The Keep Him Podcast
de Candice Katherine Febrile
Can Single Moms Raise Good Men? A Family-Building Expert Weighs In
Sobre este podcast
They can keep the man, we’re keeping everything else. The Keep Him Podcast is where women rewriting motherhood, legacy, and self-worth come to gather, get loud, and get free.
Hosted by Candice Katherine Febrile, single mom by choice, founder of the Keep Him Movement, and unapologetic voice for sovereignty. This show dives into what it really looks like to create family, freedom, and legacy on your own terms.
Expect raw solo episodes and bold conversations about:
• SMBC life: choosing donor conception, solo parenting, and thriving without a partner.
• Female sovereignty: rewriting self-worth, power, and legacy as women.
• Breaking the rules: ditching outdated scripts about motherhood, marriage, and “how life should look.”
Whether you’re exploring single motherhood by choice, already walking the path, or simply ready to stop apologizing and start keeping yourself, this is your space!
👑 This isn’t about keeping him. It’s about keeping you.
Episódios
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- Can Single Moms Raise Good Men? A Family-Building Expert Weighs In · 10 minDM your Host Directly People often ask me one question as a solo mom raising a son: "Who's going to teach him how to be a man?" But I think we're asking the wrong question. In…
- Things I Wish Every Woman Knew Before Having a Child With the Wrong Man · 16 minDM your Host Directly Choosing who you have children with is one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make... yet it's often treated as something that will simply "work itself…
- Can We Talk About The Things Women Aren't Supposed To Say · 9 minDM your Host Directly You already know that I cannot shut up about solo motherhood and female empowerment... let's talk about some other things women aren't supposed to talk…
- Things I'll Never Teach My Daughter About Relationships as a Single Mom · 10 minDM your Host Directly As parents, we're always teaching our children something. Not just through what we say, but through what we tolerate, what we model, what we pursue, and…
- Why More Women Are Choosing Motherhood Before Marriage · 12 minDM your Host Directly I think we're witnessing one of the biggest shifts in family structure in modern history. More women are choosing motherhood before marriage (or without…
- The Truth About Having One Child With an Ex… And One On Your Own · 15 minDM your Host Directly What happens when you still want another child… but no longer want to gamble your peace to have one? In this episode, I’m talking about the emotional…
- How I Built A Peaceful Family On My Own · 8 minDM your Host Directly There was a time in my life where I believed peace would come after I finally built the “right” kind of family. Marriage. The perfect relationship. The…
- Women Need To Stop Outsourcing Their Future · 6 minDM your Host Directly We need to talk about the lie women have been sold about motherhood, marriage, and what actually makes a family “whole.” In this episode, I’m unpacking why…
- You Don’t Actually Want a Traditional Family | SMBC, Donor Conception & Choosing Motherhood Alone · 34 minDM your Host Directly In case you missed the Live over on Instagram, this is the recording 🎧 You don’t actually want a “traditional family.” You want peace, stability…
- What Nobody Tells Women Considering SMBC (Single Mom by Choice) · 7 minDM your Host Directly A lot of women say they’re “still deciding” about solo motherhood… But often, they already know what they want. What they’re actually grieving is the life…
- You Don't Actually Want a Traditional Family · 12 minDM your Host Directly A lot of women don’t want a traditional family… they want the feeling they were told it would give them. You want safety. Choice. Peace. And a life that…
- Let’s Talk About It: Raising Kids Without a Father · 14 minDM your Host Directly This is one of the biggest fears I hear from women considering solo motherhood… “Will my child be okay without a father?” And I get it. We’ve been…
- Is it Scary to Have a Baby All on Your Own? · 14 min · Temporada 3DM your Host Directly I polled you guys and the majority of you are terrified of doing motherhood alone. A close second was waiting too long... we'll get into that one later…
- Our New Family Member + The December That Changes Everything · 11 minDM your Host Directly This episode is a cozy little life update, including introducing our newest family member (yes… we adopted a cat 🐾), AND a really important invitation for…
- The Emotional & Silent Cost of Waiting for the “Right” Partner · 20 min · Temporada 3DM your Host Directly We don’t talk about this enough… What it actually costs you to wait. Not just time, but your peace, your confidence, your emotional bandwidth, your dreams…
- I’m Finally Telling the Stories I Couldn’t Share… · 12 min · Temporada 3DM your Host Directly I’m doing something different this week… I opened a private Substack space called The Keep Him Collective. Basically, a group chat for women building life…
- Why Being a Single Mom Isn’t Lonely, It’s Liberating! · 17 min · Temporada 3DM your Host Directly They say single moms are lonely, struggling, or missing something, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. In this empowering episode, I share the real…
- How to Decenter Men Without Hating Them · 17 min · Temporada 3DM your Host Directly So many people confuse decentering men with hating men... but that’s not what this is about. In this episode, I break down what it really means to stop…
- The End of the Nuclear Family? What the Rise of Solo Motherhood Means for Our Future · 17 min · Temporada 3DM your Host Directly Are we witnessing the end of the "nuclear family" as we know it? In today’s episode, I dive into the rise of solo motherhood by choice and why more women…
- From Fear to Clarity: My Process for Choosing Single Motherhood · 19 minDM your Host Directly Deciding to become a single mom by choice can feel huge, emotional, and at times overwhelming. How do you know you’re making the right decision... and how…







