boy meets therapy
by Dustin Oliver
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About this podcast
Ever wondered how therapy really works when you take out all the fluff? In this podcast, we sit down with licensed therapists to explore the tools they use in modern therapy, using language you can actually understand. Along the way, we get to know the clinicians behind the work, uncovering their insights, experiences, and what drives them to help others. Whether you’re curious about therapy, seeking mental health tips, or just love deep conversations, we’d love to have you join us.
This is the real conversation you want with a therapist
Episodes
The newest 20 of 74 episodes
- What If He is Love Bombing Me? | Therapist Q&Gay · 20 min · Episode 28NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin Oliver answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about love bombing, a guy who isn't…
- How Do I Deal With Bottoming Anxiety? | Therapist Q&Gay · 15 min · Episode 27NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin Oliver answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about bottoming anxiety, why the…
- What's the Obsession with Tops and Bottoms? | Therapist Q&Gay · 19 min · Episode 26NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin Oliver answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about the obsession between "top" and…
- Did My Gay Property Manager Reject Me? | Therapist Q&Gay · 18 min · Episode 25NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin Oliver answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about how to be nice to other gays…
- Gay Men and Their Relationships With Straight Men · 53 min · Season 4 Episode 16What shapes the relationships between gay and straight men? In this episode, we explore the psychology of gay-straight friendships, including masculinity, male friendship…
- What If I Want My Ex But My Friends Hate Him? | Therapist Q&Gay · 19 min · Episode 24NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about when our friends don't want us getting…
- Gay Men and the Need for Achievement · 44 min · Season 4 Episode 15Why are gay men so successful, and is there actually research behind the stereotype? Studies have found that gay men have unusually high levels of educational achievement…
- Why Do Gays Always Fall For Unavailable Men? | Therapist Q&Gay · 11 min · Episode 23NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about why gays many fall for unavailable men…
- Gay Men, Eating Disorders, and Food Noise · 35 min · Season 4 Episode 14Eating disorders are often associated with women, but disordered eating can be easy to miss in men, especially when it looks like fitness, dieting, or discipline. In this…
- Can Gays Date with No Friends? | Therapist Q&Gay · 19 min · Episode 22NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about dating while not having any friends…
- HIV: What You Need To Know in 30 Minutes · 32 min · Season 4 Episode 13In this episode, we break down what the science actually says about HIV today. We cover the difference between HIV and AIDS, modern HIV treatment, viral suppression and U=U, how…
- How to Get Over a Crush on a Straight Friend | Therapist Q&Gay · 18 min · Episode 21NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we talk about crushes on our straight friends and…
- Gay Voice and the Psychology of Sounding Gay · 37 min · Season 4 Episode 12Why do some gay men “sound gay”? And can people actually tell someone’s sexuality just by hearing their voice? In this episode, we look at the psychology and science of the “gay…
- Gays Say I Love You Too Soon? | Therapist Q&Gay · 14 min · Episode 20NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we look at the romanticization of someone who…
- The Psychology of Gay Hookup Culture · 46 min · Season 4 Episode 11Hookup culture is one of the most visible, debated, and misunderstood parts of gay male culture, but what does psychology actually tell us about it? In this episode, we explore…
- Gay Friends are Superficial and Only Want to Hookup? | Therapist Q&Gay · 18 min · Episode 19NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we explore the frustrations of not being able to…
- Gay Men and the Almost Relationship · 34 min · Season 4 Episode 10This episode, we explore the psychology of what I’m calling the ”almost” relationship. An almost relationship is a connection that became psychologically significant before it…
- Do We Ever Overcome Internalized Homophobia? | Therapist Q&Gay · 17 min · Episode 18This week, we answer questions about overcoming internalized homophobia and fear of intimacy, looking for a relationship when you’ve never been in one, and when your friends…
- Gay Men and Compartmentalization · 47 min · Season 4 Episode 9In this episode, we explore the psychology of compartmentalization through the lens of gay male development. Why do so many gay men feel like different people around family, at…
- Am I Attractive Enough for a Boyfriend? | Therapist Q&Gay · 18 min · Episode 17Nyc therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram. This week, we answer questions about feeling attractive or…
