The Emil Show - All Things Relational
by Emil Harker
# 52 - "The Three Degrees of Marriage"
About this podcast
Get ready to transform your life through the power of relationship skills. The quality of our lives depends on the quality of our relationships. But what is it that determines the strength or quality of relationships? For over 20 years Emil has been working in the trenches of relationship recovery and greatness. Developing his own unique conflict resolution style, he empowers people to take charge or their relationships and single handedly bring about desired outcomes. This show cuts through the fluffy stuff and gets to the nitty gritty of what makes a relationship work. He teaches practical tools and principles to transform the important relationships in life and bring about greater satisfaction and fulfillment.
Episodes
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- # 52 - "The Three Degrees of Marriage" · 59 min · Season 1 Episode 52In this powerful episode, Emil introduces a perspective that challenges how most people think about marriage: what if the quality of your relationship isn’t determined by who you…
- Teen Series E 2 - "Your Teen Isn't Rebellious, They Are Scared!" TES E. 50 · 1 h 5 min · Season 1 Episode 50Are you struggling with a defiant, anxious, or rebellious teen? You’re not alone—and you’re not doing it wrong. In this powerful episode of The Emil Show, Emil sits down with…
- Teen Series E 1. "Stop Rescuing Your Teen! It's Backfiring!" TES E 49 · 45 min · Season 1 Episode 49🚨 Why Helping Your Teen Too Much Might Be Hurting Them (And What to Do Instead) If you’re a parent of a struggling teen—or a professional working with adolescents—this…
- Teen Series E 3. - "Why Trying To Control Your Teen Backfires?" TES E 51 · 48 min · Season 1 Episode 51Are you struggling with a defiant teen, constant power struggles, or feeling like nothing you do is working as a parent? In this powerful episode of The Emil Show, Emil Harker…
- #48 - The Passive Aggressive Response · 25 minDealing with passive aggressive comments are some of the hardest statements to respond to. Using the "translation" process it helps us protect our boundaries from these hurtful…
- #47 - Creating Connection · 23 minWhat is emotional connection? Why does it often decrease over time in relationships and how can we get it back? Emotional connection or intimacy is sometimes hard to describe…
- #46 - Is Happiness a Choice? · 16 minIs happiness really a choice? What role should your partner play in your happiness? In this episode, Emil describes the roles and responsibilities we have as individuals and as…
- #45 - One Secret to Marital Bliss · 29 minWhat is the secret to a great marriage? This is the most frequent question that I receive. The answer is simple: seeking, receiving, and responding to feedback. In this episode…
- #44 - Digging up the past? · 34 minWhat are the rules about bringing things up from the past? In relationships, partners often bring up the past during arguments in the present. Why does this happen, when is it…
- #43 - "Reel" Advice? You May Find Yourself With REAL Problems · 26 minIt's vital to be critical about any marriage advice you find online. Here's how to ensure you're getting good, reliable information: 1. Source Credibility: Reputable Websites…
- #42 - Positive Mind Powers with Jeff D Buehner · 52 minAre you tired of chasing the life you want? Do you wish there was a way to make your dreams a reality? In this episode, Emil interviews Jeff D Buehner, author of The Sultan's…
- #41- Love and Aging · 1 h 0 minIn this insightful episode, Emil welcomes his son, Hunter Harker, to discuss the crucial role relationships play in the overall well-being of seniors. Hunter draws from his…
- #40 - Crossover with the "Just Love Them" Podcast · 35 minIn this episode, Emil is interviewed by Shiree Best on her podcast, Just Love Them. What do you do when your kids are making poor choices? Do you tighten the reigns and set…
- #39 - Tonic powers of validation · 25 minWe may not be able to control the actions or feelings of others, but we can't deny our influence on them. In this episode, Emil explains how to maximize that influence. He shares…
- #38 - Keeping your Cool (And your friends) During an Election Year · 28 minDo you avoid discussing controversial topics with friends and family? Do conversations often get heated and uncomfortable? In this episode, Emil shares an effective communication…
- #37 - Difference between Codependent and Interdependent? · 25 minWhat’s the difference between codependency and interdependence in relationships? Codependency Definition: An unhealthy reliance on another person for emotional or physical needs…
- #36 - Real Self Care and Self Love · 33 minSocial media and popular psychology have skewed the way we think about self-love. It is more complex than simply relaxing or taking time for yourself. Self-love is the purest…
- #35 - Avoid Heartache in Dating pt. 2 · 32 minDating can be a challenging and stressful process. People often don’t know what to look for in a potential partner. In this episode, Emil resumes the discussion on how to find a…
- #34 - Avoid Heartache in Dating pt. 1 · 32 minAre you looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with? Are you wondering where to begin or how to find a good match? In this episode, Emil answers these questions and…
- #33 - Overcoming Addiction or Any Issue with Schedule · 31 minSet realistic goals. It is important to set realistic goals for yourself when you are trying to overcome addiction. Don't try to quit all at once, as this can be overwhelming and…







