To Be Her Now
by Cara Sutterfield
18 Building a Life With More in It Part 3 of 3: Capacity
About this podcast
If you've ever had a quiet feeling that there's more for you — more joy, more purpose, more life — you're in the right place. To Be Her Now is a podcast for women who are ready to stop waiting and start becoming. We talk about the real stuff — health, healing, worthiness, spirituality, and what it actually looks like to close the gap between who you are and who you feel called to be. I'm Cara, and I'm on this path with you. Not ahead of you — with you. Come as you are. You belong here.
Episodes
- 18 Building a Life With More in It Part 3 of 3: Capacity · 28 min · Season 2 Episode 18What happens when life doesn't give you the option to say no? In the final episode of the three-part capacity series, Cara gets personal — sharing the season of change, grief…
- 17 You Don't Need a Reason to Say No. Capacity: Part 2 of 3 · 15 min · Season 2 Episode 17Do you feel guilty every time you say no? You're not alone — and it's not an accident. In this episode, Cara explores why so many women struggle to set limits, where the people…
- 16 What Is Your Capacity Today? Part 1 of 3 · 19 min · Season 2 Episode 16If you're constantly overwhelmed, overcommitted, and running on empty — this episode is for you. In part one of a three-part series, Cara explores why so many women are carrying…
- 15 Consistency as Devotion - "I AM" · 21 min · Season 2 Episode 15In this episode, Cara explores what happens when we stop treating consistency as a performance standard and start treating it as a spiritual practice. Drawing from her own…
- 14 Perimenopause: Your Body Isn't Broken, She's Doing What She's Supposed to Do · 32 min · Season 2 Episode 14In this episode, Cara opens up about one of the most misunderstood and undertalked transitions in a woman's life — perimenopause. Drawing on her own experience navigating…
- 13 Coming Home: What To Do When You Fall Off, Lose the Thread, and Need to Find Your Way Back · 20 min · Season 2 Episode 13We've all been there. One decision that sends us sideways, and suddenly a day becomes a week and a week starts to feel like evidence that we were never really going to change…
- 12 Follow The Flow: Synchronicity, Intuition, and the Life That's Been Guiding You All Along · 28 min · Season 2 Episode 12Have you ever felt a pull you couldn't explain — a quiet knowing that turned out to be exactly right? In this episode, Cara shares the season of her life that changed everything…
- 11 She Came Back: What I Learned From Living It · 15 min · Season 2 Episode 11After nearly two years of silence, To Be Her Now is back — and this episode is the honest story of why I stepped away, what I went through, and what I learned from actually…
- 10 Beat the Sunday Scaries · 10 min · Season 1 Episode 10Eight ideas to combat the Sunday Scaries so you can focus on enjoying your weekend!
- 09 Morning and Night Routines · 14 min · Season 1 Episode 9How can we be more intentional about how we start and end our day?
- 08 What's Lighting Me Up Lately · 10 min · Season 1 Episode 8A few bits and pieces of joy in my life, currently.
- 07 Unplug To Recharge · 5 min · Season 1 Episode 7Brainstorm of things to do that don't require electronics ... hopefully this helps expand your own list!
- 06 Tiny Bites to Achieve Huge Goals · 15 min · Season 1 Episode 6How do you take your biggest dreams, and make them possible? Let's talk about it ...
- 05 Your Authentic Self · 14 min · Season 1 Episode 5Let's explore what it feels like to be in your authenticity and how that feeds your purpose. Please note that the definition of authentic sited in this episode came from…
- 04 Give What You Desire and Stand In Worthiness · 9 min · Season 1 Episode 4We're talking about giving what you long to receive, and standing in your authentic power.
- 02 Visualize Your Future Self · 25 min · Season 1 Episode 2Experience a guided visualization to gain clarity on who you see yourself becoming.
- 01 Owning Where You Are, Claiming Who You're Becoming · 17 min · Season 1 Episode 1So often, we spend more time planning our vacations than we do planning our lives. Today we introduce the concept of what it means To Be Her Now. Then, we'll explore a framework…







