Softly Unfiltered
de Ashlyn & Blake
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Sobre este podcast
Hosted by Ashlyn and Blake, two multifaceted Black women based in Houston, Softly Unfiltered is where soft meets honest. Each week, we get real about personal growth, healing, navigating corporate America, and the messy, funny, and complex realities of modern dating. From breaking generational cycles to finding our voice in spaces that weren't built for us, our conversations blend honesty, humor, and hard truths—all rooted in our lived experiences.
Whether we're swapping stories, tackling trending topics, or unpacking the unspoken rules of friendship, relationships, beauty, ambition, and womanhood, we're here to remind you that you can be soft and strong, ambitious and at peace, healed and still healing.
If you've ever felt like you're balancing a hundred different versions of yourself, welcome. This is a space for the multifaceted girlies. Pull up a seat. The group chat is live. 💕
New episodes every Wednesday.
Episódios
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- Things We're Too Grown To Still Be Doing | Dating, Friendship & Boundaries · 37 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 18Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women. At…
- The Glow Up After the Hard Season | Why Women Come Back Differently · 34 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 17Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women…
- Stop Caring What People Think They Don't Live in Your Shoes · 35 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 16Everybody has an opinion about your life, but they are not the ones who have to live with the consequences of your choices. In this episode, Blake and Ashlyn talk about…
- I'm Not Who I Was, And That's the Point | Celebrating Growth, Change & Becoming · 44 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 15Episode 100. Almost two years of showing up, evolving, changing our minds, changing our standards, and becoming women our episode-one selves might not fully recognize. In this…
- Feel It, Don’t Become It | How to Manage Your Emotions Without Letting Them Control You · 49 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 14Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women…
- Who The Hell Was That? Outgrowing Old Versions of Yourself, Red Flags & Self Trust · 39 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 13Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women…
- Who Really Leads? | Unlearning Patriarchy, Submission & What Leadership Actually Means · 34 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 12Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women…
- Never Lose Yourself | Why Choosing Yourself Is Self-Preservation · 32 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 11Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women…
- Stop and Smell the Roses | High Achievers, Rest Guilt & Being Present · 34 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 10Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women…
- Does Independence Protect Black Women, or Is It Keeping Us Lonely? · 28 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 9Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women. In…
- Why Is It So Hard for Black Women to Be Average? | Twice as Good, Rest & Overachieving · 39 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 8In this episode, Blake and Ashlyn are asking a question that sounds simple but carries a lot of weight: why is it so hard for Black women to be average? From childhood, many…
- The Good Black Girl | How Being Good Follows Black Women Into Adulthood · 42 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 7Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women. In…
- Finish the Damn Thing. Stop Starting. Start Finishing. · 39 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 6In this episode Blake and Ashlyn are talking about the thing nobody wants to admit. The half-finished projects. The goals that started strong and lost steam. The new ideas that…
- Keep the Promises You Make to Yourself | Coach Zha on Pilates, Self-Trust & Discipline · 50 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 5Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women. In…
- Knowing When to Walk Away | Jobs, Friendships & Relationships · 37 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 4Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women. In…
- Strong or Struggling? | Why Black Women Struggle Asking For Help · 30 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 3In this episode Blake and Ashlyn are talking about something that a lot of women, and especially Black women, have a really hard time with. Asking for help. Why do we resist it…
- All I Need to Do Is Stay Black and Die | The Pressure to Make Everyone Else Comfortable · 31 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 2In this episode Blake and Ashlyn are talking about something that every Black woman in a predominantly white space has felt but does not always have the language for. The…
- What If Changing Direction Was the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You? · 34 min · Temporada 3 Episódio 1Welcome to Season 3 of Softly Unfiltered. Formerly known as Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we're back with a new name, the same mission, and a season opener that felt only right…
- Why Are Girls Low Key Weird? | The Truth About Female Friendships and Female Rivalry · 43 min · Temporada 2 Episódio 20In this episode Blake and Ashlyn are getting into something every woman has experienced but rarely says out loud. Why do female friendships sometimes come with unspoken…
- You're Not Asking for Too Much, You're Just Done Settling | Standards vs. Settling · 34 min · Temporada 2 Episódio 19In this episode Blake and Ashlyn are getting into something a lot of women have felt but couldn't always name. The difference between being fed up and being truly done. What…
