Self Obsessed
by Tam Kaur
the ultimate guide to being the woman who ACTUALLY follows through…
About this podcast
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 141 episodes
- the ultimate guide to being the woman who ACTUALLY follows through and gets sh*t done · 16 minORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY JOURNAL if you've been struggling with procrastination or constantly feeling like you need to reset your life, consider this your ultimate guide to…
- chatty Q&A | friendships, boundaries, life goals, work/life balance + more · 23 min[ad] Text CHECK to 82228 to sign up for CoppaFeel!’s free monthly text reminder service, and they’ll remind you to check your chest every month. ORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY JOURNAL…
- GIRL TALK Q&A: boyfriend drama, toxic friends, jealousy & hard truths you need to hear · 34 min[ad] Text CHECK to 82228 to sign up for CoppaFeel!’s free monthly text reminder service, and they’ll remind you to check your chest every month. ORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY JOURNAL…
- life update Q&A | marriage, friendships, insecurities, success + what’s next · 39 min[ad] Text CHECK to 82228 to sign up for CoppaFeel!’s free monthly text reminder service, and they’ll remind you to check your chest every month. PRE-ORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY…
- everything I wish I knew before 25 · 24 min[ad] Text CHECK to 82228 to sign up for CoppaFeel!’s free monthly text reminder service, and they’ll remind you to check your chest every month. PRE ORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY…
- 5 steps to Manifest Your Dream Partner in a Self-Obsessed Way · 20 min[ad] Text CHECK to 82228 to sign up for CoppaFeel!’s free monthly text reminder service, and they’ll remind you to check your chest every month. PRE-ORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY…
- watch this before you go back to school for confidence [pep talk] · 17 mingoing back to school or university can feel like the perfect opportunity to reinvent yourself, but real confidence starts with changing how you see yourself. in this video, i’m…
- watch this when you feel behind in life | comparison, self-doubt, and finding your own path · 13 minfeeling like everyone else is moving forward while you’re falling behind in life? i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 10 reassuring facts and mindset shifts to help you…
- MID YEAR RESET 2026: the 1% plan to become unrecognisable in 6 months · 29 minif you've been waiting for a sign to reset your life, let this be it. the middle of the year is one of the most powerful times to pause and reflect because you still have enough…
- mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires · 23 minif you've ever felt invisible, believed you were "just shy," or convinced yourself that confidence was something other people were born with, this conversation is for you. we…
- why are women getting dumber on purpose? · 16 minif you've ever caught yourself saying "i'm just a girl," embracing girl math or girl dinner, or believing that helplessness is part of being feminine, this conversation is for…
- why undeserving people always seem to succeed · 12 minif they could do it without the credentials, the only thing standing between you and that outcome is not capability, it is belief. if you've ever wondered why people with less…
- why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did · 13 minthis video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it became…
- REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want · 23 minif you’re constantly overthinking texts, stuck in situationships, comparing yourself to girls in relationships, or feeling like everyone else finds love so easily except…
- how to transform your life before summer (you have one month) · 17 minthis is your mid-year reminder that you do not need to wait until january to become the woman you said you wanted to be. in this video, we reset your space, your phone, your…
- how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work) · 21 minthis one is for the woman who has already done the work. who knows the tools. who has grown and who keeps hitting the same wall every time she tries to go higher. your inner…
- how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life · 22 minyou already know how to be a b*tch. parts one, two, and three gave you the tools. part four goes somewhere the others never did. this one is about the bigger picture. why being…
- why women who put themselves first win every time · 22 minfor the woman who has always been the reliable one. the one who shows up, gives everything, and somehow still ends up last on her own list — without being able to explain why…
- how to ACTUALLY be yourself (when you've forgotten who that is) · 18 minfeeling disconnected from yourself and tired of second-guessing everything you say, do, and want? in this video, i’m talking about how people-pleasing, fear of rejection, and old…
- the ULTIMATE guide to becoming your own version of an "it girl" · 15 minhey girlies, i lost the outro clip during filming, so that’s why the ending is a little abrupt 😭 but i hope you guys still enjoyed the video. let me know your favorite part in…







