Anger Management: Practical Tools to Control Anger
by Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert
105 - Why Pride Stops You Getting Help For Your Anger
About this podcast
Learning anger management is easy.
Applying it in the moments that matter is the hard part.
The Anger Management Podcast helps you turn anger management principles into real-world results. Hosted by anger expert Alastair Duhs, each episode delivers practical tools, proven strategies and straightforward guidance to help you control anger, stop losing your temper, and stay calm under pressure.
You'll learn how to identify anger triggers, improve emotional regulation, communicate more effectively during conflict, understand the root causes of anger and develop healthier responses when emotions run high.
Whether you're struggling with recurring frustration, explosive reactions, relationship conflict, parenting challenges, or the feeling that anger keeps coming back despite your best efforts, this show provides practical anger management strategies you can use immediately.
If you're looking for an anger management podcast focused on real-life solutions rather than theory, you're in the right place.
New episodes every week.
Popular episode topics: Anger Management, How to Control Anger, Anger Triggers, Staying Calm Under Pressure, Emotional Regulation, Managing Frustration, the Anger Iceberg, Conflict Resolution, the Root Cause of Anger and Healthy Responses to Anger.
Episodes
The newest 50 of 104 episodes
- 105 - Why Pride Stops You Getting Help For Your Anger · 13 minFor help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/. Someone has probably already asked you to do something about your anger. Colin said no for almost 10 years. By…
- 104 - 3 Shifts That Change How You Argue · 11 minFor help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/. Most advice about arguing tells you what not to do. Do not shout. Do not blame. Do not walk out. In this…
- 103 - Your Arguments Are Never About What You Think · 11 minFor help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/. Two weeks after the last argument, you are having it again. Different trigger, same fight, same ending. In this…
- 102 - 3 Simple Skills To Control Your Anger · 10 minFor help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/. You know you should stay calm. You promise yourself you will. Then something happens and you are already…
- 101 - Is Your Anger Tearing Your Marriage Apart? 5 Things to Do Right Now · 12 minFor help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Is anger creating distance in your marriage? Maybe your partner has started walking on eggshells around you…
- 100 - Is This Just Who I Am? 10 Stories That Prove You Can Control Your Anger. · 10 minFor help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever found yourself thinking: "Maybe this is just who I am?". If you've tried to control your anger before and…
- 99 - Do I Have an Anger Problem? 5 Questions to Help You Find Out · 11 minFor help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever wondered "Do I have an anger problem?". You don't have to be shouting, throwing things or losing control…
- 98 - Three Things to Do Before Your Anger Takes Over · 11 minFor help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever wondered why your anger seems to take over before you even realise what's happening? The truth is, there is…
- 97 - "Don't Take It Personally" Is Useless Advice - Here's What Actually Works · 12 minFor help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever been told "Don't take it personally"? It's advice almost everyone has heard - but almost nobody explains…
- 96 - His Daughter Sat Him Down at Christmas. Eighteen Months Later, Everything Had Changed. · 17 minFor help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com. One Christmas, Michael's daughter finally told him what decades of uncontrolled anger had done to their family. Eighteen…
- 95 - 10 Rules to Control Your Anger for Good · 13 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Most people think anger management is about calming down after they've already lost control. But if…
- 94 - Why Couples Drift Apart (And the 6 Hours a Week That Can Change Everything) · 12 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you started feeling more like housemates than partners? Most relationships don't fall apart…
- 93 - The Real Reason You Keep Having the Same Argument Again and Again · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Why do the same arguments keep happening over and over again? Whether it's your partner, your children…
- 92 - What to Say When Your Partner Is Upset (And Why Nothing You Say Seems to Help) · 12 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Your partner is upset. You want to help. But somehow, everything you say seems to make things worse…
- 91 - How to Control Anger: The Real Reason You Keep Losing Control · 11 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. If you've ever promised yourself that this time would be different - only to find yourself losing your…
- 90 - You've Grown Apart: Here’s How to Close the Distance · 11 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. You've grown apart, but that doesn't mean your relationship is over. Many couples still love each other…
- 89 - You Can Feel Your Anger Building: Here's What to Do Next · 11 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. You can feel your anger building. Your jaw tightens. Your thoughts get sharper. You know where it's…
- 88 - Online Anger Management vs Face-to-Face Programs (From Someone Who's Run 2,000+ Sessions) · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Online anger management or face-to-face programs. Which one actually works better? After running more…
- 87 - Why You're Still Losing It - Even After Trying Everything · 15 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. If your anger keeps coming back no matter how hard you try to control it, the problem may not be your…
- 86 - How to Tell If You Have Anger Issue · 11 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs walks through seven signs that anger may be causing real…
