Nope! We're Not Monogamous
de Ellecia Paine
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You're Not a Hypocrite for Feeling Jealous in Non-Monogamy, EP. 167
You're Not a Hypocrite for Feeling Jealous in Non-Monogamy, EP. 167
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Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.
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- You're Not a Hypocrite for Feeling Jealous in Non-Monogamy, EP. 167 · 33 min · Episodio 167Can you be non-monogamous and still get jealous? And if you love dating other people but struggle when your partner does the same thing, does that make you a hypocrite? Come on…
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- Rewind: Jealousy, Compersion & the Messy Truth About Non-Monogamy with Dirty Lola · 1 h 11 min · Episodio 164Some of my favorite conversations on this podcast are the ones where we stop trying to make non-monogamy look perfect and just talk about what it's actually like. This is…
- Rewind: How to Build Secure Polyamorous Relationships | Jessica Fern & David Cooley · 1 h 4 min · Episodio 163Some conversations are just too good to stay buried in the archives. This week I'm bringing back one of my absolute favorite episodes with Jessica Fern, author of Polysecure, and…
- Growing Up in a Polyamorous Family | A Conversation with Koe Creation · 59 min · Episodio 162What is it actually like to grow up in a polyamorous family? There are plenty of opinions about how non-monogamy affects children, but very few of those opinions come from people…
- Rewind: Wilder on Closed Triads, Poly Families & Living Authentically, EP. 161 · 1 h 7 min · Episodio 161Some conversations are simply too good to leave in the archives. This week I'm re-releasing one of my favorite early episodes with my dear friend, Wilder. Even years later, this…
- What Nobody Teaches You About Polycule Dynamics with Red DeRooy and Stacey Smith? · 47 min · Episodio 160Most conversations about non-monogamy focus on opening a relationship, navigating jealousy, or finding new partners. But what happens after that? How do you navigate a polycule…
- The Courage to Show Up: Sex Positivity and Finding Your People with Jamie Love, EP. 159 · 34 min · Episodio 159What if the thing you're craving most isn't another dating app, another relationship book, or another set of rules? What if it's community? In this episode of Nope! We're Not…
- Compersion Isn’t Mandatory, EP. 158 · 28 min · Episodio 158Do you ever feel like everyone else in polyamory got the compersion memo except you? Like you're supposed to be thrilled when your partner is excited about someone else... and if…
- How to Talk About Jealousy Without Starting a Fight, EP. 157 · 13 min · Episodio 157Have you ever rehearsed a hard conversation in your head… and then the second you try to have it, everything comes out wrong? Maybe you shut down. Maybe you get defensive. Maybe…
- How to Stop Spiraling When Jealousy Takes Over, Ep. 156 · 18 min · Episodio 156Have you ever noticed how jealousy can completely hijack your body? Your thoughts race. Your chest tightens, You start looking for signs something is wrong. And suddenly you’re…
- Why Jealousy Hits So Hard (And What It’s Really Trying to Protect) EP. 154 · 13 min · Episodio 154Jealousy can feel overwhelming, shame-filled, and honestly… kind of brutal. A delayed text, a shift in energy, hearing your partner mention someone else, and suddenly your body…
- Jealousy, Boundaries, and the Things You’re Afraid to Ask For, EP. 155 · 18 min · Episodio 155Have you ever felt jealous… but underneath it was resentment? Maybe you said you were fine. Tried to be chill. Tried to be supportive. Tried not to be “too much.” But deep down…
- If It Feels Hard… You’re Not Doing It Wrong, EP. 153 · 12 min · Episodio 153Jealousy in non-monogamy doesn’t always look dramatic. Sometimes it’s not a big blow-up or obvious conflict. Sometimes it’s the slow build. A little comparison. A little…
- Dating Someone Who’s Already Partnered… and Still Feeling Alone, EP. 152 · 17 min · Episodio 152There’s a very specific kind of loneliness that can happen when you’re dating someone who’s already partnered. The connection can be real. The feelings can be real. And still……
- Communication Triangles in Polyamory: The Subtle Dynamic That Creates Drama EP. 151 · 15 min · Episodio 151Have you ever found yourself holding feelings about a relationship… that technically isn’t even yours? Like your partner shares something about their other partner…and suddenly…
- Showing Up Alone to a Swingers Event Changed Everything - Ep. 150 with Kate Heskett · 35 min · Episodio 150What if the thing you thought made you “too much”… was actually the doorway to deeper connection, more honest relationships, and a whole lot more pleasure? In this episode of…
- Metamours, Friendship, and the Myth of Instant Kitchen Table Polyamory, EP. 149 · 14 min · Episodio 149What are metamour relationships supposed to look like in non-monogamy? Do you have to be instant best friends… or even chosen family… with your partner’s partner? In this…
- NRE: Why New Relationship Energy Feels So Good (and Why You Should Slow Down) EP. 148 · 21 min · Episodio 148New Relationship Energy, or NRE, is one of the most talked-about dynamics in non-monogamy, and one of the most misunderstood. In this episode, relationship coach Ellecia Paine…
