Not So Secret Lives
by Chantell Edwards and Karina Dustin
Society & CultureE · Explicit
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Are We Dating The Same Guy?
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About this podcast
Get ready for unfiltered conversations about dating, life, love, sex, and relationships with two best friends who have truly been through it all. From epic dating fails and steamy confessions to the ups and downs of finding real connection, we’re sharing our most raw and relatable stories with plenty of laughs and zero judgment. Whether you’re navigating the single life, figuring out love, or diving back into the dating pool, join us as we explore every twist and turn with honesty, humor, and heart.
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Episodes
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- Are We Dating The Same Guy? · 45 min · Season 1 Episode 29This week, we’re diving into the infamous “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook pages—and whew, do we have thoughts. Do we agree with the original intention of these pages?…
- Foreplay For The Win · 51 min · Season 1 Episode 28It’s getting real hot this week 🔥 We’re talking all things foreplay — what turns us on, what keeps it interesting, and why it’s way more than just the warm-up. Chan shocks…
- Love Bombed or Loved Right? · 44 min · Season 1 Episode 27Love is in the air — and we are so here for it! Big news... Karina and Chan are in relationships! 💕 It started off hot and heavy (are you surprised?) and it’s been going really…
- The Lost Episode: Know Your Worth · 49 min · Season 1 Episode 26This one’s been sitting in the vault — recorded back on August 21st, it’s our lost episode! We’re diving into knowing your worth — in relationships, in life, and within yourself…
- I Think I Want Out: Navigating Marriage Crises with Dr. Becky Whetstone · 1 h 11 min · Season 1 Episode 25When Dr. Becky's team reached out and asked if we wanted to have her on we couldn't say yes fast enough! This week we’re joined by Dr. Becky Whetstone, therapist, author, and…
- The Comeback Episode: Spice, Stories & Surprises · 51 min · Season 1 Episode 24We’re back, besties! 🎉 After a little summer break, your favorite duo is finally back behind the mics and catching you up on everything we’ve been up to. From vacations and…
- The Good Girl Era · 48 min · Season 1 Episode 23This week, we’re flipping the script on what it really means to be in our Good Girl / Soft Girl Era—and trust us, it’s not all sundresses and silence. We dive into the power of…
- Shame, Self-Confidence, and Self-Sabotage: Healing Before Dating · 43 min · Season 1 Episode 22In this powerful and honest episode, we dive deep into the complicated relationship between shame and self-confidence. From the invisible weight of social norms to the internal…
- The Silent Battle: Mental Health Awareness with Brook · 58 min · Season 1 Episode 21In this special episode, we’re stepping outside of our usual niche to shine a light on a topic that affects so many but is often left in the dark—mental health and suicide…
- The Male POV: One Man’s Opinion on Today’s Dating Scene · 1 h 8 min · Season 1 Episode 20Hey look Mom! We made it! Episode 20 coming in hot with our most requested topic... Male and female POV on dating! This week, we’re getting into the male perspective with a…
- Catch-Up & Chaos: Our Dating Diaries and Life Lately · 48 min · Season 1 Episode 19In this episode, Karina and Chan are back with all the juicy updates! From unexpected dates to wild encounters out in the real world, we’re spilling it all. Chan went out with…
- Becoming Jennie: Reclaiming Her Body, Her Voice, Her Life · 53 min · Season 1 Episode 18This week, we’re getting real (and a little rebellious) with our guest Jennie — who left the church and an 18-year marriage like it was a bad group chat and never looked back…
- Sex Myths & G Spot Truths · 37 min · Season 1 Episode 17This week, we’re busting myths and dropping facts—from erectile dysfunction and STIs to the age-old claim that men want sex more than women (uhh, let’s talk about that). We’re…
- Getting Spiritually Smacked with Tarot Readings by Haylie · 1 h 18 min · Season 1 Episode 16Getting Spiritually Smacked with Tarot Readings by Haylie In this episode, we sit down for a raw, honest, and unexpectedly emotional tarot reading with our magical, intuitive…
- Rewriting the Rules: Love, Identity & Owning Your Power · 51 min · Season 1 Episode 15This week, we sit down with an incredible guest whose journey is nothing short of inspiring. She went from being in a relationship with a Mormon man and raising five children to…
- Dating in Your 40s – A Complete Dumpster Fire · 1 h 10 min · Season 1 Episode 14Well, it happened. We don’t know how we got here but, here we are! Dating in your 40s! Buckle up, because it’s a wild ride! In this episode, we dive into the absolute chaos that…
- Swinging State of Mind: Love, Lust & ENM · 1 h 5 min · Season 1 Episode 13Ever wondered what it really means to be in an open relationship? In this episode, we sit down with the author of For Better or Even Better -Lauren Hayes, who is also a swinger…
- Dating Do’s & Don’ts: The Internet Said It, We Judge It · 48 min · Season 1 Episode 12Look, we’re not experts… but we’ve got Google to help us out! We took a deep dive into the internet’s list of dating do’s and don’ts, and let’s just say… we have thoughts. In…
- New Studio, New Dates, Same Hot Mess · 52 min · Season 1 Episode 11After a 2 week break and a couple recording hiccups were back baby! We’re officially in the studio, and we’re bringing the same raw, unfiltered energy with us! In this episode…
- Swiping, Sniffling, and Laughing: Our Adventures Back on Dating Apps · 1 h 0 min · Season 1 Episode 10In this episode, we're diving back into the world of dating apps and trying to navigate finding love (or at least a good laugh) while juggling our crazy schedules. Between…
