Forgive Yourself
by Brenda Reiss
134: When Life Takes More Than You Have to Give - Grief, Survival…
About this podcast
Host Brenda Reiss is a Freedom and Forgiveness coach, and a person just like you that is learning to navigate life and all its challenges. She teaches a forgiveness process like no other. It's a blend of practical and spiritual forgiveness. This process guides you into knowing how unforgiveness can be keeping you stuck in your relationships, both personally and professionally, preventing you from releasing resentment and finding joy. Each week I share practical and some not so practical tips, tools, and advice from myself and other people that are on this journey just like us. This is for you if you are ready to turn your pain into peace. Welcome to the Forgive Yourself podcast.
Episodes
The newest 20 of 134 episodes
- 134: When Life Takes More Than You Have to Give - Grief, Survival, and Finding Your Way Back · 40 minGrief doesn’t always have a clear beginning or end. Sometimes it comes with a gradual change in a relationship, a shift in our health, or the loss of a future we once imagined…
- 133: Your Marriage After the Kids Leave - Relearning How to Be a Couple · 41 minThe kids have left home, the house is quieter, and you finally have more time together. So why does your partner suddenly feel like a stranger? In this episode, I explore how…
- 132: Learning to Forgive When the Apology Never Comes · 1 h 9 minSometimes the greatest freedom comes from learning to let go of what we cannot change. In this episode, I welcome TEDx speaker, author, and forgiveness advocate Michael B. Ling…
- 131: What Happened to You Doesn’t Have to Define You · 1 h 2 minThe ways we learn to survive as children can follow us long after the danger has passed. In this deeply personal conversation, I sit down with Rich Dunning, author of “Silence…
- 130: Who Are You When No One Needs You? The Emotional Side of the Empty Nest · 34 minAn empty nest can bring more freedom, more time, and a deep sense of pride in the children you’ve raised. It can also bring grief, loneliness, and questions about who you are…
- 129: Finding Your Way Back to Your Light · 1 h 2 minFinding your way back to yourself is about slowing down enough to hear what’s already within you, not doing more. In this episode, I sit down with best-selling author and…
- 128: From Self-Punishment to Self-Compassion · 1 h 1 minGetting sober, changing a behavior, or understanding your patterns doesn’t always mean you’ve healed from what’s underneath them. In this episode, I'm joined by Leif Bjelland…
- 127: How to Forgive the Version of You Who Didn’t Know Better · 1 h 6 minAfter heartbreak, it’s easy to look back and wonder: Why didn’t I see it sooner? Why did I stay? How did I let this happen? But taking responsibility for your past doesn’t have…
- 126: Rebuilding Your Health, Faith, and Life After Trauma · 50 minSometimes the symptoms we’re trying to silence are actually asking us to pay attention. In this episode, Dr. Jen Hewson, doctor of natural medicine, ordained minister, author…
- 125: Trusting Yourself to See Relationships Clearly · 47 minRelationships can become much harder to see clearly when our emotions, hopes, fears, and past experiences are involved. Sometimes we recognize the red flags or feel that…
- 124: You Haven't Messed Up Your Life · 48 minFor years, Paul Drayton believed his struggles with addiction, relationships, and identity were simply who he was. It wasn't until a life-changing ADHD diagnosis at age 50, the…
- 123: The Spiritual Practice of Forgiveness · 1 h 0 minSpiritual healing is about coming home to the divine wisdom that's already within you, not becoming someone new. In this heartfelt conversation, I sit down with author, yoga…
- 122: Acceptance Is Not the First Step · 1 h 2 minFor years, I've heard—and even believed—that acceptance was the answer. But through my own experiences with caregiving, health challenges, and now recovering from hamstring…
- 121: The Freedom to Trust Your Decisions · 29 minMaking the right decision doesn't always feel peaceful. Sometimes it feels lonely. Sometimes it feels uncomfortable. And sometimes it comes with guilt, grief, or the fear of…
- 120: The Freedom to Choose Without Guilt · 21 minWhy does guilt show up the moment you start honoring yourself? If you've ever set a boundary, said no, chosen rest, or spoken your truth only to immediately wonder if you were…
- 119: The Freedom to Stop Leaving Yourself Behind · 30 minEmotional freedom doesn't begin with a dramatic life change—it begins with one honest moment. In this episode, I explore what it really means to stop leaving yourself behind. If…
- 118: Healing the Father Wound - Becoming the Safe Place You Needed · 34 minHealing doesn't mean forgetting the past or pretending it didn't hurt. It means no longer allowing what you didn't receive to define who you are. In the final episode of this…
- 117: The Father Wound - How It Shapes the Way You Love, Trust, and Choose · 20 minThe father wound isn’t just about your father. It’s about the beliefs you formed about yourself when you didn’t feel fully seen, safe, protected, chosen, or emotionally met. In…
- 116: When Father's Day Feels Complicated - Forgiving What You Didn't Receive · 46 minFather’s Day can bring up more than celebration. It can stir grief, longing, anger, confusion, gratitude, or the ache of something that was never fully there. In the first…
- 115: The Self-Trust Practice That Changes Every Conversation · 39 minBetter conversations don’t begin with perfect words—they begin with a more honest relationship with yourself. In this final episode of the self-trust series, I bring everything…







