Wellish
by Sarah Ritondale
How to stop doing too much and still move toward your goals
About this podcast
Wellish is for people who can turn even the best self improvement advice into proof they're still not good enough. Hosted by Sarah Ritondale, Wellish filters the advice you're already consuming through enoughness, acceptance and real life. Together, we figure out what's genuinely useful, what needs translating and what you can leave behind especially if you are more type B, hard on yourself or tired of treating every imperfect habit like a flaw in your character. Come for casual confessions, honest conversations and practical help for growing without making who you are today the enemy. Because you can become more without believing you're less right now.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 298 episodes
- How to stop doing too much and still move toward your goals · 32 min · Season 5 Episode 293On today’s episode, I’m exploring how to stop overfunctioning while still taking action toward your goals. I talk about how planning, taking on too much, and trying to get…
- Confessing self-deprecation, over functioning, identity, and gratitude & affirmation journaling · 29 min · Season 5 Episode 292On this week’s Confessions of a Wellish Girly, I share my realization that when I try to be vulnerable, I only talk about my shadow self and always in the present tense. I rarely…
- Why you resist the change you actually want · 31 min · Season 5 Episode 291Wanting things to change and not wanting to change anything about your life right now can both be true and valid. In this episode, I'm breaking down ambivalence: what it is, how…
- Confessing struggles with ambivalence, chasing feelings, and phone addictions · 30 min · Season 5 Episode 290This week, I confess the conflicting thoughts and feelings I have about my physical, mental, and emotional wellness. I share how I’m following my “neutral yeses” to decide what…
- You know what you want so why is it hard to prioritize? · 32 min · Season 5 Episode 289On today's episode I am breaking down our struggle with boundaries. Using research-based evidence I am breaking down the five reasons we struggle with our priorities the most to…
- Confessing about wellness ruts, progressing goals, and emotional pain · 32 min · Season 5 Episode 288On this week's confession episode, I tell you about my years long evolution into a mental rut, how that came to be, what made me realize it, and what I'm doing to start working…
- Proof you don't have to have it all together to be well · 25 min · Season 5 Episode 287On today's episode I am talking about the research backed and widely discussed and debated definition of the term wellness, how to create an upward spiral toward becoming well…
- Confessing friendship god complexes, upward spirals and imperfect consistency · 29 min · Season 5 Episode 286On this episode I am introducing some new segments into our causal Friday episodes. I start the episode talking about my Wellish confession of the week that I have a god complex…
- Admitting you procrastinate is the first step in overcoming it · 23 min · Season 5 Episode 285If you want to develop any sort of wellness habit let it be physical, mental, emotional etc. you are going to be faced with procrastination, ESPECIALLY if you struggle with…
- The goal isn't getting rid of the overwhelming thoughts & feelings · 34 min · Season 5 Episode 284I thought the goal was getting rid of the negative overwhelming thoughts, but I've recently learned I've been working my a** off to fix the wrong thing. The real goal is making…
- Why do we have such a barrier to wellness habits when they make us feel so good? · 36 min · Season 5 Episode 283If you have ever tried to engage in basic wellness habits like exercise, drink water, getting better sleep or rest, eating whole foods, putting yourself in spaces to learn new…
- Trying to stop the negativity is making you feel worse | Confessions of a Wellish Girly · 26 min · Season 5 Episode 282The tools we're given to stop anxiety, rumination, anger, sadness insert any negative emotion is causing us to suppress our feelings. When we protect ourselves in that way to…
- Stop editing yourself to make people like you · 30 min · Season 5 Episode 281I took a week away from Wellish and realized I’d been trying so hard to get the podcast “right” that it stopped feeling like a place to hang out. In this episode, I’m talking…
- 5 years of Wellish: I was wrong about self improvement · 39 min · Season 4 Episode 280Five years ago, I started Wellish because I believed the right advice could help us become better versions of ourselves. Hundreds of conversations and several identity crises…
- You can’t self improve your way out of burnout: cortisol and chronic stress with Dr. Erin Kinney · 1 h 1 min · Season 4 Episode 279What if your “healthy” routine is actually spending more energy than it gives you? In this episode of Wellish, Sarah sits down with naturopathic doctor and The Cortisol Cure…
- How to tell if you want the goal or just the approval that comes with it · 38 min · Season 4 Episode 278Do you genuinely want the goal or do you want what achieving it would prove about you? In this episode of Wellish, Sarah breaks down how approval-seeking can quietly shape your…
- Confession: I turned everything I learned about self improvement into another reason I was’t doing enough · 20 min · Season 4 Episode 277What happens when self-awareness stops helping you understand yourself and starts giving you more reasons to think you should be doing better? In this confession episode, I’m…
- You don’t have to follow every good piece of self improvement advice · 25 min · Season 4 Episode 276If you love self-improvement but somehow every new piece of advice becomes another thing you feel like you should already be doing, this episode is for you. Wake up earlier…
- Confession: I thought being good at self improvement would make me feel better about myself · 41 min · Season 4 Episode 275What if self-improvement isn’t actually making you feel better about yourself? In this confession episode, I’m talking about the years I spent reading the books, learning the…
- How to tell if your self improvement is actually self rejection · 18 min · Season 4 Episode 274What if your self-improvement isn’t actually helping you feel better, it’s just giving you more reasons to feel like you’re not good enough yet? In this episode, we’re talking…







