The We Do Collective
by Fallon Carter
Stationery Isn't Just Paper — It's Your Whole Story
About this podcast
The We Do Collective is your go-to podcast for all things wedding planning, hosted by luxury wedding planner Fallon Carter. Whether you're planning your wedding on your own or looking for expert guidance, this podcast is packed with practical advice, planning tips, and insider secrets to help you create the wedding of your dreams—without the stress. Each episode dives into everything from budgeting and timelines to vendor selection, wedding day logistics, and etiquette. With a mix of solo episodes, interviews with industry experts, and real advice from couples who’ve been through it, The We Do
Episodes
The newest 20 of 53 episodes
- Stationery Isn't Just Paper — It's Your Whole Story · 1 h 4 min · Season 3 Episode 15What does a stationer actually do? Turns out: creative director, copywriter, proofreader, etiquette expert, postage strategist, and occasional therapist — all before a single…
- The Deconstructed Wedding: Why Couples Are Splitting Their Big Day in Two · 32 min · Season 3 Episode 14A client called recently asking for something that's becoming more and more common: an intimate ceremony with 20 guests on one day, and a full celebration with everyone else on…
- Rentals 101: Ceremony to After-Party (What to Rent, What to Splurge On) · 54 min · Season 3 Episode 12Today we're breaking down one of the most foundational (and most misunderstood) parts of your wedding: the rental order. Fallon walks you through exactly what to rent from…
- Pricing Transparency: What 7 European Wedding Venues Cost for 65 Guests · 36 min · Season 3 Episode 12It's peak wedding season and Fallon is squeezing this episode in between client calls — but she's not skipping the good stuff. In this one, she breaks down what European…
- Juneteenth Special Edition : The Vendors of Color Who Show Up For Every One of My Weddings · 34 min · Season 3 Episode 11In honor of Juneteenth, Fallon is sharing the wedding vendors she calls first for almost every single project — the creatives who just happen to be Black, Brown, queer, and at…
- What a Wedding Planner Actually Does All Day (And Why It Matters Even If You Don't Hire One) · 38 min · Season 3 Episode 10Thinking about hiring a wedding planner but not sure if it's worth it? Or convinced you can do it yourself and just want to make sure? Either way, this episode is for you. Fallon…
- Burned Out, Bad Contracts & Bridal Party Drama: Real Talk on the Messy Middle of Wedding Planning · 49 min · Season 3 Episode 4Wedding planning hitting a wall? You're not alone. In this episode, Fallon answers six listener questions covering the stuff no one warns you about — from navigating serious…
- Answering the Questions Nearlyweds Are Actually Asking Right Now · 36 min · Season 3 Episode 4This week, Fallon is doing something a little different. With no questions in the inbox (yet!), she went out and found the questions nearlyweds are asking everywhere right now —…
- How I Build a Run of Show: The Most Important Document of Your Wedding Day · 44 min · Season 3 Episode 5The run of show goes by many names — wedding timeline, production schedule, master itinerary — but no matter what you call it, it's the document that holds every moving piece of…
- Wedding Insurance 101: What It Covers, What It Doesn't, and Why You Need It · 36 min · Season 3 Episode 6You signed the venue contract, saw "liability insurance required," and panicked-Googled. Same. In this episode, Fallon sits down with Meagan Phillips — wedding specialist with…
- How I Design a Wedding (Without Looking at Other Weddings) · 1 h 0 min · Season 3 Episode 5Today I'm walking you through exactly how I approach wedding design — from the very first site visit all the way through florals, linens, tabletop, lighting, and the day-of…
- How to Plan a $150,000 Wedding for 100 Guests (Without a Full-Service Planner) · 47 minYou've got $150,000 and 100 guests. The Pinterest boards are full of half-million-dollar weddings, and you're starting to wonder if your budget is even realistic. It is. And in…
- The Wedding Details That Fall Through the Cracks (And How to Catch Them) · 50 min · Season 3 Episode 3Fresh off a wedding weekend in LA, Fallon is pulling back the curtain on all the little details that tend to slip through the cracks — even with a planner on site. If you're deep…
- Title: How to Work With Hotels for Destination Weddings: Venue Research, Site Visits & Contracts · 59 min · Season 3 Episode 2Planning a destination wedding at a hotel? In this episode of The We Do Collective, wedding planner Fallon Carter breaks down everything you need to know before signing on the…
- The We Do Collective | S3 Ep. 1: "Bringing Back the Ceremony" · 58 min · Season 3 Episode 1Episode Overview Wedding ceremonies are the reason we're all there — so why do they keep getting pushed to the back burner? Fallon makes the case for giving your ceremony the…
- Lessons from a Rainy French Wedding in Brittany · 22 min · Season 2 Episode 27In this episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon takes you behind the scenes of a wedding in Quimper, Brittany, France. With 120 guests, a French groom, an American bride, this…
- Paris Wedding Recap: Lessons from Planning Abroad · 30 min · Season 1 Episode 26In this episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon Carter shares a behind-the-scenes recap of a Paris wedding she recently planned at Hôtel d’Évreux on Place Vendôme. With only two…
- Snatched, Styled & Stunning: Bridal Fashion with Selina Howard of Vainglorious Brides · 32 minIn this episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon Carter is joined by the incomparable Selina Howard, founder of Vainglorious Brides, to dive deep into the art of bridal styling…
- Behind the Lens: Lighting, Intention & Capturing the Soul of a Wedding with Amy Anaiz · 41 min · Season 2 Episode 24Photographer Amy Anaiz doesn’t just take beautiful pictures — she tells layered, intentional stories through light, movement, and emotion. In this episode, Fallon sits down with…
- Weather, Wedding Parties, and What I’d Do Differently – Dover Hall Recap · 27 min · Season 1 Episode 23On this week’s episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon Carter takes you behind the scenes of a summer wedding at Dover Hall in Virginia — and it was anything but smooth sailing…







