Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys
av Truly Eleanor
Episode #66 Why You Go Quiet in Relationships After 40 (Even When…
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Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love.
I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good.
If you’ve ever thought:
“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?”
“Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?”
“Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?”
You’re in the right place.
This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected.
Love is closer than you think. Find me here: https://www.trulyeleanor.com
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- Episode #66 Why You Go Quiet in Relationships After 40 (Even When You Never Do Anywhere Else) · 23 min · Sesong 6 Episode 66You know that feeling when a conversation ends and somewhere on the drive home you think, I should have said that. For my guest today, that kind of staying quiet went on for…
- Episode #65: Dating After 40: How to Become a Woman Who Trusts What She Feels · 42 min · Sesong 6 Episode 65My guest, Emma Ferris, had all the tools. She was literally a nervous system coach. And she still handed over six figures to a man she loved who turned out to be a convicted con…
- Ep #64 Dating After 40: 5 Habits That Are Quietly Drowning Out Your Intuition · 12 minYour intuition hasn't abandoned you. It hasn't gone quiet. Something specific is drowning it out, and until you name it, you'll keep second-guessing yourself right out of your…
- Ep #63 From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust: How to Break the Unavailable Love Pattern After 40 · 32 minYou already know you keep choosing unavailable men. What you might not know yet is why. My guest this week, Pi Venus Winslow, spent years chasing connections that left her with…
- Ep #62: Is That Your Gut or Your Fear? A Body-Based Guide for Women Dating After 40 · 13 minYou've Googled it. You've journaled about it. You've asked your therapist. And you still can't tell if what you're feeling is your intuition or just that old anxiety doing its…
- Ep #61 Why Intuitive Women Still Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men After 40 · 18 minYou can know something 150% and still talk yourself out of it. This override is the central reason you keep ending up in the same place, with the same guy, in a different…
- Ep #60 The Identity Shift That Changes Everything About How You Date · 18 minYou've been doing the work. The journaling, the reflecting, the quiet moments where something clicked that you can't quite explain yet. This episode is your chance to feel how…
- Ep #59 Ready for Love After 40? Or Just Waiting to Feel Ready? · 13 minYou're not hiding behind healing anymore. You're not stuck in the waiting room. You're actually at the door. And somehow... you're still not walking through it. Here's a clue…
- Ep #58 Dating After 40: The Subtle Mistake That Keeps Love at a Distance · 18 minIf you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done the healing work, raised your standards, and promised yourself “never again” but now find yourself feeling guarded, cautious, and a…
- Ep #57 Dating After 40: The Hidden Reason You Never Feel Ready for Love · 17 minIf you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done all the things: therapy, journaling, inner child work, energy clearing, and you still feel like, “I’m just not quite ready yet”… this…
- Ep #56 Dating After 40: How to Stay Open and Still Protect Your Heart · 19 minIf you’re dating after 40 and you’ve built a strong, independent life… but still find yourself attracting emotionally unavailable men or feeling completely drained by dating…
- Ep #55 Emotional Safety Is the New Chemistry in Dating After 40 · 20 minIf you’re dating after 40 and the only connections that feel exciting are the ones that leave you anxious, overthinking everything, and wondering where you stand, this episode…
- Ep #54 Why You Pull Away From Good Guys (Dating After 40 Pattern Explained) · 19 minHave you ever gone on a date with a genuinely good guy… and then felt a sudden urge to pull away?Not because he did anything weird or said something offensive.Just a strong…
- Ep#53 Dating After 40: How to Tell the Difference Between Intuition + Fear · 19 minLast week we talked about anxiety when you like him. This week, we go deeper. Because once you understand your nervous system… the real question becomes: Can you tell the…
- Ep #52 What to Do When You Like Him and Anxiety Shows Up · 17 minIf you’re dating after 40 and you finally meet someone you genuinely like… and instead of feeling calm and excited, your body goes into panic mode, this episode is for you…
- Ep #51 Stop Proving Your Worth in Dating: Choose Love That Chooses You · 15 minIf you’re dating after 40 and keep finding yourself trying to secure your place in someone’s life, by explaining yourself, being endlessly understanding and waiting for him to be…
- Episode #50 Stop Overgiving in Dating: How to Finally Receive Love After 40 · 18 minIf you’re dating after 40 and keep finding yourself in the role of emotional caretaker, always understanding, always giving the benefit of the doubt, always staying longer than…
- EP #49 Why Healthy Love Feels Unfamiliar: And Why That’s Not a Red Flag · 17 minIf you’re dating after 40 and keep feeling drawn to emotionally unavailable guys even though what you want is calm, secure love, this episode will help you understand why. In…
- Episode #48 Dating After 40? 3 Steps To Break Old Patterns And Attract Healthy Love · 16 minIf you’re a single woman over 40 who’s tired of choosing emotionally unavailable guys, doubting yourself, or wondering why dating feels so exhausting, this episode gives you the…
- Episode #47 Dating Over 40? Here’s How to Silence the Self-Doubt · 18 minIf you’re dating after 40 and you feel like you are the thing getting in your own way, this episode is going to help you finally move forward. Today we’re unpacking the one…







