On The Contrary
by Onsite! Global Media
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About this podcast
ON THE CONTRARY, presented by Onsite!
ON THE CONTRARY is the podcast presented by Onsite! that explores love, dating, sex, marriage, divorce, city girls, f@#$ boys, and everything in between. Each episode, our hosts pull up a seat for honest, unfiltered conversations about relationships, boundaries, friendship, and the messy in-between moments everyone's lived through but few talk about out loud.
Equal parts funny, real, and a little chaotic; this is the group chat you wish you were in.
Available on YouTube and wherever you listen to podcasts.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 68 episodes
- Living With HIV for 15 Years: Dating, Disclosure & Breaking the Stigma | On the Contrary · 1 h 4 min · Season 2 Episode 16Season 2, Episode 16: "To Disclose or Not to Disclose: Real Talk on HIV" This is the conversation most people avoid. Today, we're not avoiding it. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the…
- Interracial Dating: Proximity, Status Symbol, or Trauma? | On The Contrary · 52 min · Season 2 Episode 15"Black Men, White Women: Trend, Trauma or Trophy?" This is the conversation the internet has had a million times, but never like this. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Randi…
- Money, Power, or Respect? The Debate That Divided The Table | OTC Bonus · 39 min · Season 2 Episode 14Bonus Episode: "All H8te Welcome: Money, Power & Respect" All h8te is welcome. This is the episode for you. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Randi, Rico, and Mr. Organic are…
- Food & S3x: The Connection Nobody Talks About | On the Contrary · 1 h 3 min · Episode 13Bonus Episode: Food & S3x: The Connection Nobody Talks About We said we were going to go there. And we meant it. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, Randi, and Mr. Organic…
- When To Stop Giving Men the Benefit of the Doubt | On the Contrary. · 40 min · Season 2 Episode 12Season 2, Episode 12: Outgrew or Grown Into? Every one of us came into adulthood with a set of rules that felt like law. Things we swore we would never do. Lines we said we…
- Are We Dropping the Ball on Appreciation in Relationships? | On the Contrary. · 33 min · Season 2 Episode 11Season 2, Episode 11: "Are We Dropping the Ball on Appreciation in Relationships?" The panel opened with a simple question: when was the last time you told someone you…
- Fake Gurus & Unsolicited Advice: Who Should You Trust? | On The Contrary. · 59 min · Season 2 Episode 10Season 2, Episode 10 "Thanks for the Advice" Everybody on social media is an expert. But who should you actually be listening to? 🗣️📉 Rah Ali, Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico…
- No Blueprint to Parenting: Inflation, Hypervigilance & Co-Parenting | On the Contrary · 56 min · Season 2 Episode 9Season 2, Episode 9 "No Blueprint to Parenting" Every generation thinks they're doing it better than the last. And every generation has something they completely got wrong. Rah…
- Are You Too Old For The Club? · 48 minSeason 2, Episode 7: How Do You Define Fun at Different Ages? At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid…
- Does Long Term Mean Low Desire · 57 min · Season 2 Episode 6Nobody wants to admit it. But after years with the same person the desire shifts. Is that normal? Is it a problem? Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis…
- Women Don’t Lose Friends, They Outgrow Them · 48 min · Season 2 Episode 5The narrative that women can’t keep friends, that we’re catty, competitive, and disloyal? We’re flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are…
- Bonnets & Durags Outside: Comfort or Careless? | On the Contrary · 49 min · Season 2 Episode 4Season 2, Episode 4: "Bonnets & Durags Outside: Yes or No" It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the…
- Why Is It So Hard For Men To Tell The Truth? | On the Contrary · 57 min · Season 2 Episode 3Season 2, Episode 3: Why is it so hard for men to tell the truth? Lies have ended more relationships than cheating ever has. And nobody on this panel is pretending otherwise. 🛑…
- Did Independent Women Anthems Ruin Modern Relationships? | On The Contrary · 48 min · Season 2 Episode 2Did music fuel a generation of single women, or did it just push back against unequal standards? On this episode of On The Contrary, we tackle how female empowerment anthems and…
- Do Men Really Like Women Who Don't Got Sh*t? | On The Contrary · 56 min · Season 2 Episode 1Does financial independence actually matter to men, or is social media lying to you? On this episode of On The Contrary, we unpack the controversial debate around modern dating…
- Is OnlyFans Ruining Relationships or Redefining Power? · 47 minOnlyFans: Empowerment or betrayal? In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive deep into the blurred lines between independence, intimacy, and insecurity.We’re asking…
- Booty Calls Part 2: When Feelings Get Involved… It Gets Messy | On The Contrary · 39 minThe conversation gets even hotter in Part 2—because let’s be real… once feelings get involved, booty calls get complicated. This episode, we’re diving into the real-life…
- Is Hip-Hop Hurting the Black Community or Telling Its Truth? · 46 minDoes hip-hop reflect the struggles of the Black community—or does it reinforce them? In this unapologetic episode of On The Contrary, the conversation gets deep, emotional, and…
- Booty Calls: No Strings Fun or Just a Fast Track to Drama? | On The Contrary · 30 minAre booty calls really no strings attached, or is someone always catching feelings? This episode, we’re breaking down the game—from sneaky links to whether a late-night “come…
- Polygamy: True Love or Just an Excuse to Cheat? · 59 minIs polygamy real love or just a way to avoid commitment? We’re debating whether having multiple partners is about freedom, emotional maturity, or control. Does it actually work…
