Rewired Sober: The Next Chapter
af Kate Vitela
EP: 98 Finding Each Other, Finding Ourselves: The Power of…
Om denne podcast
Welcome to Rewired Sober: The Next Chapter—a podcast about what happens after survival.
I'm Kate Vitela, a psychiatric nurse with more than twenty-five years of nursing experience, speaker, and lifelong student of human behavior. For years, this podcast focused on alcohol, addiction science, and recovery. Those conversations changed lives—including my own—but something became increasingly clear.
The longer I worked with women, the less we talked about alcohol.
We talked about burnout. Identity. Midlife. Relationships. Confidence. Beauty. Careers. Boundaries. Self-worth. Style. The invisible expectations placed on women. The stories we inherited. And the courage it takes to become ourselves.
That's what this next chapter is about.
Here, we'll explore the psychology of identity, the neuroscience of behavior change, fashion and personal style, beauty, aging, feminism, emotional health, self-concept, and what it really means to evolve throughout our lives.
You'll hear conversations with psychologists, stylists, artists, authors, neuroscientists, entrepreneurs, nurses, and women who have reinvented themselves more than once. We'll ask better questions than "How do I fix myself?" Instead, we'll ask, "Who am I becoming?" and "What kind of life am I creating?"
Sobriety will always be part of my story. Getting sober in 2018 fundamentally changed the trajectory of my life, my nursing career, and my understanding of the human mind. Recovery taught me emotional literacy, humility, curiosity, and resilience. It will always shape the way I see the world, but it is no longer the only lens through which I want to explore it.
Because recovery isn't the destination.
It's the foundation.
Whether you're rebuilding after addiction, navigating midlife, questioning your career, redefining your style, learning to trust yourself again, or simply fascinated by why humans do what we do, you're in the right place.
Around here, you'll find conversations about:
Psychology and neuroscience
Women's mental health and emotional well-being
Identity, self-concept, and personal reinvention
Fashion, personal style, and beauty as forms of self-expression
Midlife, confidence, and aging with intention
Feminism, culture, and the pressures women navigate
Behavior change, habits, and resilience
Creativity, curiosity, and lifelong learning
Sobriety and recovery as part of a much bigger story
This isn't a podcast about becoming perfect.
It's about becoming more fully yourself.
So whether you've been here since episode one or you're just finding us now, thank you for being part of this community.
The goal was never simply to stop drinking.
The goal was always to build a life that feels honest, meaningful, creative, beautiful, and completely your own.
Welcome to the next chapter.
Episoder
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- EP: 98 Finding Each Other, Finding Ourselves: The Power of Connection in Recovery with Mel · 44 min. · Episode 98This week on Rewired Sober, I'm joined by Mel, an artist, mother, and creator of the Whoever You Art podcast, for an honest, funny, and deeply human conversation about addiction…
- EP: 97 Recovery Is Not a F*cking Wellness Trend: When Sobriety Becomes a Commodity · 45 min. · Episode 97Sobriety got cool. Mocktails got beautiful. Alcohol-free bottle shops opened. Sober influencers took over Instagram. Retreats, apps, coaches, supplements, memberships, courses…
- EP: 96 Being a Booze Free B*tch: A Conversation on Alcohol, Feminism & Midlife with Sarah Anderson · 35 min. · Episode 96What happens when you quit drinking—and realize alcohol wasn't actually making you wild, confident, sexy, rebellious, or free? Maybe it was just giving you permission to be the…
- EP: 95 Congrats on Your Midlife Failures: Most People Don't Ever Try with Lisa Hart Anderson · 50 min. · Episode 95What if midlife isn’t about becoming someone new—but finally giving yourself permission to be more of who you’ve always been? In this episode of Rewired Sober, I’m joined by Lisa…
- EP: 94 Am I Being Productive—or Just Really Fcking Impatient? · 30 min. · Episode 94I have always considered being a get-shit-done person one of my greatest strengths. Have an idea? Start it. Have a problem? Solve it. Want to try something? Stop overthinking and…
