The Empowered Divorce Podcast
by Amie Woolsey Certified Brainspotting Practitioner, APSATS-CPC, ICF-PCC
218. Remembering Who You Are After Divorce: 3 Steps to Get Your…
About this podcast
Divorce after betrayal trauma, infidelity, addiction or abuse is different. The Empowered Divorce Podcast meets women wherever they are—questioning whether to stay, preparing to leave, navigating divorce, or rebuilding afterward. Amie Woolsey brings trauma-informed, somatic support, practical tools and honest conversations to help you regulate your nervous system, understand abusive and high-conflict dynamics, rebuild self-trust, and move forward with clarity, dignity and agency. You are the chooser in what comes next.
Episodes
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- 218. Remembering Who You Are After Divorce: 3 Steps to Get Your Identity Back · 40 minHave you forgotten who you are? A simple question from my trainer stuck with me for days, and it opened up something so many of us carry after a destructive relationship. When…
- 217. The Unfairness Of A Life Saving Divorce · 34 minWhen you’re carrying the financial strain, parenting responsibilities, and losses of a divorce while your ex appears to carry on with life, “just focus on yourself” can feel…
- 216. Sexual Consent In Marriage; with Geoff Struer · 1 h 1 minWith the Cornell 7 case all over social media, so many women are wondering whether what happened to them counts, including what happened inside their marriage. This episode is…
- 215. Indifference After A Life-Saving Divorce: Healing Isn't Feeling Nothing · 19 minToday I’m talking about indifference—the idea that if you feel nothing about your ex, you must be “healed.” I get why that sounds appealing after betrayal, trauma, and a…
- 214. Father Wound with Terri Cole · 43 minI’m excited to welcome licensed psychotherapist and author Terri Cole back to the podcast to talk about her upcoming book, Father Wound (out November 17th), building on our past…
- 213. Autophagy and Healing: How Your Body's Cellular Cleanup Process Mirrors Betrayal Trauma Recovery · 25 minIn today’s episode, I’m sharing a few quick updates (no October live Q&A because I’ll be in Vancouver for training, the next Dating From Within workshop interest list is open for…
- 212. Healing After Divorce: Still Seeing Yourself Through Your Ex’s Eyes? · 25 minAfter divorce, your ex may be out of your life, but their lens can still come with you. You may find yourself questioning purchases, choices, how you look, what you wear, whether…
- 211. Healing After Betrayal: What Costa Rica Taught Me About Belonging, Self-Worth, and Slowing Down · 22 minAfter returning from nearly a month in Costa Rica leading a women's somatic healing retreat, I'm sharing two powerful lessons that deepened my own healing journey after betrayal…
- 2010. Will This Ever End? The Hidden Grief of High Conflict Divorce · 31 minSome days you don't need a framework. You need someone to sit with you and say: yes, that's real. That's what this episode is. If you've ever looked at your life a year, two…
- 209. Foot Zoning for Betrayal Trauma: How Your Feet Hold the Story of Your Body with Susan Child · 44 minIf you've experienced betrayal trauma, abuse, or divorce, you already know how deeply it lives in the body, not just the mind. In this episode, I sit down with Susan, founder of…
- 208. Stages Of Denial · 28 minIf you've ever known something was wrong but couldn't quite let yourself fully see it — this episode is for you. Today I'm sharing a video I created called Stages of Denial…
- 207. Healing From Abuse · 33 minHealing from an abusive relationship doesn't end when you leave. In this episode, betrayal trauma coach and somatic practitioner Amie Woolsey gets honest about what it actually…
- 206. Songs That Heal: A Divorce Recovery Conversation with Singer-Songwriter Brian Wolff · 53 minThis episode welcomes guest Brian Wolff, a singer-songwriter based here in Austin Texas who I discovered in the most Austin way possible: playing live at the farmers market on a…
- 205. Summer Song Series 2026; Stay Or Go with Elizabeth Garnett · 38 minWhat does it cost you to stay? What does it cost you to leave? And what happens when you have been stuck in that question so long you have stopped trusting yourself entirely? In…
- 204. Summer Song Series 2026; "I Miss Me Too" :How Betrayal Makes You Lose Yourself (and Find Yourself Again) · 20 minThere is a moment in healing that does not get talked about enough — the moment you realize you are not just grieving the relationship. You are grieving yourself. The version of…
- 203. Stages of Healing After Betrayal Trauma & Divorce (Part 2) · 46 minThis is a re-airing of Part 2 of the Victim → Chooser series, where I continue the framework for understanding the emotional and cognitive stages of healing after betrayal…
- 202. Stages of Healing After Betrayal: From Victim Thinking to Choosing Your Life (Part 1) · 38 minThis episode is a re-airing of a previously recorded two-part series on shifting from a victim mindset into a chooser mindset after betrayal, abuse, and relational trauma. I’m…
- 201. Why You Feel Stuck in the Past After Divorce (And How to Heal Your Nervous System) · 17 minAfter a life-saving divorce, many people expect that once they leave the relationship, they should feel better and move forward. But instead, they find themselves replaying…
- 200. Will My Kids Be OK After Divorce? A Daughter Answers/ Part 2 · 31 minIn Part 2 of this deeply personal and powerful conversation, my daughter, McKenna, continues sharing her perspective of growing up through divorce, betrayal, emotional pain…
- 199. Will My Kids Be OK After Divorce? A Daughter Answers / Part 1 · 46 minWhat is it really like for children growing up in a home impacted by betrayal, emotional abuse, addiction, and divorce? In this deeply vulnerable episode, Alana Gordon and I sit…







