Ep. 235 - Does Your Spouse Owe You Sex?
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Monarch for Love is where heart meets humor, healing, and a whole lot of honesty. I’m Michelle Hays, a Heart-Centered Marriage Coach, Columnist, Author, Speaker, and lover of big feelings and even bigger breakthroughs. Around here, we talk about what really happens after “I do."
Think of this podcast as your weekly dose of soul food for relationships: part pep talk, part permission slip, and part practical guide to building love that lasts. Whether you’re navigating unmet expectations, emotional distance, or just trying to keep the romance alive between laundry loads and life’s chaos—I got you.
Because love isn’t something you find or lose. It’s something you choose. And when you choose love on purpose, something beautiful happens: you feel seen, safe, and truly connected. Come be part of a heart-forward community of listeners who are learning, laughing, and loving on purpose because your marriage deserves more than just survival—it deserves to thrive!
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- Ep. 235 - Does Your Spouse Owe You Sex? · 11 min · Episode 235Does your spouse owe you sex? It's a question many couples avoid, but the answer opens the door to a much deeper conversation about intimacy, rejection, and connection. In this…
- Ep. 234 - Before You Walk Away, Ask Yourself This · 17 min · Episode 234In this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays explores why good people who genuinely love each other can still find themselves in painful relationship patterns—and how to…
- Ep. 233 - Why “Communicate Better” Is Terrible Marriage Advice · 9 min · Episode 110In this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays challenges conventional marriage advice and explains why communication isn't just one skill. It's a collection of skills most…
- Ep. 232 - The 30 Seconds That Can Damage Your Marriage · 11 min · Episode 109In this week's episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays introduces her signature 3D Emotional Reset™, a simple, powerful tool to help you break destructive communication…
- Ep. 231 - The Marriage Mistake That Creates Emotional Distance · 12 min · Episode 108In this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays introduces The Perception Gap™: the space between what actually happened and the meaning we attach to it. Discover how…
- Ep, 230 - Feeling Unloved In Your Marriage? This May Be Why! · 10 min · Episode 107In this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays explores the painful disconnect that happens when love is present but goes unrecognized. Discover how assumptions, unmet…
- Ep. 229 - The Truth About Compatibility in Marriage · 10 minIn this week's episode, Michelle challenges the belief that strong relationships are built on sameness. You’ll learn why differences in communication, emotions, and personality…
- Ep. 228 - Stop Chasing Your Husband · 11 minIn this week's episode of the Monarch for Love Podcast, Michelle explains the difference between reaching for connection and creating pressure. You’ll learn how anxiety can turn…
- Ep. 227 - Why Love Isn’t Enough to Save a Marriage · 11 minCan two people deeply love each other and still struggle to stay connected? Absolutely. In this week's episode, Michelle challenges one of the most common beliefs about…
- Ep. 226 - Silent Treatment vs. Stonewalling: What’s Really Happening? · 12 minIs your spouse using silence to punish you—or are they emotionally overwhelmed and shutting down? In this episode of the Monarch for Love Podcast, Michelle explains the important…
- Ep. 225 - Why You Feel Unloved in Your Marriage · 9 minWhy can you be deeply loved by your spouse and still feel completely unloved? In this episode of the Monarch for Love Podcast, Michelle explores how quickly assumptions can shape…
- Ep. 224 - The Grief No One Talks About in Relationships · 36 minGrief isn’t only about death. It can show up when we get married, become parents, move, face infertility, become empty nesters, care for someone we love, or realize life didn’t…
- Ep. 223 - Have You Quietly Given Up on Your Marriage? · 8 minMost marriages don't end with a dramatic fight or a single heartbreaking moment. They begin to fade when one or both partners quietly stop trying. The conversations become fewer…
- Ep. 222 - Why You Keep Having the Same Argument in Your Marriage · 7 minDo you ever feel like you're having the same argument with your spouse over and over again...just with different details? In this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays…
- EP. 221 - Should You Stay in Your Marriage? · 9 minIf your marriage stayed exactly as it is today, would you feel fulfilled staying in it? It's a simple question, but it has the power to reveal what's really happening beneath…
- Ep. 220 - How Assumptions Create Distance in Marriage · 12 minIn this week's episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays explores how the stories we create about our partner's behavior often shape our feelings more than the behavior itself…
- Ep. 219 - Are You Unhappy in Your Marriage… or Just Emotionally Overwhelmed? · 15 minMany people believe they're unhappy in their marriage when they're actually exhausted, overwhelmed, and emotionally depleted.In this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays…
- Ep. 218 - Feeling Unloved in a Good Marriage · 10 minYour marriage looks good from the outside. There’s no major betrayal, no constant conflict, and yet something feels missing.In this episode, Michelle explores why feeling unloved…
- Ep. 217 - Communication Is Not Your Real Marriage Problem · 10 minIn this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays challenges one of the biggest relationship myths, that communication is the real problem in marriage. Michelle explores how…
- Ep. 216 - Before You Decide to Leave, Listen to This · 10 minIn this week's episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays shares the dangerous moment many people experience right before deciding to leave their marriage, the moment where…







