Self(ish) Confidence
by Jess Clerke
Latest episode
[326] It's time to come back to life, sis ✨
[326] It's time to come back to life, sis ✨
About this podcast
Self(ish) Confidence is your reminder that you don’t need to become someone else to create a life you love.
Hosted by Self-Discovery and Empowerment Mentor, Jess Clerke, this is the podcast for women who are ready to stop second-guessing themselves, let go of the “shoulds,” and start living life on their own terms.
We’re talking confidence, self-trust, identity, boundaries, relationships, motherhood, ambition, personal growth, and all the messy in-between moments that come with becoming more YOU.
Because confidence isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about knowing yourself well enough to trust your choices, even when they don’t make sense to everyone else.
Each week, Jess brings honest conversations, real-life stories, mindset shifts, and practical tools to help you question what you’ve been told you should want and get radically honest about what you actually want instead.
You don’t need more permission. You need more trust in yourself.
Welcome to Self(ish) Confidence. A place to trust yourself, own your truth, and live life on your terms.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 326 episodes
- [326] It's time to come back to life, sis ✨ · 27 min · Episode 326One small comment from a stranger can hit like a mirror. I’m at a Friday night blood test appointment, I nervously share what I do for work, and the nurse responds with kindness…
- [325] Reclaim Your Voice, Vision + Light · 27 min · Episode 325The world feels loud right now, and a lot of us are walking around with minds that never stop and plates that are already past full. So I want to start with one question that…
- [BOOST] Notice The Small Things · 12 min · Episode 324Tomorrow could be the best day of your life, the hardest day of your life, or the last one. That thought can feel heavy, but it can also be the cleanest reset we have when we’re…
- [323] Finish Confident In The Last 90 Days · 24 min · Episode 323The last 90 days of the year can mess with your head. One minute you feel fired up to finish strong, and the next you are wrapped in a heated blanket watching your calendar…
- [322] Stop Chasing Greener Grass · 25 min · Episode 322The grass is always greener until you get there and realize it comes with closures, sickness, and a whole new set of problems. I’m coming to you with a slightly scratchy voice…
- [321] Stop Letting Comparison Steal Your Pride · 24 min · Episode 321That reflex to say “I’m fine” can be the loudest sign that you’re not giving yourself enough room to feel what’s true. I’m Jess, and I’m getting real about a tender season over…
- [320] Becoming Unrecognizable · 30 min · Episode 320You know that moment when you catch your reflection and think, wait, I don’t even recognize myself? That’s what we’re unpacking today: the experience of becoming…
- [319] Overwhelm Reset: What is overwhelm trying to teach you? · 28 min · Episode 319Overwhelm can make you feel like you’re failing at life when the truth is simpler: you’re carrying too much, for too long, with too few breaks. Today we’re getting real about…
- [318] How to Trust Yourself When Life Changes Your Plans · 23 min · Episode 318Your plan can be perfect and life can still change by lunch. I’m Jess, and today I’m talking straight to the part of you that wants to control every pawn on the chessboard…
- [317] Break The Thought Loop · 33 min · Episode 317Your brain can turn one hard moment into a full-time soundtrack, and suddenly you’re living inside a rerun instead of your real life. I’m Jess, and I’m sharing what’s been…
- [BOOST] What If Someone Needs What You Create? · 12 min · Episode 316Your best ideas always show up at the worst time: when you’re driving, showering, or staring at the ceiling right before sleep. I'm jumping on the mic for a short bonus boost to…
- [315] How To Let Go Of Identities That No Longer Fit · 27 min · Episode 315You can outgrow a label and still keep living like it’s true. We’re talking about the sneaky way old identities cling to us, even after we’ve healed, evolved, and built a life…
- [314] Seasons That Shake Your Identity · 33 min · Episode 314Change can be exciting, but the part nobody warns you about is the identity whiplash. One day you’re handling life like you always have, and the next you’re in a new season, new…
- [313] What If Your Best Summer Starts With Fun · 26 min · Episode 313Summer doesn’t wait, and neither should your joy. I’m Jess, and I’m talking to the woman who loves a checklist but keeps putting her own fun at the bottom of it, the “I’ll relax…
- [312] The Things I Swore I'd Never Do · 29 min · Episode 312“I would never do that” can feel like a boundary, but sometimes it’s a wall. Today we get honest about the weird moment when you look back at your past self and laugh because you…
- [311] Your Lack Of Confidence Is Showing 🙈 · 27 min · Episode 311The fastest way to spot a confidence dip is not in what you say, it’s in what you do next: the overexplaining, the defensiveness, the mental replay of a one-minute interaction…
- [310] What If Your Distractions Aren’t Random At All · 32 min · Episode 310Your attention is getting pulled in a hundred directions, and it’s not because you’re lazy or “bad at discipline.” It’s because modern life is designed to distract you and if…
- [309] Stop Letting Other People’s Fear Lead · 33 min · Episode 309Someone hears your dream and suddenly it feels risky, unrealistic, or “too much.” That moment can look like advice, concern, or even excitement, but underneath it is often the…
- [308] Being Delulu in Barbados: a BTS Look of the recent Self(ish) Retreat · 31 min · Episode 308Mom guilt tells us we have to pick a lane: be fully present at home or fully committed to the dream. I’m fresh back from our Barbados Selfish Retreat, and I’m here to tell you…
- [307] How To Quit The Comparison Trap And Trust Your Own Path · 20 min · Episode 307Comparison has a sneaky way of dressing up like motivation, then leaving you with that heavy “I’m not doing enough” feeling. While I’m in full pre-retreat mode packing for…