- 85 - She Grew Up Surrounded by Violence. Here's How She Finally Broke the Cycle. · 14 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs speaks with Fiona, a small business owner and mother who…
- 84 - When Someone Explodes at You - Here's How to Stay in Control · 11 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores one of the most common and difficult situations…
- 83 - The Real Reason You Can't Control Your Anger (It's Not What You Think) · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the real reason your anger feels uncontrollable…
- 82 - Why You Keep Yelling at Your Kids (Even When You're Trying Not To) · 13 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs tackles one of the most common and most painful patterns…
- 81 - He Thought He Didn't Have an Anger Problem. His Marriage Told a Different Story. · 18 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs sits down with Matthew, a 32-year-old husband, stepfather…
- 80 - The STOP Method: How to Control Anger Before It Controls You · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode of the Anger Management Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs introduces the STOP model…
- 79 - Why Your Partner Stops Talking to You (And How to Fix It) · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode of the Anger Management Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three concrete steps…
- 78 - Why You Keep Getting Triggered · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode of the Anger Management Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores one of the most…
- 77 - What Healthy Anger Actually Looks Like · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode of the Anger Management Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs challenges the idea that…
- 76 - The One Thing Happy Couples Do That Others Don't · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode of the Anger Management Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the single most…
- 75 - How to Rebuild Your Relationship After Separation · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. In this episode of the Anger Management Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs walks through five…
- 74 - Why Anger Keeps Destroying Your Relationship (And How to Stop It) · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Anger in a relationship doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship. But without the right tools…
- 73 - How to Stop a Fight Before It Does Real Damage · 10 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. You're in the middle of an argument with your partner. Your heart is racing, things are escalating and…
- 72 - Why You Overreact To Small Things · 9 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever completely lost it over something small, a dish in the sink or a towel on the floor, and…
- 71 - The 4 Behaviors That Predict Divorce (And How to Stop Them) · 14 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. You might think anger is your biggest relationship problem. You work hard on staying calm, bite your…
- 70 - The Listening Skill That Prevents 90% of Arguments · 11 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Think about the last argument you had with your partner. It probably started innocently enough—just a…
- 69 - Why Most People Fail At Anger Management · 13 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Why do most people who try to control their anger end up failing? It's not because they lack good…
- 68 - Why Defensiveness Is Wrecking Your Relationship · 17 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever been in a calm conversation that suddenly turns tense before you even realise what…
- 67 - Why Blaming Others Keeps You Stuck · 15 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever said, “You made me angry” , and felt completely justified in the moment… only to be left…
- 66 - Why Therapy Rarely Helps With Anger: Katie's Story · 14 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever realised your anger isn’t just affecting your relationship, but shaping the kind of…
- 65 - The One Habit That Quietly Destroys Relationships · 15 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever won an argument, only to walk away feeling tense, disconnected and strangely empty? In…
- 64 - The 3 Relationship Skills Most People Are Never Taught · 18 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Do you ever feel like you’re having the same argument over and over again? In this practical episode of…
- 63 - 3 Hidden Reasons You Snap So Quickly · 16 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Do you ever feel like your anger explodes out of nowhere? In this transformative episode, anger expert…
- 62 - 6 Easy Ways to Stop Anger Before It Starts · 19 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Ever feel like your anger takes over before you even realise it’s happening? In this practical and…
- 61 - 5 Hidden Excuses That Keep You Stuck in the Anger Cycle · 16 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. If you know your anger is hurting your relationships, but you keep putting off getting help, this…
- 60 - When Anger Destroys Your Relationship: Paul’s Story · 18 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. What happens when the people you love start to fear your anger? In this deeply personal episode, anger…
- 59 - The Hidden Triggers Behind Your Anger · 16 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever felt like your anger comes out of nowhere? Like one small moment flips a switch and…
- 58 - The Anger Myths That Are Secretly Ruining Your Life · 20 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Many people think they don’t have an anger problem. They’re just “passionate,” “stressed” or…
- 57 - The Hidden Link Between Anger And Alcohol · 21 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Does alcohol cause your anger outbursts? In this powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores…
- 56 - Stop Letting Anger Win: Three Lessons That Change Everything · 13 minFor more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Have you ever lost your temper and instantly regretted it? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs…







