Sometimes Curious, Often Confused
by Richard Okongwu
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Somewhere between one and too many | Ep. 29
Somewhere between one and too many | Ep. 29
About this podcast
People are fascinating — how we think, how we talk, the choices we make, and I’m here for it.
I'm Richard Okongwu, and every week I talk about trust, money, and our relationships with one another. You know, the little and significant events that shape our lives.
This podcast is part thought experiment, part personal journal — sometimes messy, other times obvious, but always honest.
I'm no expert; just a guy trying to understand the world one idea at a time, and I ask questions along the way.
I hope to help you see the things you already knew — differently.
Reach out: [email protected]
Episodes
The newest 20 of 31 episodes
- Somewhere between one and too many | Ep. 29 · 14 min · Season 1 Episode 29I love numbers, I respect them. But sometimes I think we get lost in the abstract. We forget that behind these statistics are real people, with real stories. If you’ve ever…
- I Don't Hate Photographs | Ep. 28 · 17 min · Season 1 Episode 28Pictures help us hold on to moments we can’t relive. But, what happens when the pressure to get the perfect photograph overshadows the memory itself? In this episode, I explore…
- Why erase small beginnings? | Ep. 27 · 16 min · Season 1 Episode 27Why are some people so earger to erase the footprints of their small beginnings? On this episode, I talk about why we’re often quick to erase the steps that led to our success…
- You’re not fine, are you? | Ep. 26 · 16 min · Season 1 Episode 26We’ve all found ourselves on either side of the conversation, one person comfortable, the other uneasy. One willing to fix things, the other avoiding the talk. What’s the cost of…
- Why is being yourself so hard? | Ep. 25 · 15 min · Season 1 Episode 25How do you really be yourself without overthinking or overdoing it? I share a personal reset, the tension between authenticity and people-pleasing, and what happens when…
- “Can never be me” | Ep. 24 · 18 min · Season 1 Episode 24We live in a time where everyone’s life is open for comment, celebrities, strangers, even friends. Sometimes it’s harmless, other times it’s heavier than we realize. This episode…
- The Ones Who Get You | Ep. 23 · 25 min · Season 1 Episode 23Some people just get you no explanations, no long backstories, no defending why you like what you like. This isn’t about cutting people off or creating a “perfect circle,” but…
- How to start when you don't feel ready | Ep. 22 · 19 min · Season 1 Episode 22Starting is hard. Starting again can feel impossible. In this episode, I talk about fear, over-preparedness, and why lowering your expectations might actually help you keep…
- I'm going on a break · 4 min · Season 1 Episode 22After publishing 21 episodes, I feel like it’s time for a short break to reset and prevent burnout. Thanks so much for tuning in every Friday to listen to me think out loud…
- I wasn't insecure until they named it | Ep. 21 · 24 min · Season 1 Episode 21Spiral 21: I wasn't insecure until they named it. We all know what self-awareness can give us, but today I want to talk about what it can take away. The grief that shows up when…
- The Devil You Know: Why do We Stay in Situations That No Longer Serve Us? | Ep. 20 · 12 minSpiral 20: The Devil You Know: Why do We Stay in Situations That No Longer Serve Us? We have all made excuses for people's recklessness just because there is a part of them that…
- Maturing early, but at what cost? | Ep. 19 · 23 min · Season 1 Episode 19Spiral 19: Maturing early, but at what cost? You know, we love when children start acting mature early. We clap for them. We say, "Wow, you’re so responsible. You’re so…
- What if you became the friend you wanted? | Ep. 18 · 25 min · Season 1 Episode 18Spiral 18: What if you became the friend you wanted? We want people to show up for us the same way we show up for others. But who gets to show up first is usually an internal…
- Is Consistency Overrated? | Ep. 17 · 15 min · Season 1 Episode 17Spiral 17: Maybe Consistency Isn't Overrated Sometimes consistency feels overrated. It feels like showing up daily doesn’t mean anything if you don’t see results.But what if the…
- What if fame had an off button? | Ep. 16 · 14 min · Season 1 Episode 16Spiral 16: What if fame had an off button? Can we talk about what people think fame is? Because that’s not the same as what it really is. In this episode, I’m starting a new…
- Mental boundaries 101 | Ep. 15 · 8 min · Season 1 Episode 15Spiral 15: Access Granted What if every thought, compliment, or criticism needed permission before it could shape how we see ourselves? In this episode, I’m thinking out loud…
- How Are You, Really? | Ep. 14 · 5 min · Season 1 Episode 14When was the last time you really checked in with yourself? Not just a quick "I'm fine," but an actual moment to pause and ask… How am I, really? In this episode, we take a step…
- Should we allow people change their mind? | Ep. 13 · 22 min · Season 1 Episode 13We all say we want open conversations, but do we really allow people to change their minds? From influencers to politicians to everyday social media debates, there’s an unspoken…
- The Weight of Not Letting Go | Ep. 12 · 26 min · Season 1 Episode 12Ever had the perfect comeback—only for the moment to slip away? Or worse, forgotten what you were about to say entirely? That sting of loss isn’t just about words—it’s about…
- Not vulnerable enough? Get a hoodie | 11 · 27 min · Season 1 Episode 11In this episode, we dive into the blurry line between authenticity and performance. From influencers faking beach cleanups to the oddly consistent formula of online apology…