- EP 93 Recovery on the Runway and Break Free NYFW with Claire Comai · 45 min. · Episode 93What if getting sober didn’t mean leaving the party—but finally becoming fully present for your own life? In this episode of Rewired Sober, I’m joined by Claire Comai, founder…
- EP: 92 We Are All Magnificent Monsters: John Galliano, Addiction & Redemption · 53 min. · Episode 92What do we actually mean when we say we believe people can change? The controversy surrounding the canceled John Galliano exhibition at the Met sent me down a rabbit hole—not…
- Ep 91: Hello Beautiful: Who Are You When Breast Cancer Changes Everything? with Christine Handy · 54 min. · Episode 91What happens when life strips away the things you thought made you valuable? In this episode, I sit down with model, author, breast cancer survivor, and executive producer…
- EP: 90 When Beauty Becomes Celebration Instead of Correction with Sarah Siegel-Kolodziejski · 49 min. · Episode 90What if beauty wasn't about fixing what's wrong with us? What if it was about celebration, creativity, confidence, and feeling more like ourselves? In this episode, I'm joined by…
- EP: 89 You Don't Have to Monetize Your Joy: Starting Over in Midlife. · 34 min. · Episode 89Is midlife too late to start something new? Or have social media, hustle culture, and our obsession with turning every damn thing into an accomplishment convinced us that if…
- EP: 88 Fashion as Armor: Patricia Field, Old New York & the Psychology of Style — with Kate Tricarico · 54 min. · Episode 88What if getting dressed has less to do with fashion—and everything to do with identity? In this episode, I sit down with New York stylist and creative director Kate Tricarico to…
- EP: 87 Why Rewired Sober Is Evolving & Expanding the Conversation. Womanhood, Style, Identity, Fashion, Midlife, and So Much More. · 15 min. · Episode 87It's Time to Pivot: Why Rewired Sober Is Evolving Eight years ago, getting sober changed everything. For a long time, alcohol was the conversation because it had to be. It was…
- EP 86: Can You Heal in The Places That Broke You? Rewriting Our Story. Giving Our Brain New Evidence. · 29 min. · Episode 86Can healing happen in the very places where we once unraveled? In this deeply personal episode of Rewired Sober, I share the story of returning to Portland—a city that once…
- EP: 85 Alcohol Hijacked My Brain (And How I Got It Back) · 27 min. · Episode 85What if the greatest thing you recover in sobriety isn't your liver…it's your brain? In this episode of Rewired Sober, I share a deeply personal look at the ways alcohol quietly…
- EP: 84 Quit Breaking Promises to Yourself: The Science of Self-Trust · 25 min. · Episode 84Most people think recovery is about quitting alcohol. It's not. Quitting drinking is the beginning. Learning to trust yourself again is where real recovery begins. In this…
- EP: 83 How to Help Someone You Love Who Drinks Too Much (Without Losing Yourself) · 40 min. · Episode 83Watching someone you love struggle with alcohol can be heartbreaking, frustrating, confusing, and exhausting. Whether it's a spouse, parent, adult child, sibling, or friend, many…
- EP: 82 The Dopamine Myth: Why Anticipation is the Real Party Drug. · 41 min. · Episode 82Episode Description What if your craving isn't actually for alcohol? What if the thing you're chasing isn't the wine, the cocktail, or the buzz—but the feeling you believe it…
- EP: 81: Inside the Making of TOX: A Film About Beauty Obsession & the Cost of Perfection Starring Kerri Lynn Miller · 54 min. · Episode 81What do Botox, beauty culture, perfectionism, recovery, feminism, and self-worth have in common? More than most of us want to admit. In this powerful and surprisingly funny…
- EP: 80: Self-Objectification, AI, and the Lost Art of Being Human · 36 min. · Episode 80Rewired Sober 1:1 Coaching Spots Are Open (But Fill Up Fast) Start anytime and get 3 months of guidance from Kate designed for women in sobriety. Book a discovery call to…
- EP: 79: Neurodivergent in Recovery: Autism, GLP-1s, and Being Misunderstood in 12-Step Rooms with Rebecca Rush · 52 min. · Episode 79What do autism, Ozempic, alcohol cravings, recovery culture, and a Substack called The Loudest Girl in the Corner have in common? More than you might think. In this episode of…







