The REALationship Method
by Chris Lomboy
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Drug Addiction, Military Spouse Reality, and Authenticity w/ Yani
Drug Addiction, Military Spouse Reality, and Authenticity w/ Yani
About this podcast
The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!
Episodes
The newest 20 of 114 episodes
- Drug Addiction, Military Spouse Reality, and Authenticity w/ Yani · 1 h 12 min · Season 5 Episode 115Send us Fan Mail A DM can change your life if you send it with respect and a real purpose. We link up with Yani, a military spouse, mom, and content creator who keeps it…
- Standards, Situationships & Single Motherhood: Dating in 2026 with Kirsten · 1 h 8 min · Season 5 Episode 114Send us Fan Mail Ghosting, double taps, bar banter, and “I know my worth” quotes can all sound harmless until you’re the one trying to date with real responsibilities. We sit…
- Strong Bonds, Birthdays, Anniversaries and Marriage with Tiffany · 1 h 33 min · Season 5 Episode 113Send us Fan Mail A marriage can be strong and still need a reset, and we prove it with a week that packs in everything: a Strong Bonds marriage retreat, Tiff’s birthday, and our…
- Behind the Crown: Dating, Love & The REAL You with Charieze · 57 min · Season 5 Episode 112Send us Fan Mail What happens when you take off the crown, the makeup, the sash, and all the expectations—and just talk about being YOU? In this episode of The REALationship…
- Dating on God's Timing with Jes · 57 min · Season 5 Episode 111Send us Fan Mail Dating advice gets weird fast when everyone assumes you must be “talking to someone” just because you’re seen with a man. So we brought Jess on for her first…
- More Than His Girlfriend: Fitness, Influence & Finding Your Own Identity with Maka · 1 h 9 min · Season 5 Episode 110Send us Fan Mail People love to talk about “discipline” like it’s just willpower, but the truth is messier: schedules, stress, relationships, and social media all shape how we…
- 'Speak My Language', 10 Day Movement Mission, and Does Heartbreak Make Better Music?, with Kali Flower · 59 min · Season 5 Episode 109Send us Fan Mail A song can be a postcard from home or it can be a line in the sand. Kali Flower joins us in person for a super real conversation about coming back to Hawaii…
- Behind the Ink: Love, Life & Lowrider Culture with Kayla · 1 h 9 min · Season 5 Episode 108Send us Fan Mail You can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to put on their body and why, but you learn even more when you hear the stories behind it. We link up with…
- Misused Labels, Fast Rebounds & Justifying Ghosting with Tyler · 1 h 4 min · Season 5 Episode 107Send us Fan Mail Cutting someone off can feel like power and peace at the same time, but it can also be a way to dodge the conversation you’re scared to have. We sit down with…
- Love Frequency, Powerful Women Surrendering and Fake Lifestyles with Mzeye · 24 min · Episode 106Send us Fan Mail “I’ve never felt emotionally safe.” When Mzeye says that out loud, the whole conversation changes. We go from surface-level dating talk straight into what it…
- Bathroom Breaks, Hormone Shifts, and COVID Divorces with Lola · 56 min · Episode 105Send us Fan Mail The scariest relationship problems aren’t always the loud ones. Sometimes it’s the quiet drift: two people doing everything for the family, handling life like a…
- Creepy Bosses, Red Flag Ignorance, and Long Distance Trust with Kacee · 1 h 1 min · Episode 104Send us Fan Mail A “good opportunity” can turn into a bad situation fast, especially when money, access, and attention get mixed together. Kacee comes back to talk with us about…
- Modeling Scams, Hangin' Out with Baddies, and Picking up Poop with Amari · 56 min · Episode 103Send us Fan Mail Your dog can embarrass you in a coffee shop, your DMs can expose your boundaries, and your social media can either build your career or drain your peace. We link…
- Keeping Your Lashes On, Parental Cops, and Chris' Nair Experience with Lynn · 57 min · Episode 102Send us Fan Mail A tsunami alert hits your phone and half the neighborhood panics while the other half fires up a barbecue. That’s how this conversation starts, and it only gets…
- Love After Loss, Patience in New Relationships & Healing Outloud with King Katty · 57 minSend us Fan Mail You’ve probably met someone who looks “tough” and assumed they don’t feel much. This conversation flips that myth on its head. I sit down with Hawaii fighter and…
- 100!!! REAL Marriage Talk, Bad/Good Cop, and Brady Bunch Woes with Tiffany · 1 h 2 min · Season 5 Episode 100Send us Fan Mail We hit a milestone and decided to make it personal: Chris brings on his wife, Tiffany Lomboy, for the 100th episode of The REALationship Method, and we go…
- Creating the Scene, Persistent with the Vision and Protecting Your Worth with Scoot and Mai · 1 h 9 min · Season 5 Episode 99Send us Fan Mail Creative momentum doesn’t come from perfect conditions. It comes from saying yes early, learning when to say no, and mastering the details that most people…
- Cheesecake Factory Isn't Trash, Fake Collabs, and Red Flags in Casual Dating with Zakaila · 42 min · Season 5 Episode 98Send us Fan Mail A chance DM turned into a wide-open conversation with model, creator, and early childhood educator Zakaila—Seattle-born, Honolulu-rooted—about building a life…
- Couch-Surfing, Owning Cringe, and Scriptless Scripts with Suavenohea · 1 h 0 min · Season 5 Episode 97Send us Fan Mail A one-way ticket, a do-rag, and $200. That’s how Suave landed in Hawaii at 19, betting on instinct, island culture, and the kind of grind most people only…
- Finding Home Far From Home, Portland Protests, and Dating by Faith with Benny · 55 min · Season 5 Episode 96Send us Fan Mail A rainy city can make you feel alone even when you know everyone. That’s where Benny found himself in Portland—craving real community, steady sunshine, and a way…
