Bisexual Killjoy
by bisexualkilljoy
S6E5: Sleeping with the Patriarchy: Bisexual Men and Masculinity
About this podcast
It’s not a phase; it’s a phenomenon. Bisexual Killjoy is an informative, hilarious, and occasionally spite-fueled podcast dedicated to everything bisexual+ (which means welcome to our pansexual and non-monosexual friends). Fronted by two bi+ folks willing to talk about anything and everything bi+, you can expect to hear good stories, meet bi+ scholars and advocates from around the world, and learn how to be a better Bisexual Killjoy. Find us @bisexualkilljoy on Instagram.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 50 episodes
- S6E5: Sleeping with the Patriarchy: Bisexual Men and Masculinity · 1 h 3 min · Season 6 Episode 5In today’s episode, “Sleeping with the Patriarchy: Bisexual Men and Masculinity,” we’re talking about bi+ men and feelings of masculinity. Just a bit of a heads-up, today’s paper…
- S6E4: What Do You Mean? Definitions of Bisexuality in Research · 54 min · Season 6 Episode 4Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Jace Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy talks about all things bisexual (pansexual, omnisexual, plurisexual, and…
- S6E3: The Gemini Effect: Bi+ Women Are Suspicious · 47 min · Season 6 Episode 3Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Jace Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy talks about all things bisexual (pansexual, omnisexual, plurisexual, and…
- S6E2: How to Convince Your Brain You’re Queer Enough · 42 min · Season 6 Episode 2We promised you cutting-edge research, and you know the killjoys make good on their promises. That’s right, we’re discussing the recent March 2026 article, “From…
- S6E1: Who Gets Counted? Why Bisexuality Needs Research · 52 min · Season 6 Episode 1Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! Online “discourse” is at an all-time high, and it’s about time we started building a solid foundation. Season 6 is here to gather the skills and…
- S5E9: Because I Love You · 41 min · Season 5 Episode 9We’re winding down this season on love, and what better way to bid you farewell than with a love letter? This episode is a walk down memory lane of all the nooks and crannies…
- S5E8: Bi+ Community as Revolution · 40 min · Season 5 Episode 8We don’t shut up about Bi+ community, and this season sure wasn’t going to be the exception. We’re firm believers that Bi+ community is the life-hack we all need to embrace so we…
- S5E7: Plurisexuals and the Myth of Platonic Purity · 58 min · Season 5 Episode 7Are friendships important? Can you be friends with folks of the genders they’re attracted to? Can bisexuals even HAVE friends? These questions have plagued us since we came out…
- S5E6: Shared Liminality of Love - A Reflection on Bi+ Polyamory · 44 min · Season 5 Episode 6For a lot of polyamorous people, being Bi+ is an important part of their lived experience. In this episode, our hosts expand on how both polyamory and Bi+ness are philosophically…
- S5E5: Bi+ Marriage & the Messy Middle · 47 min · Season 5 Episode 5The question that abounds in Bi+ subreddits and support groups is: If you’re already married, does being Bi+ even matter? This episode, we give this question the attention it…
- S5E4: The Harm in Silence & Isolation - Intimate Partner Violence with Katherine Wela Bogen · 59 min · Season 5 Episode 4This season is all about love, and one of the most important lessons we need to learn is how love cannot co-exist with abuse. Over a third of women in the US have been victims of…
- S5E3: Monogamy Didn’t Make Me Choose a Side · 39 min · Season 5 Episode 3Being a Bi+ monogamous person isn’t the oxymoron it seems to be. In this episode, Bailey shares about what it means to be monogamous while still holding on to her Bi+ identity…
- S5E2: Bi+ Single & Ready to Mingle · 49 min · Season 5 Episode 2Dating as Bi+ person comes with its own set of challenges. In this episode, we dive into what it means to be on the dating scene as a Bi+ person, and the role of self-love. Part…
- S5E1: Bi+ Love in a Time of Terror · 40 min · Season 5 Episode 1Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! The world outside our windows gets more terrifying by the hour, and we aren’t here to pretend it’s not happening. Season 5 explores a crucial…
- S4E9: What We Carry, What We Create · 1 h 8 min · Season 4 Episode 9Help Bisexual Killjoy by filling out this quick survey. We're closing this chapter the only way we know how: by looking backward, forward, and directly at ourselves. This week…
- S4E8: Living in the Future with Give It To Me Bi · 37 min · Season 4 Episode 8Help Bisexual Killjoy by filling out this quick survey. Teamwork makes the Bi+ dream work! This week, we’re diving into a fellow Bi+ advocacy project, the Give it To Me Bi…
- S4E7: Bi+ Storytelling Across Generations with Bi Cities! · 50 min · Episode 10By now we know that Bi+ people are everywhere, but are there Bi+ Cities? This week, we’re getting all the tips and tricks for building a Bi+ talk show that lasts for over a…
- S4E6: Bi+ History in Motion with Martin Rawlings-Fein · 41 min · Season 4 Episode 6Finding and celebrating Bi+ media is something that speaks deeply to the hearts of the Bi+ community. Today, we’re digging deep on what it means to explore Bi+ stories through…
- S4E5: Building Bi+ Power in the ‘90s with Barry Saiff · 37 min · Season 4 Episode 5Bi+ people are everywhere, and we know networks are crucial to our survival. This week, we’re diving into the history of BiNet USA, and the ripple effects of Bi+ collectives with…
- S4E4: Making Bi+ History in the UK with Jen Yockney · 1 h 9 min · Season 4 Episode 4Welcome back to Bisexual Killjoy! This week, we’re exploring what it takes to begin a Bi+ history-keeping project and keep it going with the founder of Bi Community News, Jen…







